2007-04-30 15:01:17 · 13 answers · asked by Nitrodrive 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've never thought of it as cheating. That's insane. My husband has known his penis longer than I have. They get along well. Do I do it behind his back? No. I do it, but I love to tell him all about it. He seems to like this too. He gives me this look when I go into details or tell him that I'll be doing it later. Its a good look... He doesn't usually tell me when he does and I'm fine with that. We're married, not chained to each other.
2007-04-30 15:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
my Girlfriend doesn't consider it cheating. But She wants me to stop doing it especially after a night of sex denial,(teasing, affection and more teasing with no sex). She told me that i will have to wear a male chasitity belt if She suspects that i have been master bating.
As for Her, i just love watching Her do it.... i even add a little to it if She allows me to. i'm sure She does it when i'm not watching too. And that's fine with me!
2007-05-02 10:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by utob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well women feel like guys doing that is saying your girl is not doing the job for you. But I would rather have a man do that than to cheat on me.
2007-04-30 15:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by pinky5159 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe some girls take it that way if masturbating is happening a lot more than sex, yeah girls do it too but if I can get some from my man, then that`s what Im going with.
2007-04-30 15:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by mythoughts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbation isn't selfish, and it's not cheating (you can't cheat with YOURSELF behind someone else's back. it's not possible).
masturbation is simply a release and lots of married people do it, as well as singles.
animals do it too.. it's nature.
women who have a problem with this, are not very well educated about hormones and sexual release (OR physiology). hence, they are ignorant.....
i'll never understand people who get mad at their spouses or partners for masturbating. it doesn't make any sense to me.
2007-04-30 15:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its because most men need something to look at when they are masturbating and women generally think about their man. Some women consider looking at porn of any kind cheating.
2007-04-30 15:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, some guys feel the same way. I don't think you can actually cheat with yourself though.
2007-04-30 15:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by jade j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when women do it, 9 times out of 10 we are thinking about our man pleasing us. When men do it, you guys are more than likely thinking about some bimbo bent over in front of you. We know it's only a matter of time that mental fantasy will become a reality for you.
2007-04-30 15:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by LuvMyGirls 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
i feel you, but i think that that is attention that women mostly feel that should be given to them... lol selfish i know. but, it also gives some girls the sense that they are not satisfying their man... im ok with it, as long as im gettin some too!
and worried above me, had a good answer as well
2007-04-30 15:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow you must be dating some very superficial girls who are extrememly needy...and somewhat controlling. Maybe you should be broadening your horizons a little.
2007-04-30 15:13:44 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋