Marriage & Divorce - 20 April 2007

please answer this. ive been crying myself to sleep.

2007-04-20 15:15:09 · 6 answers · asked by pinkgurl343 1

My wife is acting funny every night she sleeps in the closet under a pile of clothes and shoes. when I ask her about it she goes nuts and hides in the same closet sometimes she even eats in there. at wits end what should i do

2007-04-20 15:12:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

months,and then they come the loan, they have the good credit and the income,what do you all think about that?they want us to be happy to.

2007-04-20 15:11:42 · 8 answers · asked by monkey_green_park 1

I need affirmation, respect, honesty, loyalty and of course lots of intense sex. Aren't these simple needs? Shouldn't I expect these when I put out for my family. What are some others that are good to have.

2007-04-20 15:05:07 · 8 answers · asked by prouddaddy 6

ok how can a relationship move forward and progress if one or both continually live in the past. this i think is really true in a very long term relationship where both people mature and mellow with age and learn from their mistakes. so why does the past always poison the future???????

2007-04-20 13:24:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married for over 20 years and over the last nine months or so he has become increasingly distant and withdrawn. His sex drive is ziltch and he plainly stated that he feels nothing for me anymore. I can find no evidence of an affair (I hated looking). He comes home and retreats into music and sipping wine and doesn't even want to go out. Is he depressed? He says he feels empty on the inside and doesn't even work on his hobbies anymore. He won't open up too much with me and says he'll get counseling but hasn't made any efforts to do that yet. Any ideas of what I can do? Where do we go from here?

2007-04-20 13:09:53 · 15 answers · asked by mackinawmissy 1

I have a question...OK, so you all know what Myspace is right? So here it is...my boyfriend has just started a Myspace account. I didn't mind. I have one too; I use it to talk to old and new friends. I have never ever said the things he has said on there. So this is where the question comes in.Is this a form of cheating? I have some bits and pieces of messages he has sent to ex-girlfriends and here they are...You and I really hit it off in Mexico. It's too bad we didn't get to hang around much after that. You were cool.
You pretty much look the same. Good job. I'd imagine ballet doesn't really allow you to each ribs and pizza too often.
Yeah. I feel guilty for teasing you in eight grade, but know that some of it was flirting. You were cute and smart and moody.
So, either way, we need to have lunch in your city or my city in the near term.
I was talking to ** and he said you're hotter now than before. I'm dying to see current pictures of you.
(messages to 3 diff. girls)

2007-04-20 13:00:51 · 17 answers · asked by caligrlntxs 1

my fr is living seperately for past 2 years from her husband who use to abuse and beat her.She is living with a baby . Can can give a name of lawyer( alady lawyer may be ) in Delhi,India who can advice and also need fight for her. As she is not very rich just living by doing some petty , kindly suggest lawyer who dont charge her with hefty fees or can fight on his behalf for free? Kindly help.

2007-04-20 12:41:10 · 5 answers · asked by ashuji77 1

i am british born and travelled to the yemen when i was 14 years old it was then that my uncles son and i became friends i had no feelings only as friends i returned to the uk after 9 months and contact via telephone was kept until i was 20 and he asked if i would marry him. i agreed even though i new he could not afford it i accepted a small gift of 1 bracelett and a pair of earings. after living in the yemen for 3 years and having a son and pregnant again we planned to travel to the uk apply for a work permit for him and we would save and send money to his parents in order to do this i needed to work also to help him. we send money monthly to his parents and have managed to purchase a home in the uk and a villa in yemen which has just been completed my children visit yemen every year however i am planing to move there within the next 2 years in order for my children to adjust to the lifestyle and culture in hoe that they will marry there my eldest boy is 16 and wants to get engaged?

2007-04-20 12:36:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

and felt terrible about it. He is ridden with guilt, she doesn't have a clue. Should he confess? In this situation honesty a “wrong” move? Why do you believe that?

2007-04-20 12:04:05 · 7 answers · asked by Truth Hurts 5

he is married but you love him and wants to spend more time with him but you cannot because he is married.

2007-04-20 11:57:05 · 33 answers · asked by Sheriff 1

2007-04-20 11:42:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have sleep apnea and i use to drive a school bus for over 20 years but since i can't stay awake i have stop driving.

2007-04-20 11:31:15 · 3 answers · asked by bigger baller 1

My boss is having some marital problems and her husband just told her that he has filed one against her. How does she find out if this is true?

2007-04-20 11:25:34 · 7 answers · asked by Miss Shannon 3

my daughter is only 16 but i have a feeling she is plannin to run away and marrying her boyfriend.is there a place she can do that without my parental consent?

2007-04-20 11:20:56 · 13 answers · asked by elizabeth h 1

My husband and I got married in 1996 and I found out that at the same time he was married in Mexico. How can I get a record of his marriage there? Why, do you ask? We are getting divorced, and he is trying to take our child and this information needs to surface. Please only serious suggestions and ideas. Thank you.

2007-04-20 11:17:23 · 5 answers · asked by trancegoddess2001 3

2007-04-20 11:04:26 · 38 answers · asked by Jose 2

I have been married 4 yrs not so happily and have a 3 yr old son(possibly not hubbys). Hubby and i got married right out of college both of us partyed a lot him more than me during the time we dated he never really grew out partying when we got married causing lots of problems.We both came from similar backrounds neither one of us had ever paid for anything or supported ourselves till we got married needless to say we are in a lot debt now.Hubby has gambling and alchol problems(he gets mad breaks furniture) at present but does not feel he has a problem.He cheated on me our first year of marriage and i had a fling with an ex.bf in retaliation causing a paternity question(a fact i have never told anyone afraid hubbys reaction could be violent).I saved up 7 grand in cash and am considering just packing leaving the house and going back to my home state.Is wrong to leave your spouse without warning and only a note?

2007-04-20 11:03:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't. The man sounds crazy and abusive.

2007-04-20 10:56:59 · 9 answers · asked by Momma K 1

2007-04-20 10:38:31 · 23 answers · asked by a girl 1

They both seperated from each other as her husband used to beat him & insult him very much.So she left the house. My fr also had a daughter 8 year old who lives with her father.My fr has a kid of 15 mon who lives with her, born after they got seperated. Her husband says that she is not her kid and if she want to join him than she has to leave that kid.My fr is so sad as she was preganant when she left him and he is her real father. But my fr is so much fedup of her husband that she is illing for divorce and nothing less.BUt man is not giving it?Can she have divorce from him instantly so that she can get settled and have happy future.Kindly advice.?

2007-04-20 10:23:11 · 10 answers · asked by ashuji77 1

Can a cheater go straight, or will they always cheat on their partner? What are the thought on that?
Also, should they be given second chances?

2007-04-20 10:20:45 · 32 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7

My father in law tells this true story as though it is a great joke, I find it deplorable.
After the birth of her 3rd child, my inlaws were told they should not have more children as her pregnancies were very difficult. He would not allow her to have surgery as it would be risky.
On the day my f-i-l was to get snipped he met a friend and went to the bar instead, never telling his wife. She found out when 4 months later she was pregnant. She went on to have 7 children total the last one nearly killing her and the baby needing a blood transfusion right after birth.
Like I said he tells this story and roars with laughter...what do you all think of his behaviour.
Can you tell this is not my favourite person.

2007-04-20 09:47:02 · 15 answers · asked by Choqs 6

My best friend has been dating a married man for 5 years now. Anyone who saw them would never guess they are secrete lovers b/c they have a normal relationship.... but i feel like she has become a "sad" person she used to be very confident and happy.. I also find that she isolates herself from her fam and friends in order to keep his other life secrete. He has had 1 child in his marrage since they have been together. She has tried to move on, but he is always around! They do have a history before he was married "he was her first love" and she really has convinced herself her patience will allow them to be together eventually. She is a great person who has a lot going for herself in every other aspect of her life but i feel like this guy is using her and will never leave his wife... what is the best advice i can give her without making her feel like a horrible person. I think she is miserable but is too ashamed to ask for help!

2007-04-20 09:42:00 · 19 answers · asked by beyondeyezcanc 2

I am trying to decide what to do. i am engaged but my fiance' is going crazy and starting to not be so nice. this has been happening for about 4 months or so. my highschool sweetheart just popped out of the blue and I am wondering if the flame is still there or if i should work it out with my fiance and just be friends with my friend from high school (we havent spoken in 12 years) I really love the woman i am with but dont know if it will last... 2 nights ago i called off the engagement and now feel stuck and dont know what to do???

2007-04-20 09:32:58 · 40 answers · asked by w3s1p 1

2007-04-20 09:14:53 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has applied to different jobs but no luck. It's been only 1 week but already I feel all the weight on my shoulders. This is not the first time, sice I've been with him(3years) he's been laid off 4 times. I come home and he's playing with his XBOX, he says he's to depressed to do anything else, clean or go out with me. In the past it's only taken him a couple of weeks to get back on his feet but this seems like too much, What do I do?

2007-04-20 09:02:29 · 25 answers · asked by Mary 1

How do ask my Husband to allow me to watch him with someone else? I just want to watch...sorry :-) I know it's weird.

2007-04-20 08:57:32 · 45 answers · asked by T D 1

After 8 years, sex between my wife and I have gotten way too clean. I need some derty sex tonight when she gets of work. How do bring back out the nasty gal I use to know?

2007-04-20 08:56:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think a weekend on your own every so often with make things better...to make the heart grow fonder?

2007-04-20 08:49:28 · 15 answers · asked by Truth Hurts 5