Marriage & Divorce - 28 April 2007

My husband told me a saying that work is like sex, and he said it's a common saying but I have never heard it before. He is really busy with work and we are havving very little... intimacy. I'm not going to lie, I am sexual person, maybe more then him. But, he is telling me to be patient with him and understanding. I feel like I have been patient for quite some time now...a really long time. I don't have a problem with understanding, I just wish he could understand how I feel about the situation too (which I don't think he does.) I have already told him how I feel, but things are not changing.

What should I do?

2007-04-28 04:52:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I REALLY don't want my husband's last name, but it's obviously my child's last name as well. Will it have a negative effect on my little girl if her mom has a different last name than she?

2007-04-28 04:42:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i ask this question becauase i am most people at my school have already started having sex and i think i should not i want to stay sulivent untill marraige -what do u think?

2007-04-28 04:38:44 · 22 answers · asked by Master Tre 2

Basically ma an ma boyfriend hav been 2gether for nearly 2 years. We wanted to get married but being a asian our parents do not agree with our marriage (i'm muslim he's sikh). We ignored our parents and were stil 2gether secretly for over a year. But now his parents have arranged his marriage with a girl he doesn't even like and has recently gotten engadged to her!! He says he still wnts to see me evn wen he and we both get married (arranged) to someone. plz help should i carry on dis relationship??? :(

2007-04-28 04:36:41 · 19 answers · asked by mysterious honey 1

My ex-sister-in-law made a comment to me that hut me.
My ex-husband (her brother) and I went through a divorce and we thought we might get back together. I told her that we probably would not.

She said "It must be hard to not have anyone to anyone to share your life with." I was caught by surprise and could not come up with a response.

Do some women who are married put down other women who are not married?

What would have been a good response?

2007-04-28 04:33:08 · 9 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

2007-04-28 04:26:54 · 30 answers · asked by boywonder 1

i was divorced last sept from a relationship that was 10 years. she started dating as soon as i moved out. has been with 3 or 4 men since then. found out that she was dating someone for 2 months and that she was 7 weeks pregnant. what a slut! i dont want to know anything about her and i dont want to see her. why does this bother me so much? i cant have kids myself cause of a syndrom. and i found out that she wont have kids with me even if we got one somehow. i dont know what to think

2007-04-28 04:06:25 · 12 answers · asked by bobmelweber 1

2007-04-28 04:04:13 · 3 answers · asked by redbone001 1

My boyfriend have been going out for about a year now, and I love him completely, but then theres this other guy, who I've sorta made out with a couple times.

I'm not sure what to do, cause I like one guy, but am in love with the other...

help?

2007-04-28 03:56:45 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

During our 5 year marriage my husband and I gained custody of my biological grandson. Both our names are on the custody order.(grandson's biological father is unknown, his mother is a hopeless grug addict. he is 13 y.o. He is bi-racial) . Now my husband has filed for divorce (Georgia). Do I have any chance of winning child support from his step grandfather?

2007-04-28 03:32:44 · 13 answers · asked by perriwinkkle 1

im only separated in fact. my canadian bf is divorced. can i marry him in his country?

2007-04-28 03:30:19 · 10 answers · asked by maricris 1

My wife decided she was very unhappy with being married to me and wanted us to go our separate ways and wanted us to sell our house. We put our house on the market but then she asked if she could get a loan and buy me out which I agreed to. We got separation papers signed back on Sept. 13 2006 and her loan finally got approved Dec. 2006 and I was able to purchase a house that same month. By doing this I lost a great deal of money if we had sold the house instead but I did not want her to be miserable so I allowed her to have the house and give me $25,000. Since then she has fallen on hard times and is severely depressed and has not worked in months but I have moved on and trying to cope the best I can. I filed for divorce yesterday but was wondering although we have separation papers signed with both agreeing on everything what happenes if she refuses to sign the papers. How long can this go on like that in the state of Virginia?

2007-04-28 03:30:04 · 10 answers · asked by hokiedokie24 2

2007-04-28 02:41:43 · 23 answers · asked by vivi 1

2007-04-28 02:23:25 · 6 answers · asked by J 2

I was with him for 10 years and we had a daughter who is now 5. I left him because things went really wrong when we moved in together. He treated me like a child with money. What I always found difficult was his love of talking and flirting with other women. He loved attention from women and they were always putty in his hand although he would flatly deny this. Anyway, I left. Now the dust has settled - 3 years down the line - I find I can't stop loving him. He doesn't have another partner and asks me for kisses and cuddles and will call in to see me. He says he doesn't want us to get back together. I feel it wouldn't be a good idea anyway. I'm trying to forget him and move on but feel terribly lonely. To make it worse, he has a great social life and has many women friends who, as before, enjoy the attention he pays to them. I feel so hurt and eaten up with jealousy. I need to get away from him but we have to see each other because of our daughter. I have given him all the power.

2007-04-28 01:41:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm the morning she dosn't want to be woke up, and the day if our daughter is napping she's not in the mode, and at night she's too tired. Even before this dry spell it wasn't very often maybe every other week if I begged

2007-04-28 01:24:39 · 19 answers · asked by Answerman 3

and left you with nothing and told you that we had just run out of funds and then had a go at you for buying her a nice mothers day present what would you do ?

2007-04-28 00:04:16 · 24 answers · asked by stan 2