we have been together for six years, and no matter how much i try to be close to his kids, they just hate me and my kids who happen to be their half-brothers. my boyfriend earns not even half the amount i'm earning, and i'm usually the 1 spending for us. He's such a jealous person that i cant even do anything productive because i cant go out without him. And if i break up with him, he threatens to harm me or my kids thats why i'm still stuck in this relationship..
2007-05-04 18:04:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your really serious about breaking up with him, I would inform the police that your leaving your long term boyfriend of 6 years and that your afraid of him because he has threatened you if you leave. This way you can get a restraining order on him and the police can protect you and your children. Why would you want to marry a man like that especially if you can make it on your own financially. Leave for good if you truly don't love him and can't tolerate the situation anymore. Do it for you and your children's sake!
2007-05-05 07:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by 24Special 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what you're saying is the only reason you are still with him is because of a few threats? In other words, you would have left him a long time ago. I'd say you get recordings or save e-mails or notes that have the threats on them. Then when you go to get child support and custody rights, you have that to show that he gets supervised visits or no visitation. Outside of that, no there is no hope for the relationship. If his kids hate you there will always be that gap and it will strain your relationship further. If he is not pulling his weight financially and you can't handle that, then you need to go, unless there were a prior agreement that said you would support all of you financially. And jealousy never got a relationship anywhere except down the drain. You need to find someone who will accept you and your kids, work equally with you in ALL aspects of the relationship, someone who respects you, your ideas and feelings.
2007-05-04 21:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by sassynsweet1221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 19:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is a leach and a bully. Bullies are cowards and can't go through with their threats if you stand up to them.
Since you don't need him, why would you risk bringing your kids to a situation where there is more harm to them than it already is?
2007-05-04 18:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is a loser and unfortunately his other 2 kids are taking after him. Leave for the sake and protection of you and your kids.
2007-05-04 18:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bullshit, you are still stuck in tht relationship because you WANT to be. There is NOTHING he can do with the children if you leave him and you know it. If you wanted OUT of the relationship you wouldn't have stuck it out and had two children with this man who is "mean" and who's children "hate" you.
2007-05-04 18:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he threatens you i would never marry him . that is not a good sign . do you two live together already?
2007-05-04 18:08:31 · answer #7 · answered by sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serioius? From what you say, I cant find one good reason for you to marry him.
2007-05-04 18:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him and his brats.
2007-05-04 18:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by linda m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋