Marriage & Divorce - 30 April 2007

2007-04-30 17:16:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-30 17:03:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband neglected me for 10 months on and off. I'm now to the point where I'm past hurt and I'm sick and tired of it. I brought it to his attention several times, he always promises to change but doesn't. Then he finally tells me that he doesn't have to take care of my needs that I can't afford because I am grown. Now that I want to leave, he gets my name tattooed on his arm and is going around crying and begging me back. I feel bad that he feels this way but I need to leave because I can see through his begging. He may truly be hurt but I know for a fact that he is not going to change. How can I help him get over me?

2007-04-30 16:20:39 · 10 answers · asked by eyekhandhi 1

There is a child custodty in question that has never been resolved.

2007-04-30 16:14:10 · 3 answers · asked by Carol S 1

2007-04-30 16:10:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

after over a year and half, my boyfriend and i are going through a rough time right now. he's middle eastern and i'm.. well *white* to him (greek&polish). about the 3rd or 4th month he and i were going out he told me we could never get married due to his family wanting him to be with a middle eastern (chaldean) girl. it's now a long time after this and everyone, even his sister (whom i'm close with), keeps asking him when we're going to get married, and he says no, or not now in response.. half the time i'm right there when he responds. we're in our early 20s and i'm not rushing or anything but i guess i'm just concerned about the problems we are going through at the moment, i feel he's lost interest but he's not breaking up with me. his sister tells me he loves me a lot but if that's the case, why isnt he giving me any sense of secruity with our relationship? i dont want to be with him any longer for it to end up with us not married. i am very much in love with him. what do i do?

2007-04-30 16:01:45 · 20 answers · asked by Jo 2

he hasnt told your spouse about it and neither have you. (you can't unless he won't sign) but if u refuse to then it would mean that all the investments made and future profits would be lost!
just wondering...

2007-04-30 15:54:24 · 15 answers · asked by Cher B 2

He has a friend that sells and started going to his house very often but i really dont know if he is smoking or doing the same thing as his friend how can i know?If I ask him he gets mad and we start to argue.I have never smoked in my life and i really wouldnt be with him if in fact he is doing something like that.And also i have caught him in so may lies.Which I confront him about too and he denies everything.please help me...

2007-04-30 15:31:24 · 8 answers · asked by Mommy 2

2007-04-30 15:19:18 · 16 answers · asked by skeeter195848 4

I have been married for a number of years, and slowly my Wife seems to have lost all interest in me. I am at point where I think just touching her is repulsive to her. We do not fight at all, and there is no hatred. Its more like her “lust” for me is gone.
Do you think its me? Or she might be seeing someone else, or just been married too long?

2007-04-30 15:18:19 · 9 answers · asked by Duncan123 1

lives and works in the same state

but am told cannot enforce child support due to being unable to locate him

2007-04-30 15:17:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am recently pregnant with my boyfriend of 9 months baby and I am feeling the pressure from both our families to get married. I know that would be good for the baby but I'm not sure that we are ready yet. I feel that we need more time to get to know each other and I'm sure that the baby will bring us closer together. Should I feel pressured to marry him or should we wait it out...

2007-04-30 15:10:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was emotionally depressed which led to me being verbally abusive to my ex, and not providing financially like i should have. We have two girls, have been split up for a year and divorced for 6 months. I have been going to therapy for 9 months now for depression. I now feel so much happier than ive ever been, but i get upset knowing how happy my wife would be if we were still together. We talk on a constant basis, she has fallen out of love with me to some degree, though she has agreed to date, but she has made clear that she does not want anything serious right now also wants me to know she will treat me as if im anyother man. Here is the big But, she says she doesnt know if she will ever be able to trust that things will be different and that i can overcome my issues. She has admitted that in the past few months i have seemed a lot happier and more of the person she fell in love with, but she still doesnt know if she could ever trust again. So my question is... is it possible??????

2007-04-30 15:05:18 · 9 answers · asked by Miah 1

2007-04-30 15:01:17 · 13 answers · asked by Nitrodrive 4

My husband drinks way to much. I really don't mind if he occasionally drinks. But he drinks a couple of times a week. He seems not to care the way I feel. I think I feel we are a 100 miles apart. I do love him but I m tired of feeling this way and I am Damn tired of the drinking.

2007-04-30 14:57:07 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-30 14:49:24 · 10 answers · asked by catwoman13 1

Please tell me how you are satisfied, or why you are not satisfied

2007-04-30 14:47:09 · 2 answers · asked by kenneth h 6

My ex-husband and I have been divorced for 16 years. it was not an ugly divorce, and we always maintained a cordial relationship. We are thinking about beginning a relationship again? Would like some opinions.

2007-04-30 14:43:46 · 23 answers · asked by mo 5

I use to know this guy in high school and I had moved away..after ten yrs we meet again and we are both excited due to the fact that we went to school together.....he always talks dirty to me and tells me how I am beautiful...and tells me everything I want to hear..He just got married and I have been married for five yrs now.. He says he loves his wife but flirts with me..what should I do....

2007-04-30 14:41:48 · 20 answers · asked by sosoqueen 2

He's giving me a small sum, about $10,000, to spend, but it's with his own money so I want to buy a gift where it's the thought that counts, because otherwise he could just buy it himself.

He turns 42. Any suggestions about what to buy?

2007-04-30 14:28:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know if I was married I would in a heartbeat! I think people these days are stupid for not getting a divorce when the time is right. Anyone who cheats on their spouse is not worthy or marriage as far as I'm concerned. People don't seem to stay together very long these days and I guess thats sad. Although I don't have a wife that does not mean I can't be happy. I cannot understand how people think that marriage is the beginning of happiness. Some of the most miserable people these days are married people. And sluts and man whores seem to like to attempt to play the game of stealing someone's spouse for a good time. Many marriages are corrupt or even perverse. It kinda makes you wonder if there is anyone out there for you at all. When your friend is asking you to have sex with his wife I think that can very well be classified as "Sick" or "perverse". People are too open to sex and mind games these days. I think a person is better off single.

2007-04-30 14:27:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

twins are on the way, i have a 2 y/o. been together 7 yrs. Converstaion about not being happy has come up before. Now Im in love with another woman who is also married

2007-04-30 14:15:56 · 27 answers · asked by btiller123 1

My husband is gone, my children are gone and I'm alone at home trying to patch things back together by myself. All I do is pray to God everyday that things get back to normal. But, it hasn't so far.

2007-04-30 14:00:10 · 23 answers · asked by 9BLESSINGS 1

About 2 yrs and some months ago my sister started dating this guy. He has a wife that he's been married to for I think about 8 yrs. They have one daughter together and one that isn't his but calls him daddy and my sister has a son with this man and another baby on the way. He keeps saying he is going to divorce his wife but it has been 2 yrs since he has said this. She keeps saying she went and got the papers since hers are free otherwise he'll have to pay $330 that he cannot afford.

At the beginning of the relationship this woman would call my sisters house asking for him and even my mothers house saying she was his wife. He denied it and she knew he was living with this girl but still wanted him back and to this day I think she still does. Later my sister found out that he was emailing her, chatting with her online and telling her he loved her, he was even staying at her house (he lived 2 hours away) when he was gone but hasn't since, they've been together everyday. Any thoughts?

2007-04-30 13:58:53 · 12 answers · asked by Nisi 4

2007-04-30 13:56:21 · 11 answers · asked by super girl 3

My daughter is 15 and lives in another state. She is currently being taken care of by her grandmother. My ex-husband moved due to job reasons.

She has a facebook page and I set up one also. I routinely check it for pics and what she is doing.

I feel very sad when I see that she posts "she is yeah screwed." or having trouble in her classes.

I feel like I should be there for her. She lives in another state though. I tried to go and stay with her, but only was able to for a few weeks.

I feel like punishing myself for not living up to my responsibilities as a mother even though he has sole physical and legal custody. I am a complete and total failure in my life because of this action of mine.

My ex-husband also says that I only think of myself and need to learn to think in terms of family?

2007-04-30 13:54:24 · 10 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

It seems that I always have people telling me to avoid getting married at all cost (I'm single) and they begin to tell me their "sob" story, always leaving me feeling uneasy and questioning whether there are any more happily married couples anymore, I mean truly connected (emotional, spiritual, physical connections) in love kinda happy marriage and not just one where it seems like a successful business arrangement of two people who happen to get along. Help, I need to restore my faith in people and the institution of marriage.

2007-04-30 13:30:50 · 24 answers · asked by Nickel555 2

My husband has been telling me that our relationship is beyon repair, trust is gone, motivation and love! He spends lots of time with this neighbor (male) and lately he hasn't come home. So yes! we are getting divorce just he wants me to pay for it. My dilema is this, my friends (males and females) invite me to Vegas this weekend, should I go or stay home? I honestly feel that I should go but what is your opinion?

2007-04-30 13:28:20 · 7 answers · asked by Deyla C 1

My 18 year old still lives with her mother

2007-04-30 13:26:27 · 10 answers · asked by SCHULTZ 1

My ex husband's brother's ex-wife is all the time calling me a stupid ***** on here and more. If I block her, she'll just come up with a new name and start all over again. Any ideas?

2007-04-30 13:24:58 · 29 answers · asked by Queenie 1