What are Chinese or Asian men like in a relationship?

Question

I don't want to promote steroetpypes, but I'd like to know a little background on Asian men. What are they like? What do they like and dislike? What are their expectations of their female counterpart?

Answer 1

Asians born and spent a good part of early childhood outside of the US are very different than those born and raised here. The latter are 90% Americanized.

For the former group, they typically grew up with less and are therefore more ambitious and treat their career more seriously. As such, they are professionals and financially better off. They respect their parents and have no problems living with their parents -- which many American women apparently cannot understand or tolerate.

By nature, these men grew up more obedient at home so they are quiet and don't speak up as much. That;s why later on in life, their wives would complain their "communication problem". In the same token, these men think women in general either talk too much or spend too much.

They are taught to continue their family tradition and often give higher priority to their children than their wives, so to speak.

While they might have fantasies about western women in their early childhood from magazines, few men want to marry them later as Asian women mature later than western women but therefore don't age early.

So if you are not Asian, either you have a sexy body that tickle their fancy or you need substance. These men don't necessarily sweet talk to you that much and they certainly are NOT into kinky sex that much.

Asians of different nationality are different. Some see no problem beating their wives in their home country. One thing they do share in common. They can have affairs but they absolutely do not tolerate their wives doing so.

I know because I am Asian and I know what I want.

Answer 2

Asian men are abusive to women and allowed to beat their women. My sister married an abusive Asian man who expects her to do everything he says. My sister has a very difficult life with her Asian husband. I would never go near an Asian man for as long as I live.

Answer 3

i dont speak for all asian men, but of those that i know and for myself
*processing ego check*

i'm a generally hard-working but overstressed guy, that values honesty, being direct, discipline, and smarts... i'm a Democrat, but i'm conservative on certain issues... regarding gals, i would like them to be honest and loving towards me; i think thats about it (of course, good looks and the usual are a plus)

but before this sounds like a Personal Ad, i'm gonna stop here^^

Answer 4

A man is a man for how he is brought up, his environment, etc. You cannot assume an Asian is like this, or an American is like that....

But most of the guys I know are fairly mild-mannered.

Answer 5

Men are men - they all like women.

Asian men are used to having subservient women pandering to their needs!

Answer 6

Well my boyfriend is asian so i should knw that they love to be around you(as in the girlfriend) alot. They will do anything to just get his arms around you, or to get you into bed. They are the sweetest guys b/c they are told to never hit a woman.

Answer 7

I'm sorry, but this is such a horrible question. You are promoting stereotypes and ought to be ashamed of yourself. Every person on this earth is different and unique - regardless of their race or nationality.

Grow up.

Answer 8

there just like any other man out there lady... only differences are their culture which they tend to promote in a relationship. Its their upbringing to understand the importance of culture thats all

Answer 9

Very domineering or controlling. If he says something, slap him in the face and call him a ***** and leave him.

Answer 10

I would advise to judge each person individually.