2007-04-30 15:19:18 · 16 answers · asked by skeeter195848 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not gay, not pregnant he is 52 i am 48 early retired
2007-04-30 15:40:55 · update #1
I WOULD ASK HIM IF I STINK OR IF HE THINKS I GOT THE KOOTIES.
2007-04-30 15:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by neverthelesser 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know a number of women with the same problem. It could be medical or psychological.
Same thing happens to us men. I've hung in there for years and years & finally after a couple of years without, found a friend. We now get along better.
My recommendation is have it (him) checked out. If he refuses, ask yourself whether you want to spend the rest of your life in a miserable situation.
2007-04-30 15:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by WILLIAM W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody is not gay!maybe he has e.d. and is scared to talk about it.he should go see his doctor and make sure there are no health issues going on.you need to talk to him is he working a lot of overtime?is he worried about things? could he be seeing someone else? is he into porn and has unreal ideas about how sex should be or how most women really are?is your husband a lot older than you? dont assume the worst,but dont play stupid either find out whats going on! good luck.
2007-04-30 15:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this is not normal, is it because he's stress, works too much, comes home late?? I would ask him why, is it because of you?? Maybe he's gay? You need to talk with him only he knows this answer
2007-04-30 15:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants to know that he can trust you.
So, heres and example,
One day you get intimate, then a week later you cheat on him,
and it breaks his heart.
He probably just wants to know your going to be loyal and honest.
Or...he's a virgin and isn't ready to get intimate just yet.
2007-04-30 15:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by k_i_l_l_e_r_s_n_i_g_h_t_m_a_r_e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine why a man wouldn't want to be intimate with his wife after only one year. Your best bet is to talk to him about this.
The best way to solve any problem is to talk about it, listen to what he has to say, understand what he is saying, then do something about it.
Good luck!
2007-04-30 15:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he did not consumate the marriage, you can consider this marriage null and void. See a lawyer about it.
2007-04-30 23:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just one year? are you pregant if you chances are that he doesnt want to hurt the child. if you're not then he could be having an affair.
but ask him, talk to him to be sure..
2007-04-30 15:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by Cher B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to seek a counsellor, if he doesnt want to go, tell him its over.
2007-04-30 15:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is gay
2007-04-30 15:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by Shirley D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you pregnant? If so, that could be the reason.
2007-04-30 15:23:58 · answer #11 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋