Marriage & Divorce - 23 April 2007

our marriage is only 6 months old,and he is in hurry to try all his fantacies.I have to wake up early in morning and he gets annoyed if i want to sleep after once.lake of sleep and pain in rear is making me uneasy.how and in which words i should tell him that he accepts without feeling hurt,kindly suggest.i will be grateful

2007-04-23 23:07:56 · 32 answers · asked by sulagatirani 1

i had proposed her several times but of no use.every times she refused me saying that she is my mami & this is not fare.i like her very much.when ever i see her my heart begans to run like train.i want to have her at any cost.what will i do

2007-04-23 22:34:31 · 4 answers · asked by umesh g 1

2007-04-23 22:25:11 · 5 answers · asked by havah 2

we just got married like 9 months ago, weve been fighting a lot, but i need more romantic. like we used to be. i dont get thay butterfly feelinganymore. what can i do to make him see i need it and im sad? in a guys opioion what should i do to let him know i need more romantic?

2007-04-23 22:20:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

He filled out the divorce papers last year but they are still in his vehicle.
Why would he not file them?

2007-04-23 21:41:42 · 7 answers · asked by crystal2phoenix 1

2007-04-23 21:23:59 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-23 21:01:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know what it is about me...really bad luck I guess...but I've been raped by five different men, two of them more than once. I'm married and and was attacked and raped by two men in my home while my husband was deployed (they are the two repeat offenders). The men are both currently in prison for the second time. My husband and I have been having some issues, which I'm guessing is normal, and I'm doing individual counseling for a while before we start going together (it was recommened by our therapist).

My questions for all the husbands out there: Have you ever had to deal with something like this? Is so, did/do you blame your wife for what happened to her? Did/do you think differently of your wife because of what happened?

2007-04-23 20:39:51 · 18 answers · asked by J 3

I'm not very domesticated. In fact, when I offer to cook, he says, "NOOOOO!" And when I try, he laughs! Boohoo.

2007-04-23 20:09:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

If there is a phone nearby?

2007-04-23 20:06:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am calling it quits with my husband and I! Tonight he went to a hotel but I just need to focus on me than him and I can't seem to love him like he loves me what's the matter we have been together for 12 yrs off/on and married for 4. Why do I feel like this

2007-04-23 19:45:10 · 9 answers · asked by vetski1976 1

I see alot of married couple where the wife gets to be a beluga whale while the husband stays relatively normal. I understand they have kids, but do they just let themselves go with the mentality of 'I've got him trapped, there's no need to maintain myself'. I can see why alot of guys get erectile dysfunction in marriage as I don't know how I could get up the courage to have sex with a 200 pounder. I think my limit at most would have to be 160 until it's too unappealing. Would love be enough to look past the cottage cheese? I was in love and I noticed over time she gained some weight and let herself go alot. I knew at that point(especially after seeing her mom) that she would get gargantuan after marriage. Why can't they just stop being so large?

2007-04-23 19:32:06 · 23 answers · asked by johnny d 1

2007-04-23 19:28:08 · 16 answers · asked by nusy 1

My wife cheated on me 3 yrs back, she would always compare me to him, she says she never slept w/him, or cheated on me! Whatever! So, why did she come looking for me? Is she doing it cuz of kids or she wana be w/me?

2007-04-23 19:21:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-23 19:19:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bestfriend and I are both women and are both married. One night we kissed and did some other stuff. She won't talk to me anymore and doesn't want to be friends because of what happened between us. But I feel so guilty because I don't know if its considered cheating if you kiss another women and have women sex. Please help I am going out of my mind, I already lost my bestfriend I don't want to lose my husband too.

2007-04-23 19:17:46 · 25 answers · asked by sexylady 2

ok well me and this guy were together for almost two years and now its over its been about two months..well everyone knows that summer is right around the corner, and i kno that he is going to be out in the summer messing with other girls and like i am hella obsessing over it like im skared to see him with another gurl because it will just break my heart and i dont kno what to do and like people keep telling me " just find sumone else it will help" but its like i dont want anyone else for me and i dont want anyone else for him either *scratches head* please help what should i do to get over this jealousy hes not mine!!! my brain understands but my heart doesnt

2007-04-23 19:14:24 · 10 answers · asked by amanda b 1

I have a custody order in Colorado. he got a custody order in Ohio. I have had the children the entire time, he has not tried to see them in 6yrs. We now both have child support payments in both states and we are both in arrears I'm 6900 and he is 42000. I lost my income tax and yet He still hasn't paid for the children in over two years. Any ideas on what to do. The judge in Ohio will not reopen the case

2007-04-23 19:14:18 · 8 answers · asked by Patricia 2

shes says shes depressed when I tell her to pick up or clean or take care of my kids and thats when she says shes depressed! I took her to a psychologist and didnt say a thing, so What should I do?

2007-04-23 19:12:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

after 19yrs i still cant trust him n e more now than i could then.why cant we except tha fact that we will never b happily in love an 100% trustin of each other

2007-04-23 19:00:12 · 35 answers · asked by pooh 1

I've been thinking about going to college and I really dont know what I should do. The only thing that grabs my attention is marriage and family counseling. Can anyone tell me more about this career? About how much do therapists get paid? Well thanks guys. Peace out!
xoxo
LaLa

2007-04-23 18:44:45 · 6 answers · asked by LaLa 2

My neighbor is involved in a relationship with her first cousin. She and her cousin have had 2 children together that they adopted out to this rich family. Will her children be messed up in anyway? This family doesnt even know that these children are inbred. Their parents are first cousins.

2007-04-23 18:38:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What aspects matter you most to take this decision?

2007-04-23 18:00:14 · 22 answers · asked by helpaneed 7

this is alot like my friends question who was with me in a very bad incedent. I've done some bad things in the past that I regret but it keeps happening. I've atempted to joy ride a golf cart, stolen things from a store, and gotten in fights at school. How can I fix my issues?

2007-04-23 17:56:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not an overly emotional person prefering to keep my emotions in check and under control he has told me on a number of occasions that i act numb to his emotions.I am a business woman and if i let my emotions control me like hubby does i would never get anything done.When my hubby comes to me and vents about a problem i try to find a solution to the problem an advise him but he thinks i am beeing rude and not listening?

2007-04-23 17:53:28 · 22 answers · asked by Jenny B 1

I've been separated from the common law hubby for a month now. We have 2 kids together. We planned out our 2nd child and he started to cheat a few months into my pregnancy, and I didn't find out until my last trimester, had my baby, and he continued to see her so I finally kicked him out. Now he tells me how he misses the kids but doesn't want a relationship with me because he now says he doesn't have feelings for me, but he doesn't know what he wants. So his solution was we live as roomates in separate rooms, I told him no, because I feel it's so wrong on many levels. I'm slowly moving on with my life, and well have handled being a single mom as best as I can considering I have a newborn and a toddler under the age of 2. Should I just keep moving forward? He still sees the kids and I don't stand in btw their relationship. However, this situation seems to just be lingering, if he wants it final then we need to close down bank accounts, split the belongings etc. What to do??

2007-04-23 17:46:19 · 17 answers · asked by shorty_5600 1

Been married 5 yrs hubby is 27 and i am 26.Our relationship has been progressivley getting worse.For starters we both majored business in college and started working for same company just different branches making about the same.I got promoted(was tranfered 3 months ago as hubbys bosses boss) and he stayed at almost the same level he started out at.He has been in a bit of a slump because really he has no real drive?I have tried to talk to him but he just does not listen.I have plans to go into entrepreneur work at the end of this year to a have a more flexiable work hours and possibly make more money.Hubby likes things as they are does not understand any of my goals?He wants to start a family now i want to wait 2-3 more years?What to do communication thus far has not worked?

2007-04-23 17:24:43 · 8 answers · asked by Jenny B 1

My man use to be a really heavy drinker, but thank god he has stopped drinking the hard stuff crown royal. He was starting to get very angry drinking that stuff. But my family won't even give him another chance. He is a great guy now and he does not want to lose me again and that is why he has stopped drinking. How can i get my family to for give and for get what he uses to be like when he did drink that stuff. They won't even come over here. And boy does that hurt me and my man but he don't say it though. Please help me please.

2007-04-23 17:03:32 · 13 answers · asked by Glenna S 1

"Susan" and "David" are in a long term relationship and planning to marry this year or next.

Susan left college and moved out of state to help David pursue his career. David and Susan moved 5 times in 4 years; all over the country for his work, but now they are settled in one town. Susan, because of her sacrifice, now has no degree, minimal job experience, no friends. She does not resent her choice, but she resents the fact that David does not acknowledge all that she has done for him. David is pushing Susan to gain employment somewhere, but all that can be found for women in her situation pays little over minimum wage, whereas David makes almost $100,000 a year. Susan is now accustomed to staying home, and is rather happy to be a "housewife". Should Susan take a low paying job simply to please David? Should David be thankful for what Susan already does?

2007-04-23 16:35:28 · 37 answers · asked by Vakari 5

he might treat you good or preplanning the worst at his convience I came into a lump of money when we began our marriage and it was a real rocky situation my mom just passed away now weve been married for 5 years known each other for 6 and hes has 2 surgerys 1 disc in his neck was removed and they sent him back to work 6 weeks later and know 1year later 3 more have been removed and ive been taking care of him on and off since.... i used up almost all my money my mom left me 98% of it andknow because of all this hes going to get a large handfull of money and i think because hes getting this money he might divorce and leave me , ive done nothing wrong in this marriage at all except we do have a few real good fights/ arguments theyve lessened since weve been married It all revolves around alcohol when i 1st got married i drank yeah also because of my mom dieing and know idrink less 2x a year . hes getting a large sum of money do you think hes going to leave me?????

2007-04-23 16:28:39 · 22 answers · asked by karen.cervac@yahoo.com 1