So what with a broken heart? Insomnia, less eating, no wish to be a life. Is true, you can go to doctor then he will give you pills for sleeping, for eating and will tell you the life must go on. But I'm 3 months in this condition. No positive thought in my mind. I'm going dipper in my depression.
I'm trying to smile when i'm with a friends, i'm trying to look happy at my work, that makes me more sad, acting happiness and crying in the heart.
I feel that i can't love again. I can't live without love, a lot of people can. I can't be with somebody that i don't love.
I hate myself every day more and more. Because i knew that i'm making a mestake and the end will be like this.
But the butterflies in the stomach made this, then love finished the rest-mind, body and heart conection.
.....can somebody help me?
2007-05-01 05:42:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i'm thinking to meet him. he ask me if i want to meet him. is that ok? i want to ask him if have some chance to be together again, but in a very near future. not poisoning myselfe with some hope, waiting for him and spending my time thinking of him. i still don't have clear situation, he he is planing.
Is better to talk face to face not on the phone and msn.
thanks
2007-05-05 03:10:20 · update #1
Ok heres what your going to do ! This weekend I want you to make a reservation at an expensive restaurant that has dancing and I want you not to eat light all day just a snack save your appetite for the night . Then you will show up on your best dress with a small flower in your hair . You can look forward to this all day it will bring out the wonder in you again ! Its going to be an adventure that night and you know it . Ahhh one thing do not drink alcohol before going and only order one glass of white wine no more . You will be rewarded my dear you deserve it !
2007-05-01 05:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have let somebody become MORE important to you than you're own self, Sandra. You need to take some responsibility for yourself here. I know it's VERY hard when you're heart has been broken in two, but listen, you've lived in this hell for 3 months now! It's time to care for YOU! If you had a child, who was hurting, WHAT would you do? Would you just watch? NO! Then DO whatever you would do for a hurting child for yourself! Reality is...you can't change what has happened...but perhaps you can change your tommorrow. Busy yourself. Get a new hobby. Make some new friends. Start enjoying this ONE life you have to live. Every moment you spend in the dark with the curtains drawn, is a beautiful moment you could have spent, laughing, lying on the beach enjoying the sun, visiting a friend you haven't seen in years, spending time with family or friends that love you...or just pampering YOURSELF. I have been through what you're going through now, and I finally woke up one day and said to myself..."Self....NO ONE is going to come rescue you from these bad feelings, or what has happened. You have to be your OWN best friend!" And do you know why you have to be your own best friend? Because YOU will never leave you! YOU will always want what's best for you! YOU will always be there no matter where you are or where anyone else is! Wake up! You are a beautiful, funny, smart, strong woman! Do not EVER let ONE man (or woman) bring you down to the point that you do not want to eat or cannot sleep...because the only one you are hurting is YOU. Let the sun shine on you, Girl! And realize that, no matter what, you are NOT alone. There are people who care. You're Higher Power cares....and you will not die because you have been hurt. You will learn from it, and you WILL become stronger, and you, My Dear, will be able to help others through this too.
Find a place to volunteer where people are worse off on you, and see if it doesn't make you realize some things. Hang in there...things ARE going to be better, but not until you step up for yourself and MAKE it happen. It will be hard, but you take one step at a time, until it finally gets easier, and then you wake up one day and realize you're HAPPY, really happy, just with yourself, and that you really don't need another person to be happy inside....and that is what will change your life. (Hugs)
2007-05-01 05:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U can't fight with a broken heart, only time can stick that puzzle 2gether, sorry to tell u this sandra but u got no cure , except if u could get that person who did this 2 u to love u again, gl dear
2007-05-04 07:42:32 · answer #3 · answered by r!7u4l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this won't help you right now, but the pain you are in right now will subside in time. Sometimes it takes 6 months to a year.
Get into a hobby, or read some novels to get your mind on other things.
2007-05-01 06:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by Maria S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heart which is an organ and pump the blood is broken means end of life. Second, the heart which store the emotions if broken give much pain which result in tears some one become upset. Thank you.
2016-05-18 00:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by rosann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to check into a psychiatric hospital. You depression has grown larger than you are able to handle on your own.
Please get help. You deserve a good life.
God Bless!
2007-05-01 05:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋