Marriage & Divorce - 30 April 2007

My husband was caught cheating on me with several different girls and I found out and have him on tape stating that he did drugs while watching our infant while I was working. He says that he is not going to sign the divorce paperwork and it cannot go through. I need to find something legal to show him to prove to him that he cannot keep me in a marriage I do not want to be in. Or can he? I need the anwser. Thanky ou.

2007-04-30 01:58:58 · 11 answers · asked by sxyhzleydgrl 2

My husband & I have been married for 6 mo. We dated 1 year before our marrige. He never mentioned his liking of womens panties before our marriage. Later, we decided to wear womens' matching panties..our fun panties. We agreed to ONLY wear these in bed & if we decided to wear a matching pair for a day. He began to wear them anytime he wanted. I told him I was upset but he continued to wear them. Over the past several months, he secretely orders panties (made to look like womens, extremely feminine) from online gay/crossdressing stores as well as buying womens panties from department stores..for his own use. He said he wants to wear a garter belt & stockings. I am becomming turned off. I now wonder if he is really gay or bisexual; I asked him & his answer: "No, I'm not sexually intrested in men." I let it go untill I saw he continues to do this. Again, I told him of being upset over this situation. Now he is mad & won't talk!! I love him yet I think he is gay & well.......there is more!

2007-04-30 01:55:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I married my husband almost 13 years agowhen I was 19 and he was 25. We have three children ages 9, 7 and 1. I have many regrets about marrying at such a young age, not going to college, etc. The only thing that kept us together was our physical relationship, but with three kids, that's non-existent now. We rarely talk, or spend time together. I spend my time taking care of the kids and he spends his time working and sleeping. He is also very involved in a religion that I don't want to be a part of anymore. I am not happy. I don't think he is happy and I am sure our poor relationship is affecting our kids. We were both raised to believe that divorce is wrong and that it is never best for the children. I feel trapped.

2007-04-30 01:51:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-30 01:24:34 · 14 answers · asked by Bill W 【ツ】 6

we work in the same company and have become very good friends and very very close, we compliment each other and appreciate each other in words, I have been very careful not to touch her in any way except handshake because she's a married woman, she really values and cherishes my company. Right now she is thinking of moving into the same compound where I live with her family and her husband travels a lot, my conscience is totally against adultery with her, please can someone tell me how I can continue being friends with her without compromising my integrity and help my friend keep her home? I don't want to do anything wicked.

2007-04-30 01:21:34 · 5 answers · asked by kingdavid 1

when a guy has a orgasm in the women, does the female feel it sqirting into her?

2007-04-30 01:17:47 · 8 answers · asked by makavelli405 1

We have been married almost 10 yrs now, he has never been very romantic expressively towards me. And i have often complained and felt insecure in this relationship. Now since he joined this new company over a year now- he met his woman who works with him. She is seperated from her husband for the last 18 yrs, she is fun loving but appeared to have potrayed a sorry past to my husband (based on what he told me). Now i think they are not just friend - but he is sleeping with her as he has no interest in sex with me and does not want to do anything with me anymore. Last nite- found some calls on my caller id from her to my husband in my absence. I have requested his other male friend to keep an eye on him and let me know. I have confronted my husband abt this other woman- but he has never given me a straight answer. I have 2 kids below 5. What should i do?

2007-04-30 01:07:24 · 21 answers · asked by curious mom 1

I love to have sex with my wife, but she told me recently that she does not feel the same,she says that she does not enjoy it all the time and could take it or leave it,lately,for about six months its mostly leave it.She says that she is too tired,and has not felt the same about sex for a few years since the children were born.The problem for me is I love having sex with her,it gives me great pleasure to see her naked, to touch her to be with her in an intimate way nobody else can.When we make love I feel like the luckiest man in the world.I like to walk past my wife and touch her or kiss her,but now she sees this as the start of sex and gets stand offish.started running and cycling an has never looked better and it drives me crazy not to be able to go near her.When I try to talk about it she gets defenceive,and tells me shes too tired and that Im making a big deal of it,but I feel so hurt,she has engery for everthing else.she says she wants time ,I just want her and its killing me?

2007-04-30 01:06:14 · 21 answers · asked by RR 2

if you had 1 wish what would it be and why would you make it?

2007-04-30 01:00:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-30 00:53:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

what newly married couples do during their first night?

2007-04-30 00:10:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous