if a man breaks up with you?

Question

and swears that he will never be with you again but this is the second time he has said this what would you think...
for example: my husband and i dated for 4 months broke up and he swore he would never ever be with me again. he said he loved me but was not in love with me.
then 8 months later we some how got back together and eventually got married and now have a 2 month old. when i was 7 months pregnant he did it all over again. i love you but i am not in love with you. and swears once again, we get a divorce it is final and he will never come back.
so wit a pattern like that what are the odds he will be back?
im not taking him back and our divorce will be final soon i am just curious as to if this is some type of bi polar thing he has or...what do you think??

there is NO reason to be SO RUDE!...Kris!
and my child is better off without him! thank you very much!

Answer 1

I've known a couple of sayings, but I forgot who said them or the exact words, but it was more like this: 1. "If someone betrayed you once, it's his fault. If betrayed you twice, it's your fault". If this is the case, ask yourself what can you do, believe it, the answers are going to pour in your mind, because you are the one who knows your situation better than anyone else. Then follow the one that you think the best answer. (Make sure, you will also think the persons whom you can ask for help. Or any good form of help for a family in crisis.)
2. "It's better to love and failed, than to love not at all". In this case, you can continue the routine: If you really, really love him and can't live without him, or that, you are willing to put up with his behavior, then you can always let him coming back en forth into your life (now with your precious baby), or you can close your heart's door from him (make sure to use a quality padlock), and leave it open only after you clear your feelings toward him, and that, you are ready to love again. Otherwise, you can always open it right away, if someone you like or admire comes knockin' intensely or lovingly at your locked heart's door! Then, pure love will hopefully follows.Good luck to you and your baby love. The best solution still going to come from your heart and mind since you are the only one who knows your situations best than us.

Answer 2

If somebody hurts you sooo bad the first time around...Be certain that it will happen again honey! No doubt...You obviously still have feelings for him, drop those feelings and move on. Don't make excuses for yourself about "oh it's bi-polar, he came back the first time after he swore...blah blah blah" Raise your head high, and don't fall for losers. Your priority should only be your kid, forget the joe shmo

Answer 3

The pattern is not with him, it's with you. He is coming in and out of your life, why? Because you are allowing him to. He will continue to do this if you continue to allow it. Emotions and a child is involved. Stop the merry go round.

Answer 4

Kick him in the nuts a few times, he'll go away for good after a few swift ones......

Answer 5

I wouldn't have gotten back together with him the 2nd time around.

Answer 6

you were stupid for taking him back the first time and then having a baby with him.
now, that baby will grow up with dad not being in the house. you really did him a favor didn't you!!!

Answer 7

Get off the merry go round, and start making strong decisions for you and your baby. Please ensure that you acquire financial support from him.

Answer 8

he is a sick goat
move on with your own life n forget abt him n his stupid doings n sayings.