Marriage & Divorce - 19 April 2007

My wife of 6 years had a black mans baby about 4 months ago. The affair was with a man in our neigborhood and everyone knows about it now. I am so embarrassed, what should I do?

2007-04-19 08:58:38 · 76 answers · asked by upset husband 1

In the modern age why do most worry about being single or fear being alone? With communities being so small and the use of the internet so widespread, why do we need someone to make us complete? For most of us its frustrating and stressful to either divide our time between a partner, family & friends or do all sorts of insane things to draw our partners attention to us. Whats the point?

2007-04-19 08:57:15 · 15 answers · asked by coffeegirl019 1

When i married my husband i was a virgin, and he was well experienced. In the beginning our sex was mediocre to say the least. But as we became more comfortable w/ each other, we began to try new things. My husband always seems to bring something new to the bedroom, and i want to please him in the same creative ways he pleases me. So my question is this: girls, what are some creative ways you've pleased your man?... and Guys, what are some of your favorite experiences w/ a woman?

2007-04-19 08:55:19 · 16 answers · asked by brina S 2

I see so many unattractive housewives these days that do not take care of themselves.

Only women with means ($$$$) seem to take care of themselves and stay looking good into their 60's.

2007-04-19 08:45:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seeing a big trend in questions recently women saying it is ok to use sex as a weapon and many women saying women in marriage need to be independant.
isn't being married meaning you are not independant you are part of a team you both have a stake in it both have a want to walk the rest of their lives with the other it is disturbing to think you want to be independent in a marriage isn't that just sharing the bills and if you are independent as most say aren't you then saying you can see and have sex with anyone as you did when you were single this goes for men as well though we use other terminology we call it trapped or caught by a woman and tamed so to say
what do you think shouldn't marriage be a loss of independance but not individuality
after all people are unique just like everyone else
it should still mean something is lost as well as gained in marriage I beleive

2007-04-19 08:36:58 · 10 answers · asked by Bear_Polaroid 3

I work hard and try to provide for my family. I don't understand why my husband keeps cheating on me with my x-best friend! Should I leave him or kick her butt!

2007-04-19 08:23:23 · 21 answers · asked by blackpplrblessedppl 3

I think that he has. I found condoms in his truck and his toolbox, even his wallet, and he tells me that they are his friend's. Yeah, right. He also started shaving his pubic area, armpits, and chest around the same time, and some woman was calling our house, cellphones, and even my work. He said she was his friend's wife in the divorce process with the friend, and warned me that she might tell me that they had sex, which he told me, if she does, it wasn't true. I tried to believe him, but I think I was a sucker to keep trying to make our marriage work after finding all those things out.

2007-04-19 08:21:56 · 61 answers · asked by trancegoddess2001 3

Josh and i were together then i moved to flordia and when i was down there i got with Chirs and fell in love. Then i found out i was pg not to long after i was there.I moved back up to Indiana and Chirs and i are back together he wont to be my sons dad knowing hes not biologly his.

2007-04-19 08:21:18 · 11 answers · asked by Tiffany P 1

We see each other at dinner and on weekends. We have 2 kids. I feel so lonely and disconnected from him. I still love him though. Help!

2007-04-19 08:14:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

She doesnt show up to court and expects me to pay 500 dollars to see him. I dont have court order bec she doesnt show up to court so I cant set up visitation. I am not ordered to pay child support. Would you still hide your child from the other party? Our lawyers have a agreement to do this on friday yet she still does this game.

2007-04-19 08:08:48 · 24 answers · asked by dirbe22 2

2007-04-19 08:05:58 · 17 answers · asked by Phillip 4

2007-04-19 08:03:38 · 32 answers · asked by Lilmisssassy 4

I have been searching for my son for the last seven years, after finding him I settled for return of visitation on a regular basis which kinda lets my ex off for denying me visitation for so long, I was wondering If I had a civil case as well

2007-04-19 07:57:13 · 10 answers · asked by nimisisprime 3

When I married my husband in 1996, he eventually told me he was married in Mexico at the same time. Does that mean our marriage here in the US is no good? I think it probably is some kind of fraud.

2007-04-19 07:45:12 · 28 answers · asked by trancegoddess2001 3

I plan to be there, how can I make my presence of most use? She has not allowed him to see his daughter in months, and now she has filed a petition to increase child support and is complaining that he has not provided health insurance (which is not true, she has been using it).

What do we need to present our case for visitation. Also, if she wants child support increased, can we confirm that the money is being used for their daughter?

2007-04-19 07:45:03 · 12 answers · asked by Sweet Belly 2

2007-04-19 07:44:06 · 25 answers · asked by Samantha 5

How do you feel about one staying out late and drinking with a "group" of coworkers on a business trip? (married persons)

2007-04-19 07:43:10 · 15 answers · asked by Jenintn 5

My wife of eight yrs. was acting very distant from for awhile. Finally I recommended that maybe we seperate for a little while. Were young and we have kids together. Well, she agreed to the seperation, which I immediately regreted asking for. It was if I was hoping she would just tell me to stop being crazy and she loves me very much. But she didn't. I asked if she would like to go to therapy w/me but she said "maybe down the road" . I still stay in our house until I get my own place. She just ignores me half the time. I'm wondering how she can just turn those feelings off, when a few months ago I thought she was in love w/me. I asked her if she still loves me and she says that she does, but, she doesn't know if she is In Love w/ me. What does that mean. Is that a womans way of saying i'm no longer in love w/ you. Or is she really confused?

2007-04-19 07:37:57 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

But when I speak to my husband he sounds sooo sorry for his mistakes and truely loves me and the 2 kids. I want to be passionate but I also want to keep my family together. My husband now lives 850 miles away and I worry about how this will affect the kids. If I choose him, we would be moving there. Two ways to look at it...away from our friends and family or it's a new start.
Has anyone ever left someone they believed was their soul mate to keep their family together and found that you were able to fall back in love with your spouse, once you just let go?????

2007-04-19 07:29:27 · 8 answers · asked by squisitos 2

I certainly don't expect a man/woman to sit in their room staring at the walls. I have no problem with being sociable with co-workers and having dinner and a few drinks, maybe returning to room around 10-11:00. But anything more than a few drinks, and any time later than that seems to be a recipe for trouble if you ask me. What are your opinions? Where should one draw the line?

2007-04-19 07:15:31 · 4 answers · asked by Jenintn 5

MOST OF THE MEN I KNOW - AGES 35 TO 62 HAVE TO LAY ON THE SOFA WHEN WATCHING TV! WHY IS THIS!!! ITS SOOO ANNOYING AND RUDE!!

2007-04-19 07:12:13 · 31 answers · asked by kiki 1

with a rubber suction dart. I think she's just kidding, but should I get an order of protection anyway?

2007-04-19 07:05:56 · 34 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

I recently came up on a way new situation. My husband has a 9 year old from a previous relationship, and hadn't seen his daughter in 4 1/2 years (I still do not know why this is, but did find out the reason he told me was a lie). His daughters mother contacted him recently (conveinently 3 weeks after I gave birth to our second child) and said she needed some paperwork signed, and hence they have come back into his life. The daughter is as sweet as can be, and although it is unusual i have a 9 yr old step daughter ( I am only 25) that isn't the part that bothers me. It is actually the mom, she seems to find reasons to contact my husband almost daily, and I told him I just didn't feel like that much contact is nessacary. The text email talk on the phone....you name it. Is is wrong for me to be asking him not to have so much contact with and ex...even though they do have a daughter together? She also happens to be the one person who completly shattered my husbands heart when they broke up

2007-04-19 06:55:41 · 21 answers · asked by Tami H 2

It's funny to hear the new wives complain. My H does not have a new wife yet but it is tempting to think of causing them grief ( all within the law, of course.) (While meanwhile I date bigger and richer men.) LOL!

2007-04-19 06:54:33 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-19 06:52:54 · 15 answers · asked by Diana B 1

A very good friend of mine is married to a guy who is overly jealous and controlling. She has literally become a prisoner in her own home... afraid to make waves. How can she make him understand that ultimately, he is going to make her resent/hate him? She has tried talking to him... putting it in terms that a 5 year old could understand.. but he just doesn't get it. She's not allowed basically, to go anywhere at all without him... everyone needs space.. friends.. A LIFE!!! She is being completely deprived of this... and it's killing me to watch her suffocate!!!

2007-04-19 06:42:38 · 17 answers · asked by Jane D 1

my husband love to have sex more then three time everday does that mean that he enjoy my boby

2007-04-19 06:40:06 · 21 answers · asked by tachy 1

have any of you ever confessed to cheating to your significant other even though there was no way they would have found out on their own? What was the outcome?

2007-04-19 06:34:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-19 06:17:57 · 24 answers · asked by Melissa B 2

Repeated for the spelling monsters.
Let's see. You all believe that it is terrible to have an affair unbeknownst to the wife.

Aren't you the same people who are friends with people who leave or have left their spouses and kids for someone else? Aren't you the same people who say that you "can't judge" so you still have these adulterers over for dinner? Look around. How many of your friends started out as affairs on one of your other friends and you welcome them into your home?

OK. Begin the excuses, diffrentiation and personal attacks.

2007-04-19 06:14:00 · 41 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1