My brother in-law tells my little sister this crap all the time.>
I was never allowed to be my myself.
I can never be myself.
Can you blame a person for not being yourself ? I
2007-04-19 19:08:28 · 6 answers · asked by Brown guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no you cant place the blame on the other, if you 'cant be yourself' with them then you probably shouldn't have married them in the first place. but then again it sounds like some weak attempt to justify some inappropriate behavior, like he wants to get away with something that he shouldnt be doing anyways.
2007-04-19 19:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by Technical Difficulties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, your development can be thwarted by overly dominate parents, you grow up, spread your wings, overcome and at some point, mature enough to stop blaming them for it - hopefully.
or, you whine about it for the rest of your life, excuse your behavior and try to make everyone feel sorry for that poor child that lives inside of you.
2007-04-20 02:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what your asking but mental abuse can make a person lose their self worth and therefore not act like themselves......
2007-04-20 02:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by JustWant2B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your thoughts arent very clear, but in a nut shell No, we can not be ourselfs because we all have sin in our hearts....
I encourage you to pray for Gods hand in your life.
2007-04-20 02:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by Red Knight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may be using her as a whipping post. I hope she isnt falling for his nonsense.
2007-04-20 02:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi:
this is bigtime mental abuse!
2007-04-20 02:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋