Marriage & Divorce - 19 April 2007

2007-04-19 06:09:22 · 5 answers · asked by babybunny2110 1

Let's see. You all believe that it is terrible to have an affair unbeknownst to the wife.

Aren't you the same people who are friends with people who leave or have left their spouses and kids for someone else? Aren't you the same people who say that you "can't judge" so you still have these adulterers over for dinner? Look around. How many of your friends started out as affairs on one of your other friends and you welcome them into your home?

OK. Begin the excuses, diffrentiation and personal attacks.

2007-04-19 06:06:33 · 23 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1

What should be best suprise for womens from man for 1st night to make women happy n make memorable 1st night.

2007-04-19 06:03:53 · 13 answers · asked by syscon1210 1

Here is the comment by b/f :

My expectation out of my relationship with you was that YOU ONLY LOVE ME.


Now let me tell you this, I left my husband of 10 years less than a year ago. I will love him until the day I die, though we are not together, and can no longer get along, we still have "love" feelings for each other, and we have two kids. How can you make that love go away?? Over time I think it will diminish, we spent alot of good times together (and alot of bad) but as I see it, that love will always remain. You think my b/f is being unreasonable?


This is her b/f : I understand her point saying that she has feeling for his ex as they stayed for long time together. I love her immensely but I will say that it is hard for me to see that my love also loves someone else. It is apperant and and I can see it in her face. I also know that by demanding, I can get anything materialistic but love, emotions, feeling etc. I want her to love me devotedly .. is it too much to ask

2007-04-19 06:02:57 · 14 answers · asked by Partha C 1

2007-04-19 06:02:21 · 5 answers · asked by Debbie S 1

2007-04-19 05:59:39 · 22 answers · asked by Britt D 1

can someone tell me how to get a quicker devoce online please

2007-04-19 05:56:25 · 4 answers · asked by lil bexicles 1

2007-04-19 05:54:13 · 10 answers · asked by jean d 6

We had gotten married right before he deployed so we were still newly weds. I found out I was pregnant after he left and after a little while he starting talking to girls on-line and getting their phone numbers. He says that was just to relieve stress from being overseas and it means nothing. He says that he loves me and that it wasn't cheating because it was just emails. He says now that he is home he is not going to do anything like that anymore. Should I believe him or is he going to continue to do this plus more ?

2007-04-19 05:43:31 · 50 answers · asked by nessa 1

He comes in bed with the computer on his lap. He wakes up and first thing he does is check the computer. It is taking up so much of his free time. I have talked with him about how it bothers me but he won't stop. Am I wrong to ask him to give up a hobby he loves?

2007-04-19 05:39:07 · 19 answers · asked by Rockinrobin 3

I recently borke off a relationship with the love of my life. Mostly due to the fact that he is not ready to date anyone serious. He just got out of a 20 year relationship/marriage in Dec 06'. It has been three weeks, and I cant stop thinkin about him or wanting to call him and try to work out something. Even if it means to just see each other on a casual basis. I love him and want him back in my life. He was my best friend and now, i find myslef being bumbed out and starting to do stupid things.... like wanting to call or just stop by. UGH

I love him...

~Sad in love~

2007-04-19 05:31:01 · 12 answers · asked by Mitch 2

What harm can it do?
An old boyfriend and I want to meet up once a month for you know what. I don't want him. He is married and lives 1200 miles away. He goes on with his life and I go on with mine.
Don't have any diseases. Not seeng anyone else.

2007-04-19 05:27:40 · 54 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1

My wife and I have 3 kids (her 1 and my 2) and got married a year ago. It’s been rough blending issues and dealing with a new marriage. She is convinced that if I won’t have a kid with her, I love my ex. Wife more than her. I understand her point but my point is that I love her 10 times more than my ex. But because of our kids from previous relationships I’m not sure we have the time, energy, or resources to have another one. Has nothing to do if I love her or not. Doesn’t help that she’s turning 30 and feeling that clock ticking. Also doesn’t help that my ex. Wife is thin, blonde, and tall (she’s short and has gained 20 pounds since we got married). She just is convinced that because I don’t have a kid with her I’ll go back to my ex. Wife because I had kids with her and won’t with my wife. It has nothing to do with love but resources and time. I don’t want another one right now. It’s too much and she knows it but her emotions are running the show. I’m afraid she will leave and create a self fulfilling prophecy about this marriage if she doesn’t start seeing things clearly. What can I do?

2007-04-19 05:26:34 · 21 answers · asked by survivor 1

i been reading that if a father signs over the rights that he does nothave to pay child support, so this being said to all the fathers that do not want to paychild support why dont they just sign over the rights or does the mother have to approve him sign them over, just wondering how that work , does the man have the choice to say i am not paying u i will just sign over my rights and thats that,....

2007-04-19 05:25:39 · 13 answers · asked by notme 3

Ok, so... I am engaged to be married to the most wonderful girl in the world... The wedding is in October.

We were going to try and wait to have sex until the wedding. But, it get's harder and harder every time I see her. (She lives out of town right now, until the wedding.)

I want to be proud of us, but is it really that big of a deal? Should we have sex before our wedding? What kind of problems will arise if we DO have sex before the wedding?
Any person advice would be greatly appreciated!

I'm torn. I want to, but I don't at the same time. What do you all think?

2007-04-19 05:18:40 · 18 answers · asked by just nate 4

Shouldn't they wait for a couple more days out of respect for the victims?

2007-04-19 05:18:26 · 28 answers · asked by Doomsday69 1

im the kinda girl that wants to get out and do things so why did i marry a man that doesnt want to do anything? i didnt have a problem with it until i realized that his life literally revolves around the television, and he started gaining more weight and now his breasts are AT LEAST twice the size of mine. when i try to make subtle hints about him losing weight he says that it discourages him and makes him not want to lose weight so what can i do to encourage him? And how do i make him WANT get out and do things?

2007-04-19 05:02:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have not seen my spouse for 6 years.

2007-04-19 04:54:08 · 7 answers · asked by llliioiiiioiilll 1

I married 2 months ago, but still cry each day for my ex-boyfriend. This has made my life horrible, I feel so terrible. I dated my ex for 4 years and I waited for him to marry me (one time we were going to do it, but then he wanted more time and said he wasnt ready) but he never did it. I suffered alot when he changed his mind, but we got back together and things were good. Well, it became longdistance the past year and I met another guy and after 4 months of dating, he asked me to marry him, I really didnt know what to do, but decided to accept as I was happy and thought my ex would never do it. My ex tried to convince me and even came to my country 2 times to try to get me to change and marry him, but it was too late. Now after 2 months I am married, but I always cry for my ex bcs. I know he is sad and so hurt . It has made me hurt and I feel horrible each day. Why do I feel like this? Do I still love him? I should be happy right?? Should I be crying so much? Why?

2007-04-19 04:48:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

that she cannot leave her hubby until her two teen daughters are off to college in 3 years.

Should I stay or should I go?

I posted this story previously but would like insight from new people. Please read my previous question to better understand where I am at in my relationship.

2007-04-19 04:47:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

together for 1year In May
family nor friends like him
he's trying to work on our relationship
he's still involved in the same lifestyle, but wants to change
I know i can have more from a man, but want him in the end
i stayed by his side while he was incarcerated
i know he loves me
seems like its something new everyday with him

2007-04-19 04:41:05 · 13 answers · asked by nicolee 1

I'm faking my disappearance next week to get away from the wife for a while. We celebrated 13 years of legal commitment this week. I've had enough togetherness for a while.

I plan on taking my Korean girlfriend with me wherever I end up going. We both took next week off from work (we work at the same place).

I had threatened to deport her when I though she was pregnant. However, all is good in that department. No baby Kermit's are on the way! Yet anyway!

I want to work on healing our relationship. Where is a good place to take her to let her know I still care about sleeping with her regularly?

2007-04-19 04:39:06 · 24 answers · asked by Kermit 2

I always wanted to be a stay at home Mom, since I was little. I've been home for 3 years now caring for my 4 and 1 year old while my husband works. Here are my issues.
1. I go to church, but my husband doesn't. I want to give, but my husband would get upset if I did.
2. He spends freely because he earns the money, but I struggle to come up with grocery money.
3. He's thinking about divorcing me.
I think it is so important to be home raising my kids. Leaving them would be awful. I already feel like I am failing as a home maker, because he's not happy, so home making I am not. I am starting to feel that maybe he's right, maybe the kids would be better without me.
It just feels so wrong. I hate feeling like I have to take the easy way out. And yes, I've worked before and I know that working outside of the home is easier than staying home. I feel like such a failure. I am embarrassed that I can't realistically stay home. Should I just go back to work and give up?

2007-04-19 04:37:53 · 15 answers · asked by Wendy B 5

We've been together for 4 years. We're in our early 30's and his sex drive has been non - existent for a long time now. I feel undesired and very sad. I'm an attractive girl. He says after a while its not "new" anymore. I don't get the feeling that he's cheating on me, in any way. We have a good relationship outside of the sex. It was great and very plentiful in the beginning. Now he says with stress and work and being busy that he just doesn't think of it often. Maybe once a month he'll initiate it. I don't want to initate it because I feel like if I'm rejected I get even more frustrated and sad. Please help me.

2007-04-19 04:19:54 · 27 answers · asked by DForte330 2

2007-04-19 04:14:44 · 14 answers · asked by for lyf 1

Been married for 7 years, we had an amazing relationship, the best thing that ever happened to me. I loved him so much and felt the same from him......he had a 5 month affair with a woman at his work, he claims she kept on chasing him, that she never meant nothing other than physical attraction to him and thought I would never find out so he was ok with it. But then, they kept getting closer, he got very connected with her and made every effort to see her as much as possible. After I found out, he went through panic and begged for forgiveness.....suddenly he hated her, dumped her, wanted not to se her anymore ……this happened last summer…..since then, we’ve been to counseling and tried everything you can think of. He is still begging, cries every day, can’t believe he did this to someone that loved him so much…The problem I have is now I can not even stand to be around him now….I think I was in a state of shock because I never thought he would do such thing…..our love was too great to go through this……now I am reacting, now I feel things for him I never felt before…..I resent him so much is driving me crazy. Some times I feel like I have lost my mind and the pain is killing me …..still can’t believe he did this. I noticed is getting worse, and I am more bitter now then a few months ago. When you ask him WHY? He just says “I had the best woman a man can ask for, she did nothing wrong, I was selfish”……ok, so that’s good !! But the pain is still killing me. HELP!

2007-04-19 04:08:31 · 31 answers · asked by Julie 1

If one of you runied you credit rating and put you in debit by overspending, mostly br irreasposable credit card use?

2007-04-19 04:07:20 · 20 answers · asked by blonde mom70 3

he doesnt have a job , so he comes and goes a she pleases. I dont want to get the police involved, it will make it worse on me in the end!!

2007-04-19 03:59:50 · 15 answers · asked by nicolee 1

with the stereo in the rec. room, or is that called hi fidelity, I know it's something fidelity. I'm not good with definitions.

2007-04-19 03:53:54 · 9 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

I’ve been married now for almost 2 years to an incredible man who means the world to me. The first time we meet was at a restaurant and it was love at first sight. We dated for 2 years before he proposed. His family was convinced I was a gold digger after his money but never said a thing as he threatened to cut them out of his life completely if they didn’t show me respect. About 6 months into our marriage I started sleeping with my ex-boyfriend who my husband trusted me to spend time with as I insisted we were just friends. This continued for about a year ending about 3 months ago. I was so selfish and self-centered back then not caring how much it would hurt him if he were to find out as long as I got what I wanted never realizing just how lucky I was to be married to someone like that. My husband adores children and has told me time and time again how he couldn’t wait for us to have a baby of our own without ever putting any pressure on me. I found out 2 months ago I was pregnant and my husband was just ecstatic. I’d never seen him so happy before. Problem is the baby isn’t his. The dates don’t match at all so it’s definitely my ex’s baby and considering that my husband trusts me completely he never once doubted the paternity of the baby. Should I tell him and break him heart? It's definitely not his baby. By my calculations the baby would have been conceived some time in the 2 weeks my husband was away on business. My ex is your typical bad boy trust fun baby with no ambition or drive which is why I ended it in the first place. He called as soon as he found out I was pregnant though and assured me that if the baby is his and my husband leaves me he’d take care of us. Still I’d much rather my husband be the male role model in the kid’s life as he’d make a truly wonderful dad. Should I tell him?

2007-04-19 03:53:16 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous