I really need some advice on what could be a crucial decision. I've suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. The usual signs... Phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up.
My wife has been going out with the girls a lot recently, although when I ask their names, she always says, "Just some friends from work, you don't know them." I always stay awake to look out for her taxi coming home, but she always walks down the street.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife. I think deep down, I just didn't want to know the truth. Last night she went out again and I decided to really check on her.
I decided I was going to hide behind my boat, which was parked on the driveway, next to the garage where I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It was at that moment, crouching behind my boat, that I noticed that the lower unit on my outboard seemed to be leaking a little oil. Is this something I can fix myself?
2007-04-28 10:16:38 · 18 answers · asked by quicksilverpro06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's funny. Best fake question I have read yet.
2007-04-28 10:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by Millionaire in training 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fix your outboard motor... The wife is likely cheating. Seems when someone cheats they don't change. Almost like they are ok with being like this and wanting their cake and eating it too. I'll tell you like I told my friend Larry... "Honey... put two and two together!!!" I know it hurts. But gain your pride back and face the problem.
Send an Inquiry to Cheaters.com That tv show. They follow them and if there is cheating... you know it and if there is none they find out quick. At least they have a great support team as well.
Always keep in mind you deserve better. Hold your head up and know it isn't your fault... You sound like a decent guy. Also check for STD's if you suspect cheating and are still active with her. Never catch anything you didn't ask for by actions.
2007-04-28 10:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by Angela C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL on changing the subject to oil leaking! Just because she deletes certain items from her phone etc, does not mean she is cheating. I do this too. And I go into another room because I'm shy speaking on the phone or I don't want to bother my husband. But if you are married, you have to feel comfortable talking to her about this. You can either talk to her straight on, or catch her in the act. Obviously you behave this way because you are feeling insecure about your marriage. She could react one of 4 ways: If she is not cheating: 1) Deny she is cheating (she really isn't) and realizes that she might have hurt you and becomes more transparent because she loves you and wants you to know she values you 2) Gets really mad and insulted of you accusing her of this and becomes uncooperative If she is cheating: 3) Admits it straight out 4) Denies it but remains secretive. If she really cared about you, I would think she would ease your insecurities by becoming more transparent and introducing you to peeople from work. Good luck... Just ask her. Even if she is cheating, you have to fix the cause of the problem, because cheating is almost always a symptom of something else.
2016-05-21 01:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might try changing the oil filter, checking the seal to make sure everything is OK. But to really be sure the thing is fixed, I'd take it to a professional. You'll need to put down some clay type kitty litter to soak up the oil from the driveway, too.
2007-04-28 10:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by K. F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"leaking alittle oil", so d truth is out?
well get all d things straightened out. affairs and matter of d heart is hard 2 control n demand. once it changes n its had 2 get it back.
confirm it by askin her and if it is...let it be n dont force her nor tortue urself. afterall its no point being 2gether but not your hearts!
no point livin in suspense, suspicion . . . live n true relationship dun go tis way.
go separate ways n find a new life 4 urslef!
2007-04-28 13:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you wife's boyfriend works on outboard motors.
2007-04-28 10:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL,
Nevermind fixing it.
She is going to divorce you for another man and take the boat and house anyway.
2007-04-28 10:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With that attitude, you'd stand a better chance fixing your boat, rather than your marriage.
2007-04-28 10:26:33 · answer #8 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, a wise guy like you can probably figure out how to fix anything..
2007-04-28 10:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by mrs. lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had me going for a moment.
2007-04-28 10:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋