2007-04-19 07:44:06 · 25 answers · asked by Samantha 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes i did. I was on the computer one day and I noticed that my then-boyfriend had gone on a website called bootycall. I knew he was up to no good. So I went on the website and found his profile. I confronted him about it and he told me that it was old and he hadn't been on there in awhile and not to worry about it. I didn't believe him. A few days later, I went to the website, created a phony profile, copied and pasted a pic of a ramdom girl from a different website and sent him a "bootycall invitation". About a week went by and nothing happened but then I checked my email and saw that he had accepted my invitation. He was caught and that was the beginning of the end.
2007-04-19 07:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Shelly E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful what you wish for. Purposefully setting someone up is like setting an ice cream in front of a dieting person on the hottest day of the summer. Even with all good intentions in their heart, the temptation might prove just a bit too good to refuse. So who is at fault? Them for 'cheating' or you for providing the temptation in the first place? Humans are not all that bright sometimes, or rather, not all that strong at times.
2007-04-19 14:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find it necessary to "test" than you obviously have a problem...not your spouse. Marriage isn't a series of "tests" that are left up to either spouse to administer to see what the results are. Marriage is a series of tests itself and each one should be worked on WHEN a particular problem arises.
No quicker way to destroy a relationship than the way you suggest in your question.
2007-04-19 15:14:39 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Is this a new game or something?
And how would you feel if you set-up your spouse, and they gave in to the temptation?
What's the point? To see how "true" they are, or how far you can push them?
Personally, I think it's a sick and dangerous game.
But who am I to say? I've been married 36 years and we've done some things most couples will never do...
2007-04-19 15:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant say I have... but if someone feels the need to test their spouse to see if they were lying or cheating... thats probably not a good sign...
2007-04-19 14:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I sure did,it's very easy all you have to do is wait till his relaxing,then ask him some question that he expect for you to ask, then change the subject and while doing that watch his eyes and body language, If your husband start making excuse, and get up off the chair, that's one of the sign, ask him to look at you and if he can't focus and keep blinking his eyes, that's the second sign, and the most worst of all is,let him kiss you in your lips make sure that you remember the way the two of you kiss, if it's different or he has more style, boy you will hit the jackpot.
I did know how my husband kissed and that's how i caught him having an affair last year.............it works big time ladies....
2007-04-19 15:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's about a gnat's eyelash away from being as low, lying, manipulative, and trust-breaking as actual cheating.
Would you like to be secretly tested by your mate? Of course you wouldn't - it means you'd never be able to trust them again. Because if they can keep such secrets and appear to be someone else to you for the test, they can keep secrets and be someone else to you as a faithful partner while they are cheating on you.
And how are such tests supposed to end? With you going "oh ha ha honey it was just a test?" That's a completely insane idea.
People who play such juvenile asinine immature games have sh*t for brains.
2007-04-19 15:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u really need to look at how much trust u have with ur spouse and why the sudden urge to not be trusting them...if u don't trust them and feel the need to "test" them...then that isn't good...need to find out why u r feeling this way and see if there is a way to solve it...good luck....
2007-04-19 14:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by ro19_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am proud to say "No". My wife is one of the most sincere people on the face of the earth. She wraps herself up in me and I try to do the same for her. I believe that I am more lucky than the average married guy.
2007-04-19 15:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by way2ticklish4myowngood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no.. that is so wrong on so many levels. I trust my bf fully and besides he knows what will happen if he cheats on me!!
2007-04-19 14:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋