my mom kick him out and i dont know who i should be more mad at...him for not fighting to stay or my mom for kicking him out. help!
2007-04-28 17:54:03 · 7 answers · asked by showstoppr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't know what you should do. Kids always suffer when the parents are stupid to eachother.
I hope you do well, and find the answers you are looking for.
2007-04-28 17:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask your mom why she kick him out,had to be a good reason for him not to fight to stay.It is usually because the husband has cheated. I no you don't want to think that of your dad but remember he is a man before he is your dad.This is what dads do over and over,the big mistake is not telling the kids what is going on.If the kids aren't told then the mom gets all the blame for the dad leaving.I say tell the kids so they no what kind of dad they really have.This goes both ways.
2007-04-29 01:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry. Ponder the meaning of life and then eventually realize your Dad left the house, not your family and definitely not you. The problem is not you. Chances are he will still be "there" for you and over time you will become even closer than you were when he lived at home.
I pray for your peace of mind, while your parents lose theirs.
Good bless you little one...
Steve
2007-04-29 01:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by shaffner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry this is happening to you. I know you are confused and hurt and angry. I think you need to talk to a counselor at your school. You really need someone to talk to and to help you figure out what you are feeling.
Sometimes parents just can't get beyond their feelings of anger and frustration with each other.
Stay strong and know it isn't your fault.
2007-04-29 00:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by doerayme_fasolatido 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay where you are.You will answer your own question as time goes by,The picture will clear up for you when your dad and mom are forced to communicate and at that time you can talk to both of them.and their lawyers!
2007-04-29 01:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by jack y 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love them both. Stay in touch with them both.
2007-04-29 01:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just know that it is not your fault. your parents just aren't compatible anymore.
2007-04-29 04:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by mishka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋