Marriage & Divorce - 30 April 2007

After I got to know my in-laws after marriage I sensed they were false pretenses going on. Eventually I couldn't bare to pretend our relationships were fine, by hiding behind huggs and kisses when some people could barely make eye contact like they were guilty of something. For my B/day I really wore my heart on my sleeves, and when my mother -in-law wanted to buy me a U.V lamp to simulate sunlight energy in my home , I confessed the reasons behind my melancholy. Eventually, with much relunctance, she spat out what perceptions everyone had of me, and how they've ganged up on me, talking behind my back.Yet there were all smiles. I was in shock and felt like they were hyppocrites. If It wasn't for my first step, it seems they were not looking to resolve the differences, but would rather keep talking behind my back while the bitterness continued. I felt that she has also betrayed me, becoz she was part of the problem, but was resolving it with a lamp. She said she would initiate

2007-04-30 08:18:38 · 22 answers · asked by She-whom-shall-not-be-named 4

Everytime my husband and I disagree about anything he runs and tells any co-worker that will listen to him. If they ask him what is wrong he will tell them we are having a fight and actually stretch the truth to make me look like the real bad guy when in actuality we are fighting about him doing this very thing!

2007-04-30 08:12:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-30 07:51:17 · 21 answers · asked by james c 1

I mean he literally spends every single minute it on it when he is not working or sleeping I just dont feel like he is giving me or our son any of his free time. He tells me well at least Im not out drinking or druging which is a good thing but I think I should get some time. Right?

2007-04-30 07:35:43 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2

It's a credit union and I called them, since he is the primary account holder he could do that, but as for as marriage laws, could withhold money from me being we are still married and still live together? Very degrading asking for money...

2007-04-30 07:25:08 · 5 answers · asked by coffeelover 1

I am in love with a married woman. I became friends with her a few months ago when she came to work for a company I was with. She is very attractive, and about 25 years my senior. She didn’t stay long with the company but we continued to hang out. I got to know her better and came to find out that her husband had just recently cheated on her with a much younger woman. We have become close these past few months and I’m 99.9% sure she likes me, more than a friend that is. She is really touchy feely and we are constantly flirting with each other. Her husband works at night and sleeps during the day and she will only talk to me when she is away from him and we will only hang out after he’s gone to work. My question is should I continue along this path or should I bail because if I continue the relationship will turn sexual and I CANNOT say no to this woman. I fear I’m headed for a catastrophe but all I see is her and I can’t stop. What’s a girl to do!!

2007-04-30 07:21:16 · 29 answers · asked by ♀ǐcƏ_ƇơĿƉ♀ 4

Me and my husband love each other .... We initiate sex equally, am probably litte more on higher end...still he lovingly says 'I will rape u' even tho i never say no to him for sex...is this common with married couples or way of saying "i want u more than u think ?"

2007-04-30 07:13:47 · 16 answers · asked by rs 1

2007-04-30 07:13:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean this happens all the time in relationships and when people died.

2007-04-30 07:08:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in my new home with my new partner. I have lots of nice things from my previous marriage (pearl necklace, some nice crystal pieces for holding jewelry, a shoe rack that the prior husband made me for example).

I have mixed emotions on weather to just put these away in a box or to keep them out and use them. They do hold some sentimental value. I am just questioning if it is illogical when something is nice and useful to hide it away just because of who gave it to you. Any feedback is welcome.

2007-04-30 07:07:33 · 10 answers · asked by peace over power 1

My ex and I both reside in Florida in the same town. He has been unemployed for 3 months now and just recently text messaged me that he is ou of work now and I need to wait for him to get a full-time job in order to pay for his daughter's childsupport. I am a single mom, working full-time. This is his 6th time being unemployed and I always worked during those times....is there anything that I can do?

2007-04-30 07:05:36 · 10 answers · asked by Lucky_Star 2

anger
contempt
jealousy or
lack of passion?

2007-04-30 07:01:08 · 32 answers · asked by 062419844142436830 1

family finances and budgeting
interference by in laws
communication problems or
child rearing issues?

2007-04-30 06:58:19 · 14 answers · asked by 062419844142436830 1

2007-04-30 06:54:59 · 11 answers · asked by Sally 3

My husband and I are going through a lot of things and I"m really just tired of his ways he doesn't work and he doesn't really help me out around the house. I used to date my friends brother and he and I have been spending some time together. However he is married just like me and he and his wife are not getting along. He just moved back in with her and I don't know what to do because I'm always thinking about him but I'm not sure if he feels the same way. I would like to leave my husband for him but I think it will not end up the way I want. So what should I do because it's hard for me to stop calling him and each time we can't talk because it's hard for me to get away from my husband he is always around and in my face 24/7 he won't let me got out with my friends or anything so how should I fix my problem?

2007-04-30 06:52:18 · 14 answers · asked by laeloni_2004 1

When my husband comes home from work, I never let him see me in sloppy looking clothes and or my pajamas, my hair is always brushed and styled nicely. Never does a complaint come out of my mouth; I prefer to discuss it with him instead.
The meal is always on the table unless otherwise decided; somedays we order out. I never allow him to help me with the housework and or help raise the kids; though he is a wonderful dad. I go out of my way to do these things for him as I belieive it is my honor and pleasure. I am always at the ready to do as he would have me to do.

2007-04-30 06:52:10 · 21 answers · asked by Laela (Layla) 6

my kids are grown now and i have been divorce for 6 years.

2007-04-30 06:47:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

remarried
remixed
blended or
accessioned families?

2007-04-30 06:38:45 · 25 answers · asked by 062419844142436830 1

My friend is getting married in about 3 years. She is going to have her friend as her matron of honor and me as her maid of honor. What do each of us do for the wedding? Do we both give a speech at the wedding? Any other advice

2007-04-30 06:32:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-30 06:31:57 · 10 answers · asked by mrsjohn07 1

Or is it just another egotistcal,selfish, narssistic act by them?

2007-04-30 06:31:04 · 16 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1

I knew of one time when my b/f lied about going to the strippers. That was a long time ago. I had a feeling and some evidence that he went last week. I confronted him and I was correct. He then admitted that he has lied four times in the last 3 years. His reasoning is "I knew how you would react if I told you were I was really going". So if he knows in advance that I do not want him to go does that justify lieing about it? I personally feel it shows lack of respect, communications, trust and responsiablity.

2007-04-30 06:09:05 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-30 05:32:59 · 13 answers · asked by martin b 2

we love each other. but he is married with 2 kids.says he is not happy.his wife did not treat himwell..he ask me to marry him.but he cant leave his wife . its for the sake of his 2 children.we had sex once in a while.should i trust him? i am confused.He is a muslim.

2007-04-30 05:29:01 · 27 answers · asked by hong3 1

Now...what if I say....we have a joint account which pays for all the utilities except for car insurance but he goes and wastes his money in the charity shop or buys unnecessary food stuff that gets thrown out on a regular basis as he overshops and we cant eat that much...goes and buys a barbeque and hides it LOL in the garage till its needed then tells you to pay for his car insurance because he has wasted all his own money and then takes back whatever he has given you in the first place. Then what??????? LOL OMG

2007-04-30 05:16:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please help! I have been married 10 months and my husband has sprung it on me that he wants me to have sex with another woman while he watches! I am so not into doing that but I am scared if I dont he will leave me for someone who is willing to do that for him! We also have a 13 week old son so I fear he will leave me a single mum! I love him and would do almost anything for him but NOT that! Please please give me advice on what I should do!

2007-04-30 04:28:17 · 51 answers · asked by missthong2003 3

In my house, I do the majority of the cleaning and my husband does the majority of the cooking. We both clean up after ourselves, though.

I'd say we're both pretty happy with this arrangement - I'm a terrible cook and a cleaning perfectionist, so it works nicely.

And in your house?

2007-04-30 04:22:40 · 26 answers · asked by nomadic 5

3 weeks ago I found out I was pregnant but my partner isn't ready. He had already left me last week because I told him that I wanted to keep it. He told me if I cared about him I would have an abortion and wait 1 year, because he wants to do everything right. We have been living together for 4 years and still not married, so first he wants to get out of debt, get married and have kids later. (He already has a 7 years old daughter from previous marriage) He is turning 36 and I'm 28, I feel ready, I have always prayed to God to get pregnant.
We are back together now because he thinks I will have an abortion, but my plan is to live with my family where I can get support while I'm on mat leave.
I know he doesn't love me because if he did he would respect my decesion to have this child. I already have accepted this fact, and the reason why I'm with him now because I'm spending my last days with him till my tummy gets bigger. Does he have the rights? I have already promised to God.

2007-04-30 04:17:24 · 23 answers · asked by Orchids 2

I don't want to offend anyone, but I used to have bootie relations with my husband, but for the past few months it hurts too much. I don't know why things have changed, but they have. Is there a way to make it better and more comfortable. My husband is requesting it.

2007-04-30 04:06:07 · 31 answers · asked by Tara C 5

no recollection of having sex with his wife.
he suspects his wife might be lying to him to get credit for having sex with him without putting any work in.
both him and i are in the "our wives dont like a lot of sex" club.
meaining once a month is a lot.

do you think a woman would lie about something like this to get credit for sex she didnt have?

2007-04-30 03:55:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous