Married women : Do you sometmies feel you are unlucky when you see a more handsome man than your hubby?

Question

I know most of the answers will be ( no, I love my husband )
but, I need sincere confessions

Answer 1

No we are not like you men,all we think is how cute he is and that is it. We women don't dwell on the grass being greener
on the other side.What we will do if you brake your promises
or our hearts is find someone better someone that will keep his promise to love us.Men think we are hard to understand
but we are not all we want is to be treated the way you use to
treated us when we met.Do you men really no how bad you treat us after you get us. Really think about that !!

Answer 2

Why do you need sincere confessions??? Does your wife feel unlucky? If she does, it isn't because of your looks. Or maybe you seek to find a woman to pray upon while she is in a poor state of mind? Either way, your question is strange and makes you sound like a creep. You obviously don't understand women...good luck (if there is such a thing) has nothing to do with marriage. Although deserving, while you may not award me the best answer, I sense that it maybe the most intuitive.

Answer 3

I'm capable of telling which guys are generally seen as handsome and which aren't, but it always *feels* to me as if my husband is the most handsome guy in the world, even though I know that other people would just call him "a bit above average, but nothing special" or so. A big part of that is his wonderful smile and just the emotional connection etc. I know I sound kinda lame, but that's just the way I feel, honestly. So, anyway, the answer is no, because I just don't see guys I find more handsome than my husband. Men are just not very beautiful/handsome anyway... if I want to look at beautiful people, I'd go stare at women. Also, I feel lucky that my husband's looks are above average, as I'm not. :)

Answer 4

Unlucky??Hell no. I'm just worried that my husband's going to get hit on (which he does - ALL THE FREAKIN TIME). I sometimes wonder why he has to be so darn good looking. It would be so much easier on me if he was "not as handsome". I didn't marry my husband for his looks, he is a wonderful man. Keep in mind that looks might be what gets people's attention, but it's NOT what keeps the relationship going. With a handsome husband comes the "wondering". If you're worried that your wife wonders - DON'T. Trust me, looks have very little to do with marriage and love (as far as i know).

Answer 5

I find myself attracted to other men, but I have never felt unlucky. I don't think I have ever found another to be more attractive than my husband. On top of that, he is just a wonderful man who takes good care of me and goes out of his way to make me feel and know I am most important. I can't really relate a physical attraction to how I feel for my husband because the appeal for him is based on more than just looks, so he outranks them all. I may see other men, but there has never been one that even made me doubt my choice of a husband. Maybe you were looking for some hidden confession of regret in my marriage, but I can honestly say that is not true for me.

Answer 6

I suppose if I were honest I would say I feel a twinge of jealousy, but that twinge would only last for a split second. Because then I would remember why I am with my husband. Looks aren't everything because they do eventually fade. On the other hand, a persons personality stays with them. I would never say I am unlucky to be with someone if it were all about looks.

Answer 7

do i ever feel unlucky when i see someone better looking than my hubby? hmm no. my hubby is a total hottie and i feel lucky to have him but if the day were to come ( which it never will ) that i see a hotter guy then my hubby i won't feel unlucky because yes the guy might be better looking but my hubby treats me like a queen and he loves me unconditionally and that is not something that the other guy could do so no i wouldn't feel unlucky i would feel like the luckiest women in the world cuz no guy compares to my hubby looks or in any other way :)

Answer 8

Seeing someone more attractive than my spouse has nothing to do with feeling unlucky. Sure the guy at work may be better looking than my hubby but he may be a total a** when it comes to relationship so no, I don't feel unlucky at all.

Answer 9

I am in love with my husband. Ive never regretted any day that i have spent with him and never will. But if i see a man walking down the street who is attractive, yes i will have a look. Just because i see a man who is handsome walking down the street does not mean i love my partner any less. I fell in love with him for more than just his good looks.

I dont know that stranger walking down the road. But occasionally he has asked me if i find a certain male attractive. Im no liar, i will admit if i find a man nice looking. The same goes with my partner. He has told me many times if he has found a girl to be pretty.

Neither of us are insecure of our relationship. I dont question my love for him and he doesnt question me either. We both love and care for each other deeply. I know he would love me regardless of what i look like. But in the end i never fell in love with his looks and neither did he. We love each other for so much more than that and that is all that counts.

Answer 10

If I see a hot looking guy, well that's all he is frankly, nothing more than someone who's good looking.
But I don't feel unlucky at all because my husband is very kind, faithful, generous and loving, and good looking too, etc, and that means a million times more than some other guy who just has looks going for him.

Answer 11

This is not a confession. I married my man not the next one. Sure, others may or may not look good but when we married I knew what I had and he knew what he had. That handsome man could have all the bad things that my husband doesn't(cheater, abuser, selfish, lazy, etc). So, if you feel inferior...get over it. She loves you! She married you!