i ignore my wife, she is sick...she is doing my emotional and financial abuse..she stays with me for her financial requirements. i have a child, who is willing to have both parents, shall i divorce her..or keep managing in the hell created by abuser..
2007-04-20 18:18:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to see a marriage counselor ASAP with her tagging along.
2007-04-20 18:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a complicated situation, I would not tolerate any kind of abuse.
It is always unhealthy to stay in an abusive relationship, on the partners, but more importantly it is harmful for the child to have to see and feel. They are affected by this more in the long run, because it taints their future relationships with mates. They see relationships which in reality are sick and abusive, as healthy and functional because children watch the parents interacting...They imitate what they see.
You don't want that I am sure that you love your child. If not leave for you, at least leave for the child.
But how much do you love yourself? Why stay if you are continued to be abused?
It sounds like you have many reasons to leave, and you should consider leaving. But only if you feel that things can absolutely not be worked out. I advise this to women all of the time when in an abusive relationship, I am not used to a man being in this predicament. I find it courageous that you would seek help on a medium like this.
Good Luck
God Bless
2007-04-21 03:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is sick , sick then why would you leave her when she and the child needs you the most . If she is just sick like in the head and using you then she doen't love you and you will never be happy. And if she is really sick she can get finaces like disability if you divorce her, your life you make the call.But abuse is abuse.and I am sure your daughter feels the tention.
2007-04-21 01:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by martha g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the child and leave, do not leave the child with someone like your describing. I have a friend that has put up with so much and its so obvious she is just using him for a paycheck. She's not sick, she's just a mean person that is using someone else.
2007-04-21 01:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You call this a marriage, what is she bringing to the table. Get out and be done with it, you aren't making her happy and you are differently not happy. What is the reason for staying.
2007-04-21 01:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by Diane T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry.
If she's sick, get her on her meds. If they're not working, tell the doctor. Maybe she needs her meds changed around. Both of you needs counseling.
If she start beating you, read my questions.
Don't let her beat you; you're a man.
2007-04-21 01:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by Desyra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your child and get out of there - she is destroying the baby even more than she's destroying you!! She can go on disability if she is clinically ill.
2007-04-21 01:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me but aren't you apart of this marriage too? Participate dude...
2007-04-21 01:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should get out.
2007-04-21 01:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋