my kids are grown now and i have been divorce for 6 years.
2007-04-30 06:47:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you love him, and he treats you with the respect you deserve. If you can be yourself around him, and be his best friend. If he loves and repects your family and children. You should have the same requirments for a second marriage as the first, I don't think age is a factor in that. My mother and father have been divorced 4 years, I am 23 and my sister 26, and my mother will be remarried this summer to a wonderful man who makes her happier than I have seen her in years.
Follow your heart, life is too short to be unhappy. Best of luck with whatever you decide.
2007-04-30 07:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! You're never too old to fall in love. I'm kinda hoping my mom will marry again. She married her first husband because she was pregnant, and that's what you did in those days, but they never really loved each other. She married my dad because she really loved him, but divorced him after 25 years because he had some "issues" that were causing health problems for her. Now she's been with her new guy for a year and I hope it works out because she deserves to be happy.
2007-04-30 06:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by passionatemilf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why not. Your children are grown- so you won't be messing them up if you marry the wrong man. You have been divorced long enough that you should have your head on straight. If you find a decent guy- I would marry him. Just don't shack up- that would be a bad example for the grandkids.
2007-04-30 06:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why shouldn't you!? Your kids are grown, now it's time to have fun for yourself. Get remarried. Travel the world. Experience new taste in resturants. Get your hair cut, nails done, and buy a new wardrobe. You've spent your life making sure your kids have what they need, now that they are grown, it's time to think about yourself. Make sure you're ready to get remarried, it may be hard. It might bring up times you've had with your ex. Like I said, you're still young. Have fun.
Good luck. =]
2007-04-30 06:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by jesa ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. I got married again for the 2nd time at age 50....I had been divorced for 20 years and my daugher was a senior in college still living at home. He had been divorced for 7 years but was married the 1st time for over 25 years. Our habits were very formed by that time, mine for being independent and self-supportive, his for being in a relationship where there were definate roles for each party. It's been a difficult haul over the past 4 years. If I had it to do over again, I wouldn't do it, but that's just me. Has he been married before and for how long???? What roles do you both expect for yourself and your mate???? If he were to become ill, are you willing to have to take care of him and risk your financial security for that??? Think long and hard.
2007-04-30 06:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by dana 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is the second innings!
41 isn't too old. You still have the right amount of hormones.
Unlike the teenage, the experience is on your side.
You know what is "right", "good" and "pleasurable" for you!!!
But.....is marriage the right option is something you need to decide. Yes, a healthy and respectable relationship is perfectly alright!!!
But its my opinion....you have your views and values and you know what is good for you.
Good luck....
2007-04-30 07:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too old to be asking people this question. you are a grown woman with grown children. YOU need to make your own decisions. If you're asking us this then maybe you don't need to be getting married again.
2007-04-30 06:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by alexbeauty333 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you should!! If he makes you happy and loves you for who you are then by all means yes!!! You're never too "old" to get married even if you have kids. Good luck and congradulations!!
2007-04-30 06:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by Vanna Chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL Hell no are you suicidal or a gluten for punishment . Remember the hell you went threw with your ex what makes you think life has changed . You no longer need that piece of paper unless your doing it for the money then go for it . But its not like your going to raise a family
2007-04-30 07:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, Going through life with someone to share your thoughts and feelings with is great. I think it's never to late to get married.
2007-04-30 06:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by Cindy K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋