Marriage & Divorce - 4 May 2007

Is it a bad thing for my husband to call himself sexy, but yet complain about the parts of him that arent completly toned to perfection ? I wonder if he is judging me by such high standards. he is only six foot tall and weights over 200 .. his goal is to be 250. even if toned , isnt that a bit heavy ?

2007-05-04 23:52:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-04 23:48:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My spouse was caught unfaithful several times and every time she said that she will stop it. It has been going on for three years on and off. I want a divorce and my concerned is, is she entitle for alumni even she's the fault of the divorce?

2007-05-04 23:47:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the problem...she hasn't once said anything nice about her husband. He seems to be a good dad to their kids, but isn't doing well at the husband part, as far as I can see. She says she loves him, but as I said, all she does is complain about what he does wrong. (Doesn't support her career, doesn't help around the house, is too involved in his career, etc, etc,) She wants me to tell her if she should stay or go...I've already gently pointed out that she may not love him, since she finds it impossible to find any positive character traits, and yet she gets cross with me when I do that.

2007-05-04 23:01:15 · 8 answers · asked by ? 5

I am 44, she is 30...physical relations issue getting very demanding...I am not able to do it even weekly now...you know, work related stress, household problems, worries, etc...
Also I am not in my prime youth, to be honest, sexx to me now seems a burden, really...and she is complaining, I dont blame her. Any tips on how I should bring back my interest in sexx ??
How to perform better, perform often ??

2007-05-04 22:44:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

the man i live with for 9 years suddenly wants a break or short seperation, what does this mean?

2007-05-04 22:37:01 · 26 answers · asked by camiflage 1

2007-05-04 22:22:08 · 9 answers · asked by sweet.21petite 1

Has anyone ever used a do-it-yourself divorce? What are the pro's and con's? I have seen where you can download and print out everything you need for it online.

2007-05-04 22:05:12 · 2 answers · asked by Joanne 3

I have been married before and had issues with that as well. to young for one thing and very immature. This marraige has been going on like we just exist. I am at odds. She had an affair last summer and then denied it even happen. Now I have a new child and worry that she may not be mine. Other circumstances surround this and that is all that will be brought up.

So now I feel as if our life is just an existance and not a happy marriage. I am thinking of a divorce and am heart broken at the whole thing. What is a good way to approach, therapy, family? not sure.

2007-05-04 22:02:40 · 7 answers · asked by Brian B 1

2007-05-04 21:04:39 · 13 answers · asked by champs262002 1

although his wife is perfect in evrything,sexy, beautiful,kind,and evry good things that she should have to be perfect woman,and they love each other,but his husband try to be with other womens and betraial to her?

2007-05-04 20:51:01 · 9 answers · asked by grisha 1

I know most of the answers will be ( no, I love my husband )
but, I need sincere confessions

2007-05-04 20:30:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

he ask me when are we getting married and we haven't to long met

2007-05-04 20:16:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you man asked you to get a boob job would you ask him to his mini me bigger?

2007-05-04 19:58:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

we used to date and he hurt me really bad by getting w/ someone else adn not dumping me or anything then calling to rub in he had her and she was preg. i gave up, and when i did he tried to get me back but i cussed him out ( been through too much pain to take him back ) anwyays now its 4 years later. we recently started talking again. he talks like he watns to get back togheter and then ignores me for 1 to 4 weeks. also he keeps saying things like " if my wife dumps me ill give you another chance " ( like im soupposed to feel lucky? ) then he says " In 16 years if ur still around ill get with you " then he made plans with me one time and broke them.

2007-05-04 19:56:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-04 19:52:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I reside in an industrial township. The woman is the wife of one of my collegues. I first saw her in a social gathering 2 1/2 yrs back. Only looks were exchnged (more from her end). I did'nt do anything abt it for almost 2 yrs but of course the attraction was there (both ways) My family life is ok, no major prblms in my marriage. Abt 3 months back in another social gathring I commited a major blunder under the influence of alcohol (I feel). I touched her physically and her response was positive. Since then my attrcn towards her has increased. I am now friendly with her spouse, have visited their house. I know this is not right but looking at her response am afraid very soon I will be involved in a long term affair.

Is this wrong? What is the harm in sharing a person? I do not own her and she dosent own me. But it is possible to share temporarily. Of course we should always keep it a secret from our respective spouses.

Please give your opinion / suggestions/ analysis

2007-05-04 19:25:29 · 59 answers · asked by kamarjit 1

my 22 yr old bf is a mamas boy.everytime we go out his mama goes too.when i say something about it he gets mad and says he just want to spend some time with his mom.one time we had an arguement he said f u my mama is more important. what should i do

2007-05-04 18:58:51 · 17 answers · asked by sweetness23 3

I mean something sexually naughty!!! I either think of things that are TOO naughty, or not naughty enough! AHH!!
ANY OPINIONS?

2007-05-04 18:58:34 · 8 answers · asked by mr.t'smom 2

to be attracted to my friends husban? She is dieing and has 2twins that are 2 months old? He has needs to, if you know what i mean

2007-05-04 18:15:27 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah 1

K i will try to make this short...i broke up with my ex 3 years ago. I met a great man and since recently broken up with him as well. i have 4 children with my first ex, and one with my last... After a bitter custody battle with my first ex (i was with for 9 years) i got custody and became amicable with him and his girlfriend. I am still somewhat involved with my recent ex (still see him everyday, talk all the time) Recently my first ex has been making comments, trying to grab my ***, saying he wants to sleep with me, he thinks of me when hes having sex with her (his girlfriend) This started when she was pregnant with his baby whos now 2 months old and hes still doing it.

To be clear i have NO interest in him sexually or romantically, i still love my recent ex..but i wonder if i should say something to her (his girlfriend) I dont want to start something and ruin the civil relationship we all have but its driving me mad how do i approach it and still keep the peace?

2007-05-04 18:12:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been together for six years, and no matter how much i try to be close to his kids, they just hate me and my kids who happen to be their half-brothers. my boyfriend earns not even half the amount i'm earning, and i'm usually the 1 spending for us. He's such a jealous person that i cant even do anything productive because i cant go out without him. And if i break up with him, he threatens to harm me or my kids thats why i'm still stuck in this relationship..

2007-05-04 18:04:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every time I have plans to go out with my family or friends he will find something else for himself to do so he wont have to watch our son.

Last Wensday I made plans with my sister to go out on Saturday and I told him about my plans that day also asked him to watch our son, and I believe on wensday he said ok.

Last night He was talking to his Grandma on the phone and told her that he would be going to his dad's to work in the shop on Saturday.
And when I told him I had plans already to get out with my sister he ignored me.

Tomorrow is Saturday and I don't know what I should do!
I want to go out with my sister since it has been 4 years since we have hang out alone without my son

But I don't know what to say to my husband
He always says I boss him around too much but is asking really bossing around?
He usually gets his way by myself giving in or he will just leave.

Should I just call his father and tell him that I already had plans and he can still go if he takes our son?

2007-05-04 18:02:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's a jerk for not paying for his 3 kids and his exwife barely makes it without the money every month so I want him to pay what hes suppose to, what can I say to make him do it?

2007-05-04 18:01:12 · 12 answers · asked by David 3

2007-05-04 17:39:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

please note i am not willing to go to prostitutes and i dont have girlfriends and not do i have the kind of atmosphere where i have access to girls. I also have tried masturbation but no use.

2007-05-04 16:23:38 · 10 answers · asked by Mr. Sinner 1

He is 32 and I am 25. we have two wonderful children. and we have been together for 8 long years. married for 2 of them. I say long years cause we dont get along the greatest..but anyway..our son, almost 7 yrs old, is playing baseball and at the practices or games, if my husband sees someone he knows, he leaves us and goes to them. it is the same way every where we go..where it is a store or whatever. It really gets to me. Because like tonight, at my sons game, my husband took off and was talking to one of his buddies...and missed like half the game..and left me to take care of our little girl who is 3 yrs old and try and vidoe tape the game. I am all for socializing and all, but when he does this all the time and take like 1-2 hours in doing so ...it gets old quick. I have tried telling him how this bothers me and that I wish he wouldnt do so, but he does it anyway. And 3-5 nights every week he takes off and goes to a friends house. I stay home all the time. what should I do?

2007-05-04 15:44:17 · 23 answers · asked by luv my gsd 1

2007-05-04 15:04:04 · 34 answers · asked by sammy 2

2007-05-04 14:54:09 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1

I have never in my life felt this comfortable with a man like i do him. I lay my head on his chest and i melt into the warmth of his skin against my face. I look at him and see and feel everything that i need from a man. I truely love this man. Here's the problem. I want more and for personal reasons he can't. He says he wants the same things that i do but it can never happen. No he's not married. Problem 2 his social activities come before me 80% of the time. How can golf,poker,bowling be better than spending time with your g/f. I'm lonely and he's fine with 1 or 2 days a week to come to my house late and every other Saturday a date. He says he loves me and when i look into his eyes i see it. This man isn't enough for me but i love him so much. I pray for strength to move on and find what i need. Tears flow from being lonely all too often. This relationship hurts more than it feels good but i can't let go. please help.

2007-05-04 14:52:07 · 11 answers · asked by gidg 1