Wife is 5 months preg, we havn't had sex in 4 weeks?

Question

I'm the morning she dosn't want to be woke up, and the day if our daughter is napping she's not in the mode, and at night she's too tired. Even before this dry spell it wasn't very often maybe every other week if I begged

Before more people bash me, I've see all sorts of preg women on here complaining that their mate isn't interested.

For you men that answered just wait until the day you don't get any,

Sex it's like air, ain't no big deal unless your not getting any

Answer 1

hellooooo! She is pregnant !

Answer 2

I wish men could understand what it is like to be pregnant, then they wouldn't be asking this question.

Your wife is 5 months pregnant and there is another child in the household. I don't know how old this other child is BUT I have to assume the little girl is a toddler. This is exhausting enough for a pregnant woman. You never mentioned if your wife works too!

First of all stop begging for sex as there is no need to do this. Start doing this for her as this is the way to win a woman's heart. Simple things like setting the dinner table, or clearing the table and helping with the dishes. Taking the trash out on your own, or helping with the laundry. Or perhaps getting your daughter ready for bed, giving her a bath, reading the child a book. You would be so surprised by what you do that brings so much love pouring out of your wife's heart.

Try cuddling with her at night, letting her know cuddling is enough for tonight as you just want to be with her. Keep this up and she may come around to you.

And most of all talk with her and understand what she is going through being pregnant and how can you help make it easier for her.

Answer 3

Perhaps you could talk to her. Some women find it quite uncomfortable at this time..and if you have another child (who takes naps) it's quite alot of work. Remember she's carrying all that extra weight , is on her feet most of the day , perhaps when the lil one is sleeping at night..run a bath your wife can soak in..when she gets out..try massaging her-relaxing her...perhaps putting her in the mood.
She may not even realize it's been that long...maybe she feels 'unsexy'.....if you can openly talk with her hopefully you both can come to an understanding/agreement*= on the other hand...some women want to keep on doing it*during their pregnancys, and there are different things you both can do with each other, instead of actually 'doing it' all the time. It really depends on how the pregnant one is feeling..if she's tired....try different things to help her feel relaxed more so than tired.
GOODLUCK AND BET WISHES*

Answer 4

I LOVE your last line!
Hormones fluctuate incredibly during a pregnancy. Some women just don't feel like "sex" during certain weeks of the pregnancy. However, there are times where the hormones are surging, and women want it all the time. Remember, even if she doesn't want intercourse, don't stop being intimate with her and affectionate - she needs you throughout this time. Maybe help more with the workload, and she won't be so tired.
I do agree with you, though, a month is a long time. Talking to her about it is your best approach, I think.

Answer 5

Talk to her about it, let her know how you feel. Pregnancy does make a lot of women moodier. I feel bad for your problem, when I was pregnant my husband got the other end of the stick, I couldn't get enough, poor guy was exhausted and happy for labor and delivery!! Your best bet is to just talk to her, let her know that it is important to still be close during the pregnancy and after. It could be a medical problem if this started before, in that case she should seek medical help. There are hundreds of reasons women dont want to have sex, the only way you will know for sure is her answers.

Answer 6

I can understand your point. I've been pregnant 2 times and I know how your wife feels also. When I was pregnant and my husband always made me feel sexy by telling me I was beautiful and my belly turned him on. Well that turned me on. He was very gentle too. He made the whole act of love making all about me....and he got his too in the process. Just be patient with her. Growing a baby is hard work. You might also give her back rubs or foot rubs. Remember being pregnant doesn't last forever.

Answer 7

Dude, her hormones are raging, she feels like crap because of the baby growing inside her and she probably doesn't feel very good about herself. You just have to be there for her, support her, tell her she is beautiful every day and maybe in a few weeks, days maybe, she will feel better (physically and emotionally) and be on you faster then you can say condom.

Answer 8

Hey dude, look you've go to understand prego women are NOT normal. Look it's just going to be a little while longer. All you do is just sit w/her, be gentle, get her the pickled flavor ice cream or whatever and be cool. Give her a massage, rub her belly. She needs your attention. Be patient and it will come. She's just on a low now. Wait till she's on a high. You'll have to fight her off. Relax.....

Answer 9

Com'on mate. Just be very careful and quitely go find a little something on the side for now. After the baby comes and she gets back to normal, then figure out why she's so grumpy.

Answer 10

Put yourself out of your misery and go directly to the source~your wife! She's pregnant and it sounds like your daughter is young if she's napping through the day, so she's probably "tired" and her hormones are "everywhere"! Ask her "WHY" before your 4week withdrawals get any worse!

Answer 11

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