Marriage & Divorce - 19 April 2007

I am in love with a girl and she too loves me. But the problem is that before this relationship, we treated each other as brother sister. But that happened for a month and the affection for each other developed into a wish to live with each other forever. The problem is that I have told my parents about our old relationship one year ago and haven't discussed about our desire to marry. I know they won't agree if I put my point before them to marry her. Though some friends also know only about old relationship but then I don't care about them and they are not going to with me in my life. Please tell me what should be done to move ahead in this relationship?

2007-04-19 23:55:22 · 9 answers · asked by gail s 1

I'm about to leave my 17 year marriage mainly because my husband has no intention of stopping his affairs. Truth is, I really don't want to leave. We don't fight and we are good friends. I feel like I must leave though, otherwise I'll be constantly living in fear of catching an STD, and I need to get some self-respect back. I feel very resentful about leaving because I love him, he's been my husband for my entire adult life. It almost feels like I'm punishing myself for his affairs by kicking myself out of my own home and leaving a man who's always stood by me. I don't know whether these feelings are normal or not. Has anyone else been there? Thanks

2007-04-19 23:29:24 · 12 answers · asked by Lochie 3

2007-04-19 22:55:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother-in-law expects me to call her 'mother-in-law.' I find this too awkward and wont do it!! Any advice?

2007-04-19 22:50:15 · 30 answers · asked by Jenny_USA 1

2007-04-19 22:40:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

But since I am prepairing for MBA and she will be pursuing Phd, we have decided that we will marry after 2 years. By then, I will be 25 and she 35. I myself agree to marry her. But there are quite a great chances of resistance from my parents. But then its my decision. Do you think that a couple aged 25 and 35 is ok if we really love each other.

2007-04-19 22:22:21 · 15 answers · asked by gail s 1

It was hidden from the spouse, and only revealed when caught.

2007-04-19 21:23:20 · 40 answers · asked by Barbara 1

My husband and I have been having some trouble.. I asked what would make him happy, he said children.. however he isn't sure he wants to have them with me.

The history on this, he had cancer which left him unable to produce children many years ago. I established a great career but have always longed for children. He is under the impression that I will not alter my work schedule to be good enough to have children. We haven't been able to really talk about this ...

On top of all of this - over the last year he has had two secret "friendships" with women who have children. One he followed through her pregnancy and another who he sees regularly and always text messages with. On both of them, he has continued to say they are only friends, nothing more.

I don't trust him at this point... many problems all lumped up into one.. I have reached a point now where I just don't know what to do!

Thanks

2007-04-19 20:50:31 · 10 answers · asked by Exausted.. 1

Do you think its right for a husband when he's out of town for business trips to go "out" to bars, clubs, ect. I stay home with my little the last time I went out was to a concert twice he knew about me planning to go to these concerts and he uses that against me because I went out to a bar ONCE! On the other hand, he went to South Padre Island spring break with his divorced brother and his girlfriend and her friends without me this was another business trip he had in that area.Didn't call me untl 48hrs later!!! Now, he's in California and he's been going out every night. Doesn't feel the need to call me and is going out to bars. I talked to him about it but he sees no harm. Yet he doesn't think its right for me to go out. He pretty much wants his cake and eat it too. How would you feel? Do you think this is unfair in his all of the sudden "single life" when he's out of town? I think its disrespectful! What would you do or say? Any advice would help thanks

2007-04-19 20:47:26 · 11 answers · asked by Lisa 1

C'mon people,we attach so much importance to sex and thats why it's a source of so much strife.A man will cheat coz he thinks his wife is boring in Bed,a woman will complain if he is not performing etc....i mean there are other things such as........ COMPANIONSHIP?

2007-04-19 20:40:04 · 19 answers · asked by sparrow 1

Hello ppl need help what does it mean when a married man is caught emailing other girls... saying to those girls that he wana take them out n wana travel with them to other countries. but he says that i'ts only email thing n he met them on the net ... it means nothing... what u guys think?

2007-04-19 20:34:29 · 17 answers · asked by moshak 1

My husband and I just got married last month. I have only visited with his parents a few times, and spent a week with them the week before our vows. I love his dad, his sister and brother, and his cousins, but his mother (who is actually his step-mother) just seems awfully distant. My family was practically giddy when they heard about the engagement AND the marriage, and his mom is just kinda like, "ok.... so you got married..... alright, well nice talking to you, we'll see you soon". What the hell? I've never been mean or given her a reason to think I'm a bad candidate for a wife. But I feel like this is just the beginning, and I'll be fighting for her approval forever. What can I do, or why is she acting this way? Any advice would help, or if you've had a similar situation, please let me know!

God bless mother-in-laws! :-P

2007-04-19 20:27:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We married three years ago. now its over. She is a bookkeeper and Notary Public, I ran restaurants. We made 100k last year. She served me divorce papers and has taken my name off ALL documents, insurance, bank accounts, homeowners insurance, etc. Also has gotten a restrainging order against me. She also has moved god knows what else pertaining to legal documents to her mothers house. Her father, A millionare, has retained her lawyer. Me..I am not able to go to my home, I have no money because she moved it all. I made 75k myself last year, and she was the "bill payer" Now I am living on my buddys couch. I am borrowing money from him for gas, etc. I found out today she has 3 savings accounts, and 2 checking. I never knew. I have been basically thrown out of my own home without a penny. She has total control. I have called lawyers, but they want money. I tell them the story and they say, call us when you have some funds. She also did not claim all her income on our taxes.

2007-04-19 20:23:50 · 4 answers · asked by Paybackisamofo 2

We are both 23 now been together since age 16,we live together but he acts like his friends are so much more important!when I tell him I am leaving he rolls over to sleep(thats the only time i see him when he goes to sleep)
so he totally blows me off,we split up 4 times before and he agrees to an event and backs out at the last minute oh did i mention he bought a house in november 2006 and I was not included on the mortgage and he says he trusts me what should i do ?

2007-04-19 19:19:29 · 17 answers · asked by JodyLynn 1

My brother in-law tells my little sister this crap all the time.>
I was never allowed to be my myself.
I can never be myself.

Can you blame a person for not being yourself ? I

2007-04-19 19:08:28 · 6 answers · asked by Brown guy 2

Is it because they are not happy? if yes why cant they move on?

2007-04-19 19:03:40 · 14 answers · asked by Robots 4

and swears that he will never be with you again but this is the second time he has said this what would you think...
for example: my husband and i dated for 4 months broke up and he swore he would never ever be with me again. he said he loved me but was not in love with me.
then 8 months later we some how got back together and eventually got married and now have a 2 month old. when i was 7 months pregnant he did it all over again. i love you but i am not in love with you. and swears once again, we get a divorce it is final and he will never come back.
so wit a pattern like that what are the odds he will be back?
im not taking him back and our divorce will be final soon i am just curious as to if this is some type of bi polar thing he has or...what do you think??

2007-04-19 18:47:44 · 8 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4

I am afraid that I will piss off some one that I truly care about, in everything i do, and say. I am afraid that she won't want me because of an action or something I said. Should I feel this way?

2007-04-19 18:45:33 · 3 answers · asked by Donald K 1

If your spouse cheat and you just cant get past the hurt...should you leave him or her. If he or she does want to talk about the affair because it has a way turning into a big disagreement where know one wins. You find yourselves fighting alot. The other spouse want details of the affair but think it will hurt to much. When they become inimate he tries new positions which lead her to think that is what he did with this other woman. Please tell me what you think.

2007-04-19 18:44:57 · 12 answers · asked by mia 1

your denying him sex.
my ex seems to think i am a booty call and i just want to know after how long, and being rejected over and over will he get the hint it's over? we have a child together.

2007-04-19 18:40:12 · 17 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4

While i found out he was cheating on me, he told me through text, i filed for divorce and havent seen him since. I kinda forgot how he looks, n-e ways...i moved on and now that he knows, he wants me back, but i dont want him back. So am i a cheater?

2007-04-19 18:20:45 · 23 answers · asked by sicasha 1

2007-04-19 18:07:21 · 16 answers · asked by naughty lady 2

i loves my boyfriend and i love my sons but they are grown children.i"not going to be forces to chose between them. but dont you think i deserve to be happy to?what do you think?it making my boy friend un comfortable.

2007-04-19 17:58:20 · 19 answers · asked by georgia j 1

I've run into this before, but at particular question caused me to ask this. Basically it had something to do with cheating and theri best answer was pretty much a short very simplistic agreement with them. Maybe it's the age of some of the people, or just the ignorance; but really there is no reason to ask a question if all you want to do is reaffirm your views. This I think, is indicative of the majority in our country who want to go through life blind and ignorant.

2007-04-19 17:45:48 · 10 answers · asked by Carl J 2

I want all those who have completed or going to complete twenty five years of their marriage, how they fell now? Do you still have the same love & feelings for your spouse or things have faded with these twenty five or more years together? Are you still looking for more to come for you two or want to retire now? How these twenty five years or more spent between you two were, full of responsibilities for kids & now you feel relived from these responsibilities? Enjoy the company of each other still or are bored with each other now? Share your thoughts with me as I complete my twenty five years of marriage on 23rd of this month. One thing more for the Indian Astrologers who believe marriage between Mangalik & non mangalik is not auspicious, mine was such a case but no harm came to my life being non mangalik myself married to a mangalik lady for twenty five years. Now what your astrology say about this?

2007-04-19 17:30:53 · 19 answers · asked by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7

I want all those who have completed or going to complete twenty five years of their marriage, how they fell now? Do you still have the same love & feelings for your spouse or things have faded with these twenty five or more years together? Are you still looking for more to come for you two or want to retire now? How these twenty five years or more spent between you two were, full of responsibilities for kids & now you feel relived from these responsibilities? Enjoy the company of each other still or are bored with each other now? Share your thoughts with me as I complete my twenty five years of marriage on 23rd of this month. One thing more for the Indian Astrologers who believe marriage between Mangalik & non mangalik is not auspicious, mine was such a case but no harm came to my life being non mangalik myself married to a mangalik lady for twenty five years. Now what your astrology say about this?

2007-04-19 17:19:57 · 4 answers · asked by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7

When they get married? They become a 'so and so's wife' or 'so and so's mom'. Their whole idenity is dependent on the marriage and they lose any separate idenity they once had. This doen't seem to happen to men as much. Do you think this a is a reason more men cheat than women?

2007-04-19 17:00:05 · 29 answers · asked by mimi s 2

My mom is trying to find out if her supposed ex- hubby really signed the divorce papers. She never recieved a copy of them, and has no way to contact her ex. Any suggestions on where I can locate them?

2007-04-19 16:40:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I always knew I wanted to save it for a very special girl. Now that I'm heading off the college I never realized how hard it would be to keep and how easy it is to give.

This girl just sort of jumped on me and we did everything you would while having sex but with clothes on....i mean...i liked it...ha...but I had always wanted to marry a virgin and I wanted to be the same for my future wife.

I mean, it's so difficult b/c

A) I'm a college kid and my hormones are goin crazy
B) So many of these girls are SO attractive and not to mention CRAZY....a girl wanted to do it with me in the elevator

soo...what should I do? Do i want to do it...ofcourse....but do i want to save it for my future wife...ofcourse...

What can I/ should I do?

2007-04-19 16:30:58 · 31 answers · asked by varsfootball44 1

2007-04-19 16:15:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous