Marriage & Divorce - 20 April 2007

I am a Korean-American woman married to a Korean-American man. Over the past year and a half, I have been studying abroad in Australia for my Master's degree, and for the most part living away from my husband, seeing him only once every 5 to 6 months. Living away, I had been very lonely, and ended up having a relationship with an Australian man (Caucasian/White Guy). I am currently back in the US for personal matters but I just recently realize that I am also pregnant (missed my period couple times so I went to check up and found out I'm 2 month pregnant). I am certain it is the Australian man's child since I had not had sex with anyone else for the past 5 months (and certainly not my husband). What should I do? I love my husband but I also love this Australian man (he is single. We never talked about being together or anything such as getting a divorce). As an added note, I also have one child, who I of course love very much, with my husband.

2007-04-20 23:53:40 · 15 answers · asked by cchen1982j 1

2007-04-20 23:52:57 · 18 answers · asked by jitu 1

Who is better?
This one:
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or this one:


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Why?

2007-04-20 23:12:42 · 18 answers · asked by stocksdow 1

Im from Phills. i married 6 years back and i wanna take Divorce to marry an Indian Guy. But in the Phills there is no Divorce option. So Please help and suggest me hw to approach. send me a mail to buterflyrohan@yahoo.com

2007-04-20 22:57:58 · 3 answers · asked by Rohan K 1

I mean completely alone, no one to bother you, no kids, no husband / wife, totally time just for you. How would you spend it?

2007-04-20 22:40:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

yup he is the ex i have to meet daily .. he is moody although two days back i got litlle nostaligic ... but he is rude in his body language /i really dunno why can we not be just normal ????
ppl dont want us to talk cos we fight ... & even if we talk it out we are always weird ... im tired of it .. but im also hating his aloofness which is soo rude ... i cannot belive how ppl change?????

2007-04-20 22:40:47 · 1 answers · asked by barley 2

i had a galfrnd, we were in relationship for 3 years.we cudnt marry each other as parents were against. though we knew that we may never marry we used to maintain the relationship. frequently we used to have sex and once she also became pregnant and gone for abortion later. recently she got married to another person. we decided to breakup as it will create problems to both. it has been 8 months i never spoke to her i dnt kwn how her life is, but as to me its really hurting me that she is another man wife and shares everything with him. i always get the feeling that my wife is sharing bed with another man. Is it common for everybody who had sex with their galfrnd and not get married to her. Thoughs are hurting n killings me. iam becoming sick day by day.

2007-04-20 22:01:31 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-20 22:00:32 · 11 answers · asked by Juan G 2

2007-04-20 18:26:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay here's the thing...I Stumbled across a web site that my husband visits daily...It's kinda like myspace but it's directed toward xxx adults. I'v always felt that he was cheating and this just took me back a step...It's not as if it's someone from his job that he has genuine feelings for...This is just any ol' hooker on some cheap site ..So I came up with the idea to set up a fake account to see if I could get him to talk to her...sure enough he has...He has no idea that this girl he thinks wants to sleep with him is really me, his wife... "they" have been chatting for over two weeks and he wants to see her this weekend...My question is...Has he already crossed the line? Or do I set up a meating to see if he shows...And to his suprise He will learn that it has been me all along? Just to add... I'm level headed...so this encounter will not be a domstic dispute.

2007-04-20 18:23:49 · 35 answers · asked by Georgia Girl 1

She no longer seems interested in our sex life but yet she likes to dress up for the guys we play cards with, one of the guys I suspect she might be interested in.

2007-04-20 18:18:58 · 27 answers · asked by gd8432_98 2

i ignore my wife, she is sick...she is doing my emotional and financial abuse..she stays with me for her financial requirements. i have a child, who is willing to have both parents, shall i divorce her..or keep managing in the hell created by abuser..

2007-04-20 18:18:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not sure if should leave my husband. I am preaty sure he is cheating. But I have no were to go. I need to talk to somebody.

2007-04-20 18:15:33 · 25 answers · asked by A.T.222 1

I don't think I could, but want to see the statistic of women and men who would marry because they really like and do love their spouses, BUT are not in love....why would you do it then?

2007-04-20 18:14:49 · 39 answers · asked by Duuuude no waaaay! 2

I feel like getting in the car and driving away.

2007-04-20 18:10:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not talking about not reporting it, or not leaving the relationship, but why wouldn't he defend himself? I wouldn't have a problem defending myself, by whatever means i saw as necesarry.

If "restraining" her didn't work, I wouldn't have a problem smacking or hitting in order to avoid being scratched or kneed or clawed.

What would cause a man not to fight back? Fear of legal consequences? Misplaced chivalry? Love? Physical handicap? Just wondering.

2007-04-20 18:00:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-20 18:00:10 · 18 answers · asked by anc 1

I have a fantasy of my wife making love with another guy. I am not very well endowed, so the thought of her being with a hot studly guy is a big turn on for me, should I tell her about it

2007-04-20 17:59:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know my husband is cheating on me, but I have mastered this plan to save up as much money as possible before I let him in on my plans to divorce him. We have 2 small children and i'm far away from friends and family... I'm just curious if this is deceptive/misleading? I have 100% no desier to sleep with him ever again... I just want to this all to be over and done with so that we can both move on...Should I tell him I now...Or should I just bite my tounge untill I'm fully prepared to leave?

2007-04-20 17:48:07 · 26 answers · asked by Georgia Girl 1

I cheated on my wife of 5 years with someone younger. I thought that I didnt love my wife anymore. I divorced her and was with the younger girl. It has been over a year, the relationship with the younger girl is coming to an end. The whole time I was with the younger girl. I was thinking of how I had let this happen. I know is my guilt talking, but I never really did not love my wife. I think is me being a guy and wanted something new. I am just being honest. I couldnt even face my exwife and truely tell what I did. I just moved out and left her hanging. I constantly think about my exwife the whole year I was with the other girl. I had a good thing with her, now that I really thought about it. I know she is not going to take me back. But thats just my feeling... And thought I share and see what you guys think. I guesss is the feeling of loosing something good...

2007-04-20 17:43:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-20 17:41:01 · 14 answers · asked by Juliet 5

what is the 1 thing that makes a good and successful marrage

2007-04-20 17:38:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been married for 15 years. My wife has been brainwashed by her dad for all of them. I had his blessing when we got married but ever since he has been in every part of our decisions. One call to her dad and she changes her mind. This has been on everthing from our cars, our house, our kids, my work, what color our house should be. The list is a mile long because it's been going on so long and it still is going on. The times at her parents house are close to unbearable. Her dad will insult me in front of me or behind my back- but what bugs me is my wife to this day has never stuck up for me. He has gotten worse over the years because I, very politely, told him to stay out of affairs. Things just get worse. The man is 66 years old and he lies like a bad 5 year old kid. Now he is at the point that he makes up stories and tells my wife what rude things I said to him and my wife seems to believe him. I love her but I can not take any more.

2007-04-20 17:29:29 · 10 answers · asked by joe b 1

Breaking their marriage vows to love, honor, cherish, obey for better or worse, in sickness or health, till death do us part?
Why would a man or woman want to put someone through all these three?

2007-04-20 17:26:22 · 27 answers · asked by Desyra 2

The include very fragmented unusual statements such as "he will be walking out the door any minute" and "they call me on their break and I cant do it any more" Should I be worried about these statements. There are many more just as unusual.

2007-04-20 17:23:32 · 16 answers · asked by Matt 1

heres a question for the women here. first off i do understand that trust is a vital thing in a relationship. now that being said in todays world where infidelity is an epidemic you would be a fool to not at least entertain the possibility that you spouse might cheat? so tell me if your man questions you about something that just doesnt seem kosar do you get mad as hell or do you secretly view that concern as a compliment and your mans affirmation that you are a desirable women that other men would love to have?? again i understand trust, but sometimes when you have a strange # on your phone or you seem sneaky about somethng we men cant help but wonder?? afterall when we do this arent we affirming that we still love and dont want to loose you!! dont castigate me about it just tell me your thoughts as it would apply to your own situation. and by the way all of these women on here that continually brag about running around sure dont help to ease a weary mind now do they???????

2007-04-20 17:21:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

my name is ANISH..d-o-b is 21 feb 1982 , 2345hrs at trichur(kerala) and the girl whom i love is Deepti..her D.O.B is 05 May 1983, 0859 hrs at mumbai(ghatkopar)...When are we going to marry? Is there any hindrances in getting married? Will we lead a happy married life?

2007-04-20 17:18:24 · 5 answers · asked by anish a 1

what are the chances he would leave after a few years of marriage or start to cheat on me?

2007-04-20 17:17:01 · 12 answers · asked by sweet sensation 3

I could just kill him!! My ex came over to pick up our boys. When he got here the kids were thrying to show off for him. Next thing I know they are fist fighting. They are 10 and 11. I tried to stop them, there dad just stood there saying if they are going to fight, I don't want them coming over. When I try to tell him that our 11 year old said that he hated him, he won't talk about it. So he starts going out to his car saying I can't deal with this, If they are going to be fighting I am not going to take them. I said you have to, their your kids too. He said I don't care, take me to court. I told him what kind of man are you that you can't handle your kids. Then he gets all weary looking and says I tried to talk to them. I hate it because you can tell he really does not want to deal with it. I told him seeing your kids 4 days a month does not make you a parent. He only lives 15 min. away, he can see them anytime. He ended up taking them. I feel sad because the boys need a stong dad.

2007-04-20 17:13:29 · 5 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4

2007-04-20 17:07:47 · 12 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7