My boyfriend have been going out for about a year now, and I love him completely, but then theres this other guy, who I've sorta made out with a couple times.
I'm not sure what to do, cause I like one guy, but am in love with the other...
help?
2007-04-28 03:56:45 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Were you with your bf when you made out with this other guy? IF so, that's not love.
If you really want the relationship to last, ditch this other guy.
2007-04-28 04:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, seek your definition of love, second how old are you? This can be an importance because it relates with experience. Three, love is as strong as hate meaning if you love someone you would not hesitate to die for them, if you hate someone than it's the opposite form. I don't believe you have captured a true definition of what love is; you have truly define what lust is by your actions. Juggling with the two can be dangerous, it's a risk to claim love for one and lust for the other. It's no good either way. If you have feelings for the one do not apply pain into the other. Make a choice before the choice is no longer yours and you end up losing more than what you have. But then we tend to receive what we deserve rather than what we expect whether we like the outcome or not.
2007-04-28 11:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by JNCDGYA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, choose one..and there is no "sorta" making out, either you make out or you don't. First of all, if you love your boyfriend so much you wouldn't "touch the merchandise". I would say you aren't as in love with him as you think you are and maybe, first you need to be honest with him, and secondly, you need to take time away from him and see how you feel about this other dude.
2007-05-02 05:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by ~~*Paradise Dreams*~~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're in love with ya boyfriend but like another guy cause you're a smart cookie. It may not be about men but it's definitely about you. Go girl long as you're not married to either one of them.
2007-04-28 11:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by Curel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may love your boyfriend, but you're not in love with him. When you are in love you are consumed with passion and thoughts of that person, there is no room for anyone else. You need to drop this guy on the side and come clean to your bf.
2007-04-28 11:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by GoldenGirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is only my opinion, but it could be you're not as "in love" with your boyfriend as you claim you are. I strongly urge you to put some serious thought into this matter.
2007-04-28 11:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you'd want your boyfriend to do to you. Meaning, how would you feel if he was sorta making out with other girls?
2007-04-28 11:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋