Marriage & Divorce - 30 April 2007

I feel like total crap for feeling like this, my wife just found out she is pregnant and all I can think about is how much I don't want to be here. For 2 months before this I talked to her about how i wasn't sure if this was what I really wanted, and maybe we should hold off a month or two so I can really decide. We haven't goten along really well for almosst two years but she still feels this is a good thing, I am not sure. I want to set a good example for my child, but I know we will continue arguing throughout the pregnancy and once the little one is here and i know from my own experience that is never a good thing. I want to feel better about this, but I want to make it right too. i have no idea what to do.

2007-04-30 23:20:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

HE CHEATED ME FOR 6 MONTHS.,HE CONFESSED ALMOST 2 MONTHS AGO..HE ADMITTED HE LOVED(?) THE GIRL.I GIVE HIM THE CHANCE TO MAKE UP...,PLS....HELP ME TO ENLIGHTEN MY MIND.IT'S REALLY PAINFUL..I KNOW THINGS WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN.MY TRUST,HIS FIDELITY...,I'M AFRAID IT WILL HAPPEN AGAIN.,DOES ANYONE CHEATED JUST ONCE OR ITS ALWAYS POSSIBLE TO HAPPEN AGAIN,...TO BE FAIR MY HUSBAND IS TRYING TO REGAIN MY TRUST..,ITS JUST IM SO AFRAID TO GIVE MY TRUST & LOVE AGAIN BUT IN THE END HE'LL DO IT AGAIN...

2007-04-30 23:01:41 · 11 answers · asked by shannel d 1

2007-04-30 22:48:35 · 12 answers · asked by bushman 1

i,ve been married for 12yrs and has never had a stable income from my husband. he is always relying on me to cove the bills. we have kids. do i stay in marriage for sake of kids

2007-04-30 22:41:17 · 22 answers · asked by Nazzy 1

I left my ex-bf bcos there is a huge age difference between us. When we were together, we had amazing sex, we loved each other deeply which made the sex life very good... Then I met someone else and got married, we 2 didnt have sex b4 the wedding, after getting married, I find Im not interested in having sex with him, I cant find the passion anymore, I still missed my exbf very much. But my husband has tried his best, he is very satisfied and enjoys the sex, but I dont, I feel painful...I always miss the long and passionate love making with my exbf, and cant get over it... What should I do now? How can I forget the past?

2007-04-30 22:33:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 21 soon to be 22. Married for just under a year now and living overseas with my husband (army). My family as a whole has always been fairly astranged and distant. My father (63) and mother(58) have been married for 25 years (26 in july). Both have children from previous marriages. I am their only child and 8 years the youngest. For reasons I won't disclose my parents are separating. My mother has moved down to florida with the idea of divorce around the fall of this year. My father is staying in MA but footing the bill for her and giving her an allowance. I don't know all the legal details but that's besides the point. Since I can remember I have wanted them to separate. When I first heard I said I'd support them in any decision and loved them both. But to tell the truth I want to scream. I want to tell them I WANT them to divorce (I have my reasons). I'm only holding back because i'm not in their immediate life anymore... but I'm still their child, does my opinion still count?

2007-04-30 22:30:50 · 12 answers · asked by cav71006 1

2007-04-30 22:25:24 · 6 answers · asked by hooks 2

2007-04-30 22:20:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

he prefers to spend time watching movies out doors. His friends are more important than I. I thought I could be the problem , so I tried to avoid nagging or any harsh form of communication. I even asked him about this. But all he said was that no man can live without friends. then I asked him to take me out with him sometimes, but he hates it. And whn he does he keeps a distance. What I know honestly is that I am beautiful, because I do modeling as a hobby which is always successful. In public, people have congratulated him in my presence on my beauty. Please I don't know which way to go this time.

2007-04-30 22:19:02 · 20 answers · asked by loveit 2

what made it the best day??what happened for u and your partner??

2007-04-30 22:11:49 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-04-30 22:10:13 · 6 answers · asked by ADEDOKUN A 1

My sister's soon to be ex is threatening to take custody of her son. They have been living seperate since July 06 when he forced her to leave their home in GA. He states he has obtained a temporary custody order from FL where he is living now. She was never served papers for this to appear in court or that this decision was made, if he does have this, will this hold up in LA? Also, can he obtain a temporary custody order in LA without her being served or present in the court room? Both she and her son have been residents of Louisiana since he kicked them out in July 06. He has never lived in Louisiana. Also his name is not listed as the father on the birth certificate.

2007-04-30 21:49:23 · 1 answers · asked by wendyandkaven 2

2007-04-30 21:39:19 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sweet or bitter.

2007-04-30 21:37:43 · 8 answers · asked by U2 5

What is your opinion on religious differences (or lack one partners lack of religion) in a marriage relationship? I am a Christian and I truly believe in the Bible's teachings. I happened to meet a young woman who I adore that does not have any religious background (She was under the impression that God had relations with Mary to create Jesus...which is actually a logical thought if you haven't read the account before). She consistently joins me to church but I am starting to feel like she is doing this purely to please me. I fear a relationship where the most important aspect of my life, my faith, is an aspect the will have to grow unsupported by my spouse if I decide to marry her. I know the Bible warns of relationships w/ non-believers being difficult but difficult does not mean impossible and I think she is worth the work. Any advice or comments would be appreciated, not only for answers, but to broaden my perspective.

2007-04-30 20:48:51 · 11 answers · asked by Seeking 1

You have a wife that is HOT, and her mom is just as HOT. They could pass sisters. Your wife is open with the idea, and your mother-in-law has made you aware of her attraction towards you. You know that wife talks about your marriage and sexual lifestyle with her mom... her best friend. So, if the opportunity provided itself... with your wife and her mom... and they were 100% into a 100% Threesome with you... no strings, and no consequences; would you go for it?

2007-04-30 20:35:01 · 30 answers · asked by Supercooldude 2

2007-04-30 20:24:54 · 7 answers · asked by PickyChick 1

We've been together for 6 years and married for about 6 months! and it seems like he doesn't wanna kiss me the same way anymore, or hold me like he used to!!! is he done with me all ready???

2007-04-30 20:19:58 · 29 answers · asked by Wife + Mom = ME 1

2007-04-30 19:57:29 · 40 answers · asked by MISHA S 1

If you accept a best answer for your question, is your choice only what you need to hear at the time and by asking you set yourself up to not learn?

2007-04-30 19:54:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got married in sept 05, and my wife is not the same person that i married. I give and give and dont get much at all back. I work a full time job and a part time job, and she works part time and goes to college. She never wants to spend time with me, never wants to make out with me and all we do is argue. She recently started talking to an old boyfriend and I got pissed and fussed about it. But i have seen the conversations and so far there is nothing going on because he is married also. But, Im still not getting anywhere with her.

2007-04-30 19:38:11 · 11 answers · asked by Matt B 1

2007-04-30 19:30:22 · 19 answers · asked by ladan_hsh 1

2007-04-30 19:25:17 · 13 answers · asked by Ryan F 3

Well my older sister didn't do well in school so she is a poor person. She is currently living with me at this point. We have a lot of fun together until the other night the told me she was a lesbian. It scared me and know I don't know if I should kick her out of just let her live with me. What should I do?

2007-04-30 19:23:00 · 25 answers · asked by brookie786787 1

My hubby and I are married for 4 yrs. The marriage/ relationship before the wedding was a constant up and down. He was always hiding things/ lying to me.(I had to pay his debt down cause he didnt do it, hiding his previous marriage and kids etc.) I moved out of the house 3 months ago because I couldnt take it anymore and to seriously think about the relationship.He even saw other girls while I was still living with him, I confronted him but even so I have 100% proof he still denies it. Now he changed all his passwords to his email accounts plus security answers/ login details so its impossible for me to track it down. I dont know if I am getting paranoid or if he is really up to something..again. I dont know how to make a decision/ I know when I ask him a question he wont tell the truth. I still love him but I am scared he wont change and it really hurts and I am so confused.

2007-04-30 19:18:35 · 14 answers · asked by Jennifer W 1

My husband and Ihave been togethe r(including dating) for six yrs.Last year he had an affair and we both thought that we could get over it. We have made progress but every once in a while i find myself in a panic like state wondering if he really loves me. He says it was the biggest mistake in his life messing with that other woman. I see that he is changing and trying really hard to please me. I can't just jump up and leave because we have two kids together. Sometimes i just feel like I have to protect myself from him because i was scarred so badly from actaullu knowing that he was capable of hurting me( in my mind he was a perfect angel that could never cause me any harm). Now its hard for me to see past my "emotional brick wall" and just love him like i really want to. Am I just crazy and paranoid and need to get over the past and open myself up, to be happy or should I stop kidding myself? I really do want to work on our realtionship and be happy again.

2007-04-30 18:59:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I have a child together, and are approximately 4 months into the 6 month waiting period required by Michigan for a divorce. We have been separated for approximately a year and a half. The last six months, I've been dating another man, and now may possibly be pregnant. I've not been tested yet, but want to know the legal ramifications if I am. Can the divorce still proceed? Am I even required to disclose the pregnancy? I don't want my ex to have anything to do with it, as far as his name on the birth certificate, support, or anything of the sort. My boyfriend and I plan to be married, and if the divorce can be final this summer as planned, would be married before the baby would be born. Any Michigan-specific help would be greatly greatly appreciated.

2007-04-30 18:46:21 · 6 answers · asked by avas_mommy83 1

i just really wanna know wtf causes guys to think that its OK 2 cheat on their gf. Seriously.

2007-04-30 18:09:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my husband for almost five years now, and he doesn't trust me. Iv'e done nothing that i know of to make him feel this way. I barely ever go out with my friends b/c he thinks I'll cheat on him. He says women cheat. Period. Whats the deal?? He wasn't always like this!

2007-04-30 17:57:09 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ R.I.P Spike ♥ 3

I have separated from my husband 7 months ago after 7 years of marriage. He was very immature by way of partying constantly and very committed to his friends, more so than me. I realised that he only married as all his friends did (and divorced) and it looked good for his image. I took our marriage seriously with the attitude that it will last forever and your a loser if it doesnt. I feel ashamed, hurt, stupid, unloved and so lonely.
I want to find love again but my husband still has my heart. I know it will never be reconciled between us and I accept that but how do I find another and will my heart heal to be able to give to another. Where do I look and should I? I dont want to go on-line or dating places as I feel desperate and Im not, just lonely.

Your help would be great, Im struggling to believe in myself anymore and my two wonderful kids need their mum to be positive.

2007-04-30 17:50:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous