Marriage & Divorce - 30 April 2007

If you were dating someon would you take that into consideration? Most women who have them are insecure or shy about them. I have a cousin who works in the industry of music video making. She has worked with huge stars and told me that most of the "video hoes" have alot of stretch marks they just cover them up for the videos. But on some videos you can catch glimpses of them. Is it a consideration for men or do women just make too much of a big deal of it?

2007-04-30 03:51:27 · 18 answers · asked by mmm mmm good! 1

soon after a relationship break up that I am still hurt about, although I am 100% sure that its over?

2007-04-30 03:49:42 · 31 answers · asked by *Claire* 2

2007-04-30 03:47:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother or his brother in law would not come to our house and use his barn tools, compressor and work in it with my husbands tools without asking him or talking to him first so why should I be happy that my sister in law I have only been around about 8 times who lives out of state think its ok to call her brother not me and come up, be cooking at my house when I get home. I just would never do that to anybody I have even known for a long time so why should I have been happy about that then my husband and her husband had to go to the store to buy corn mean because I did not have any when the last time she came I asked her to discuss plans with me instead of her brother since he does not always remember to tell me. My husband has never been married or lived with anybody and he is 59 years old so now please share your feelings with me anyone because my husband will not even talk about it, I am just wrong to him. Thanks

2007-04-30 03:46:07 · 15 answers · asked by Ruby M 1

We are constantly over-budget every month. I have discussed the matter with my wife and she admits that spending is a weakness for her. There are a lot of pressures to buy stuff especially from the kids. How can I loving communicate to my wife that she needs to spend less than what we make? We have a budget but she doesn't seem to want to stick to it.

2007-04-30 03:45:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex husband asked me to take our son because he was studying. He only has him every other weekend. He is only doing 1 course. Our son called him on Saturday night and he was not home. He was out to dinner. I got very angry with my ex (out of the hearing range of our son) He does not get how this impacts him. His Dad told him he could not take him this weekend because he had to study and when he calls him he was not at home. I heard my son ask him where he was. It frustrates me that he can't seem to arrange his life so that his studying does not interfere with his limited time with his son. I have talked to him about this but he gets defensive and tries to tell me he does not have the time. I get angry because I know how much time he now has since he left our marriage for another woman. He says I stress him out too much when I get upset so now we do not talk at all. Am I wrong?

2007-04-30 03:43:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

she knows it bothers me and she says "oh i know you are not jelous,that's his past" but why would she keep it up there if she knows it bothers me?

2007-04-30 03:39:01 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Say you had a tough week. So you and your friends go for a long over due girls night out. Your enjoying the night dancing and even had a little more then you to drink then on most occasions. The night is going smoothly until. A one certain pest keeps annoying you and your friends. At various times during the evening the guy keeps hitting on you and won’t get the idea to leave you alone. You have tried shooting him down, and even used the we’re lesbian line, to no avail. He just keeps hounding. One of your friends hands you a remote control that can cut the guy down to size. Literally it can shrink him to around an inch tall. Would you us the remote and how would you deal with the annoying pest?

I wrote this as a fun question. So have a good time with it.

2007-04-30 03:31:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I met my first husband at 21 it was love at first sight and I knew right then I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. We married 6 months after and had 7 amazing years and a 3 year old boy at the time he passed away. He died very suddenly in a car accident and it absolutely devastated me. He meant everything to me and I would have gladly taken his place that day rather than having to endure living without him but I had to go on because of our son. Five years after my husband passed away I started seeing this guy Eric and he absolutely adored me and my son Tyler. We dated for two years and he eventually proposed. I loved him but it wasn’t like with my first husband because nothing could compare to that but I said yes and we had a beautiful ceremony 3 years ago. Everyone I talked to would always tell me how lucky I was and how their spouses never looked at them the way he looks at me but I never really felt the same. Throughout our whole relationship I kept pictures all around the house of my first husband which I know made Tyler uncomfortable but he never said a thing about it. Last year he asked me how I’d feel about him adopting our son which I felt he had no right to do as I didn’t want my son to think of him as his father when he wasn’t and he eventually let it go. Last night we had a dinner party at our house and as usual me and my friends recalled stories from our youth and all I talked about was my time with my first husband calling him the love of my life. My husband was upset by this but didn’t show it until after all guests left. He went off at me saying he didn’t know why the hell I married him when he clearly can’t compare to who my first husband was. Where does he get off being jealous of a dead man? What is his problem?

2007-04-30 03:30:32 · 70 answers · asked by Brianna 1

If a woman says that she has been waiting all her life for u and everything is perfect, why would she need a break ? Is there such a thing as being too perfect ? all girls say they want someone to sweep them off their feet, but y is it when they get swept, they bug out - does it scare them that they been looking all their life, and now its finally here ?

2007-04-30 03:27:21 · 11 answers · asked by questions 1

My husband and a lawyer at his job began an affair a few months back. I found out via the web. He and she planned to live in our historical home. (Apparently, I was not invited!) Since I had no idea he was unhappy, I'm wondering what they had planned and what I should do about it. (My lawyer only seems to care about money. I'd like to see the 2 schemers publicly flogged!) Any advice about how to go about this? (The divorce, not the flogging.)

2007-04-30 03:21:37 · 19 answers · asked by Jutta_8 1

o.k. heres the story. We had been dating for about 6 years and broke up and before we got back together I slept with a freind of his only once. Whenever he gets drunk or we get in a fight he brings it up and throws it in my face calling me a whore, I thought that when I told him and he forgave me for it, we put that in the past. What would you do if he kept holding it over your head? It was a mistake and like a year before we got back together and he always asks me if I have cheated on him recently and I am totally commited to him and would never do that. I always have to remind him that it was before we got back together and before I had any hope of us getting back together. Am I wrong? Should he treat me this way?

2007-04-30 03:19:42 · 29 answers · asked by daisydownsouth 4

We have been married for nearly 17 yrs and have had infrequent sex ever since. Over the years he came up with various reasons why he doesn't want to have sex with me from he's not in the mood to saying its because he is stressed out to he resents me because I'm not working at the moment. He has been totally into porn (computer and magazine) and has even gone so far as taking up the hobby of taking pictures of women's asses in the neighborhood. I happen to be a very attractive woman who loves sex, and am not opposed to experimenting. Also he tries take all credit for running the house and tries to be super mom to make me look bad. For example, if we have an argument he'll get up extra early the next day to do all the chores pertaining to the kids so that there's nothing left for me to do, Then when I get up he looks at me like "you finally got up?", when its only 7am. I really feel like he tries to cut me out of family life. Whenever I do anything he thinks he can to it better. Give up?

2007-04-30 03:18:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-30 03:17:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-30 03:13:51 · 8 answers · asked by BIG Nick 1

2007-04-30 03:12:14 · 16 answers · asked by vinny02315 1

2007-04-30 03:09:03 · 9 answers · asked by charles d 1

We got a call from my husband's 13 year old son last night. It seems his mother is about to go to jail for her 3rd or 4th DUI in recent years. She has been doing everything in her power for years to keep the boy away from his father. He wants to come live with us. We live in Texas, she lives in Indiana, and we can't afford a lawyer in either state!! The mom wants to send our son to Florida to live with her mother, but I think my husband should have first priority and concideration, not to mention my son's wishes. We are calling CPS in Indiana, and child support, but how can we get into court without a lawyer, and from this distance? And how do we do it fast?

2007-04-30 03:08:18 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-04-30 03:07:27 · 11 answers · asked by Venkat 1

My husband left me cause of his lack of trust in me. He said I cheated him because I carpooled with my male co-worker to a training job site. I have never cheated on my husband. I was (am) in love with him and I do not understand why he did not trust me. He said I am sneaky. If he wants to come back how do I gain his trust? And how do I get him to go to counseling for his abusive behavior?

2007-04-30 03:04:43 · 13 answers · asked by shelly 1

should stay together? She cheated on her husband after their youngest was born for 2.5 years & got caught (only stopped after getting caught) & after her husband "took her back" he started up his own affair & is still going on for 1.5 years now. She's distant & frigid, he's selfish & cool. When they try to do anything together, either one pretty much shoos off the other or limits it to "functional" sex (if that makes sense). You know, doing it just to do it like a job not a pleasure. Trust me this is the short version of their dysfunctional lives...I'd have to scribe a novel to get it all out there. They have kids & I think are only sticking it out cause they don't want to brand them with a divorce. (Even though I think it's not the divorce that screws up kids as some ppl shouldn't be together, but how the parents handle one). What do you think they should do?

2007-04-30 03:02:24 · 6 answers · asked by kitty 2

If more than a half of marriages in US end up with divorces why did they married then. How can someone stop his/her sexual desire and "commit" his/herself to only one partner along his/her lifetime, could they survive this kind of relationship. However there is no monogamy animal, especially Homo Sapiens, sex is great

2007-04-30 02:38:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Caught my wife(married 18 years) cheating. Found out for sure when I walked in on her doing two guys at once several months ago. She admitted she started doing pot and other drugs with one of the new "friends". I work long hours and she has not worked the past 2 years while being the one watching our disabled son. He is at school during the day so she is free to do what she wants -which is other people. She said she was sorry and would not cheat again - I forgave her- and caught her again and again with different guys. Then she admitted that she had started sleeping with women too.
She been an uptight prude who pretty much insisted on missionary only. Now she has become wild in bed pretty much up for anything, fullfilled every one of my sex fantasies including sharing another woman. Problems though... I think she devalues us entirely now. I still love her but feel she does not love me anymore. I want the drugs and the cheating to stop. I don't think she will

2007-04-30 02:31:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really love him i really want this to wrok.

i've been with him 3 years the only downfall to our relationship is that i'm 18 and he is 19 and it almost feels like we are too young.

I really want to be with him i want to be a pilot and i'm not sure how he'll do with me being gone all the time and i really want to be with him but ah i really don't know if i can fit into his family.

his parents are a little weird... but i really do love him i just worry...

2007-04-30 02:25:35 · 13 answers · asked by ubermenchen 1

I have a much higher sex drive, while my wife is fine with making love once or twice a month. We both work full time, go to the gym, share the chores and take care of our kids. We often get into arguments when I approach her to initiate sex. Any suggestions?

2007-04-30 02:23:45 · 21 answers · asked by Brian D 1

how do u get to see your kid when your ex husband won,t let u no matter how heard u try and u take it to court and they thow out the case what should i do because he lets me see my son when he wants and we both share him but he lives with his father most of the time so what should i do now?

2007-04-30 02:18:10 · 9 answers · asked by missmosaw 1

2007-04-30 02:14:47 · 55 answers · asked by jizzumonkey 6

do you find that everyone you know if already married/divorced and none single anymore!!!

2007-04-30 02:14:17 · 16 answers · asked by colesey72 4

My gf is 5 months pregnant and she has been going through a lot since the pregnancy, her very unsupportive mom, hormones, placenta previa, and ups and downs with us mostly from her. She wanted marriage and I was selfish and stalled at first but I want to be married to her now and I want a family. She told me on Friday morning she need time to think of everything and on Sunday she told me she just doesnt feel the same about us and doesnt want to be together and gave no explanation. We are both 24. I do not want to be a single parent and dont know if her behaviour is from hormones. I am trying to be supportive but this is taking a heavy toll on me. I have lost 15 lbs just over the weekend, cant sleep, cant eat without getting sick, having suicidal thoughts, no energy. I have sent her a couple of emails saying I am there for her but I just feel like crap myself. I have no idea of what is going on or will happen. I dont know where to turn for help or advice.

2007-04-30 02:08:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

dear friends many house wives get hiv infected from there husbands.can she get divorce from husband on this ground.

2007-04-30 02:03:03 · 24 answers · asked by toploser 5