should stay together? She cheated on her husband after their youngest was born for 2.5 years & got caught (only stopped after getting caught) & after her husband "took her back" he started up his own affair & is still going on for 1.5 years now. She's distant & frigid, he's selfish & cool. When they try to do anything together, either one pretty much shoos off the other or limits it to "functional" sex (if that makes sense). You know, doing it just to do it like a job not a pleasure. Trust me this is the short version of their dysfunctional lives...I'd have to scribe a novel to get it all out there. They have kids & I think are only sticking it out cause they don't want to brand them with a divorce. (Even though I think it's not the divorce that screws up kids as some ppl shouldn't be together, but how the parents handle one). What do you think they should do?
2007-04-30 03:02:24 · 6 answers · asked by kitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's time get divorced. If they can put their selfishness aside , and try to work out what's best for the children. Who will have custody and visiting arrangements, and so on. My Ex and I have a good relationship with each other. We both just understood we weren't right for each other. It was hard in the beginning for the children, but if the parents can work together, and let the past go, sometimes it's healthier than being married and always arguing. The children realize were happier apart, and have accepted that it was best. We still get together sometimes for dinner and of course birthdays, and family get togethers sometimes. We always consult each other in matters of the children. There no trust in there relationship left. Just animosity towards each other.
Divorce doesn't always have too be a negative thing. If they can learn how to work together.
2007-04-30 03:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by MARK S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce
2007-04-30 10:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this is not a marriage at all. Time for the two of them to move on, find someone trustworthy and loyal to the relationship and in the end, even the kids will be much much better off for it.
2007-04-30 10:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if they both want the marriage to work then yes. I cheated on mine...he took me back yet can't forgive and move on so it's over.
2007-04-30 10:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, hope u r happi for breakin up a good marriage.
2007-04-30 10:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I should mind my own business...
And so should you.
2007-04-30 10:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋