Josh and i were together then i moved to flordia and when i was down there i got with Chirs and fell in love. Then i found out i was pg not to long after i was there.I moved back up to Indiana and Chirs and i are back together he wont to be my sons dad knowing hes not biologly his.
2007-04-19 08:21:18 · 11 answers · asked by Tiffany P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If Chris is not the father of your child, then asking him to be the father is a pretty big deal. Are you two getting married? Is your childs real father in the picture? I think we need a few more details........
2007-04-19 08:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by Leah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a child has the right to know their real father.just because this guy wants to play daddy doesnt mean he will be a good one and the fact is the real father has rights to his child.think this over very carefully or you may wind up with a kid by yourself in a few years and no daddy at all for your child.it happens especially when things dont work out between you and the guy who is really not the dad.good luck.
2007-04-19 08:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your question you say that Chris is your ex but in your statement you say that you and he are back together...which is it? Then you say that you got with Chris IN FLORIDA but later moved back to Indiana and got with Chris again after you and Josh broke up...How is Chris in FLORIDA and INDIANA???? But to answer your question if Chris wants to be a dad to your child that is a good thing more men should be like this.
2007-04-19 08:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by kristin747 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing I want to say to you is slow down sweetheart, you are giving your body away too fast and too much. You seem to be very nice but just a little misguided. Find you one guy and be with him don't bounce back from this guy to that guy. Now I will tell you since he doesnt want to play dad to a child he did not give birth to you want to watch him around that child to make sure he doesn't try to harm him but you need to slow way down, I'm not trying to be mean to you I just want you to be careful so that you won't end up being one of those women on Maury trying to find their baby daddy, I feel sorry for all those girls, they let the world know that they sleep around and that's not for you, so just be careful and don't continue to make bad decisions. I hope you will look at this note from me as a lesson and not as someone who is trying to put you down, I care.
2007-04-19 08:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by Pegi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is great that he shows you that he is willing to be with you and your son even though it isn't his...need more men like him.. but if the father wants to be part of the childs life then let him do that as well and Chris can be just as good as if he was the step father.
2007-04-19 08:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by Island Girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So who's the daddy, Josh, Chris someone else.
You can't understand the physiological ramifications of doing this to your son.
Who allowed you to get pregnant anyway. No more kids for you.
2007-04-19 08:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you go to the free clinic and get fixed so you cant have any more children,
it is fine that Chris wants to be a step daddy, it is a shame if the real father doesnt want anything to do with his kid,
2007-04-19 08:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your son has a father. He hasn't given up the rights to his kid.
Chris should be a good friend and a role model to your son
You need to keep the boy's biological father involved in his son's life
2007-04-19 08:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He can be there and be a father figure but your son has a father. It is great but you need to have his real father in your sons life. Chris can be a step dad and help him out that is great.
2007-04-19 08:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is the most important present a person can give a child! and you youre boyfriend.If the present father knows and dont care then let the man who wants to be the father be the father for that means he really loves the child and you! god bless!
2007-04-19 08:33:13 · answer #10 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋