i am british born and travelled to the yemen when i was 14 years old it was then that my uncles son and i became friends i had no feelings only as friends i returned to the uk after 9 months and contact via telephone was kept until i was 20 and he asked if i would marry him. i agreed even though i new he could not afford it i accepted a small gift of 1 bracelett and a pair of earings. after living in the yemen for 3 years and having a son and pregnant again we planned to travel to the uk apply for a work permit for him and we would save and send money to his parents in order to do this i needed to work also to help him. we send money monthly to his parents and have managed to purchase a home in the uk and a villa in yemen which has just been completed my children visit yemen every year however i am planing to move there within the next 2 years in order for my children to adjust to the lifestyle and culture in hoe that they will marry there my eldest boy is 16 and wants to get engaged?
2007-04-20 12:36:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you husband wants to marry again, you two should first get divorced. His second marriage is possible without giving you divorce if he is a Muslim by religion which allows four marriages at the same time by a Muslim man & if you two married according to Muslim Sharia law, but otherwise no other religious matrimonial law or even civil matrimonial law of any country of the world allows bigamy or polygamy, rather such marriages are considered illegal or void & the person who commits such an act of bigamy can be prosecuted for the offence of bigamy on the complaint of his or her spouse. Such law exist in all most all countries which consider bigamous or polygamous marriage illegal or void. Since you have not given details of your form of marriage nor the religion you two follow, the information I have given here is sufficient, but if you want more clarifications write to me with all the details directly on my email vijay_mahajan5758@yahoo.co.in.
2007-04-20 17:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well this is a little more specific of a question. I'm curious why you had another child so late in the relationship if you were unhappy?? I generally think a marriage should be held together by all means possible, if there is not abuse. Have you tried marital counseling? Is it possible you're just depressed and your husband doesn't know how to deal with it? You MUST get out more and make some friends. Try volunteering somewhere (if you have to take your son then volunteer for a mother's group, or something that involves kids). Do something nice for your neighbors. Get some exercise if you're not already doing it. You just seem depressed to me, which is why I'm directing all the suggestions towards you. I don't think you should make major decisions about divorce while depressed. If you're not depressed, then ignore the above. But I still think you should get some sort of marital counseling before moving forward with anything.
2016-05-19 23:42:31 · answer #2 · answered by kecia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this seems be like a perfect plan now, he is just not able to adjust with u thats for sure and somewhere i feel he is kinda greedy for more and more.. i know marriage is one of the most important thing in life so what i would suggest u to is that if u feel he is not worth living with anymore then its better u ask for all the money he has got and then tell him to stay away from ur family then only u r going to give him divorce if thats not happenign no way he can get married again to another woman , uve spent 18 wonderful years of ur life making his life better and now he wants to get away with soem stupid excuse.. then no way ur letting him do it to u.. protest it and do whatever u can do.. but make sure he doesnt get any of the money, property or anyting else.. after all ur gonnna be the one who is going to take care of the kids..
wish u luck...
2007-04-22 03:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by Deeps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is very easy; just say no. I'm not sure what you and your husband's relationship is bonded by love?, obligation?, committment? or just to exist and not truly living life together. However, my definition of marriage is between only two souls a making soul one combined. This thought would not enter my husband's mind, because I'm everything to him and he's everything to me these are our feelings towards each other. It seems that your husband is only thinking of his own lust and not how you feel; otherwise you wouldn't be on this forum asking for answers. You hold the answer to your heart and soul. Just be strong to make the right decision if you're allow. I think you understand what I mean by this. God Bless
2007-04-22 09:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know,where yemen is..? anyhow, u should give him divorce.
is ur husband having gf, if u both r married for 18 yrs then there should not be any kind thing like getting married again for him it's really strange.
2007-04-23 22:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will you plz counsel my wife.? I am 48 and she 49. We have spent 24 years together and have a boy of 22. I do really feel attracted to girls of 20. My wife beats me up and call it paedophilia. She can no longer make babies. I like to make another with a 20 something.
2007-04-21 14:10:50 · answer #6 · answered by sexy grandmother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand??
does he want a divorce??
no offence but ur husbands kinda strange!!
2007-04-20 12:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by alalala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋