I cheated on my wife of 5 years with someone younger. I thought that I didnt love my wife anymore. I divorced her and was with the younger girl. It has been over a year, the relationship with the younger girl is coming to an end. The whole time I was with the younger girl. I was thinking of how I had let this happen. I know is my guilt talking, but I never really did not love my wife. I think is me being a guy and wanted something new. I am just being honest. I couldnt even face my exwife and truely tell what I did. I just moved out and left her hanging. I constantly think about my exwife the whole year I was with the other girl. I had a good thing with her, now that I really thought about it. I know she is not going to take me back. But thats just my feeling... And thought I share and see what you guys think. I guesss is the feeling of loosing something good...
2007-04-20 17:43:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You screwed up my ex screwed up his ex screwed up her ex screwed up. What do you all want a pity party ? Your just going to have to change and by feeling sorry for yourself isn't cutting it . Grow up.
2007-04-20 18:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your afraid to be alone! I divorced my ex years and went back after 4 mos. of being apart and we remarried. It didn't work, and we are divorced again. I have moved on and getting married to a wonderful man in 15 days. Leave you ex alone, it will never work. Don't be afraid to be alone. It's not a bad thing. Learn from your mistakes and just because the grass looks greener on the other side doesn't mean it is greener! Your ex can't trust you and that's a hard pill to swallow!
2007-04-20 18:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by Flying w/ scissors 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the old saying goes... "you never know what you have until it's gone". I guess you discovered that the grass is not greener on the other side afterall. If you want to put some kind of closure to this, consider contacting your ex to at least apologize for what you did...especially since you mentioned you just left her hanging. I can't imagine what she must've felt.
Of course you can't expect for her to take you back. Why should she? Although I'm not too fond of cheaters myself, I commend you for at least realizing your mistake. Consider this a lesson learned.
2007-04-20 17:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by jdhs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Regret is a feeling that never goes away...now i can really say that you were a piece of sh** for doing what you did.but if you truely love her and truely want her back than it's worth trying it again...because she loved you once she can love you again...but remeber the second time around will not be an easy ride
2007-04-20 17:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by blue2583tt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just leave her alone. Considering your the one who "didn't look before you leaped" you will "reap what you sowed". I have no compassion for someone who has only thought of himself from the beginning of this tragedy. She deserves much better than you, wouldn't you agree? Later Loser.
2007-04-20 18:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by Pixie48 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now you're reaping what you've sewed...
Hopefully you learned something here...this is what you will potentially have to live with for the rest of your life if you decide to cheat...sucks some people have to learn the hard way and are willing to risk it, because they only think of themselves.
2007-04-20 19:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by ArmyWife0412 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you just said and try to make amends. by the way don't expect her to just forgive and forget, "you did the crime now do the time," if she is really worth it to you, you can hang in there long enough that she might forgive you. first and foremost she is going to have to understand you're honesr in your attempt of clemency.
2007-04-20 17:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's what cheating will do, ruin a good thing that you had going for yourself.
2007-04-20 17:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not being selfish for a change, leave your ex alone, you caused enough pain for her.
2007-04-20 17:50:43 · answer #9 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its been a while.....does the ex hate you? if theres a chance you can apologize and beg forgiveness.....do it tomorow and wish you luck but trust would not come easily now you know
2007-04-20 17:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋