Can a cheater go straight, or will they always cheat on their partner? What are the thought on that?
Also, should they be given second chances?
2007-04-20 10:20:45 · 32 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You know what, I don't believe this is true all the way around because I know someone who cheated just being stupid and when he realized what he was loosing he lost it and he begged her back and now he has not ever thought of straying so it depends on the person and everyone deserves a second change but don't let anyone make a fool of you
2007-04-20 10:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by Pegi 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Few things "always" happen. However cheaters repeat their behavior often, so that phrase has become common even though it's not actually true (because there are exceptions).
I've known people who cheated, and were riddled with guilt afterward. They had no idea before they did it, that they'd feel so crummy after.
Others treat it like a game...a challenge. It's exciting because it's a no-no...or they justify it by claiming they aren't getting treated as they desire by their partner, but for whatever reason haven't ended that relationship.
Can cheaters clean up their act? Sure they can. How do we know they are worth giving a 2nd chance to? Tough call...only the person they cheated on can decide that. When trust has been damaged or destroyed, it can be tough to regain. Until trust is restored, the relationship will be on shaky ground.
2007-04-20 10:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that! once a cheater always a cheater did the 2 chance and third chance its like an addiction to most people i think more of that tword men women are a little more suttle and when they know what they want they could stop it for a man though they dont think they just react so yeah once a cheater always a cheater
2007-04-20 11:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all depends on the person, and the relationships. I believe deep down there is always a reason a person strays. Some people love the people they are in a relationship with but they have preferences that either they are afraid to share with their partner, or their partner is against. Some people get to comfortable and are just looking for an adventure. Some feel they are missing something physical or emotional. Some people are just not as committed or even deliberately sabotage a good relationship out of fear. I believe at some point in peoples lives they feel the need to settle down and can change for whatever reason they felt they had for cheating.
2007-04-20 10:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jae C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've always heard once a cheater always a cheater,, I hope that a cheater can go straight because I am giving my ex-hubby a second chance,,,,, If he screws this chance up then I am done forever
2007-04-20 10:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by tigerlilly4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but I've seen it too many times - once a cheater always a cheater and no second chances
2007-04-20 10:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by Ima Stressed Out 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I cheated on my first husband, I felt horrible. My second husband I told him I cheated on my first and he looked at me and said, " You have told me the truth and you have been up front about it, it will never be brought up again". I have never cheated on my second husband and I don't even turn my head to even look at another man. So the answer to your question, yes cheaters can go straight but it depends on the person if they understand truthfully what they did to that other person when they cheated. Did they really see how they hurt that person and vow to never cheat again or do they just have a thing for one night stands and can not give themselves to one person.
2007-04-20 10:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by stacy j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so I was never a cheater until I finally gave up..PLus I am a bum magnet and I always was so good to these freakin loser so called men...So I did cheat but cheating is not the way to go and I know that I won't cheat on a good man and would rather not waste my time on another BUM so my answer is not speaking for all the rest but I wouldn't cheat again...But I would not be able to trust my partner if he cheated on me...If that makes any sense....I KNOW MYSELF BUT NOT OTHER'S IN THAT CASE......................................./
2007-04-20 10:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by Unbreakable Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're a cheater, and you caught them once - - - how many times did they get away with it?
No second chances baby - there's alot more fish out in the sea!
2007-04-20 10:24:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, once a cheater they are usually always a cheater. Trust me, people really dont change their ways, only if they are willing to change. Some people can, but most people always cheat.
2007-04-20 10:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by I ? Colbert 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you love him, forgive him. Pretend that this is 5 years down the line. You bump into him on the street one day. He's holding a 4 year old boy by the hand , and a cute 2 year old girl in a backpack. He's recently married and has started a family. He never got over you, but put it behind him and moved on with his life. You were never sure you did the right thing breaking up with him. Does it hurt now?
2007-04-20 10:32:47 · answer #11 · answered by MikeG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋