Shouldn't they wait for a couple more days out of respect for the victims?
2007-04-19 05:18:26 · 28 answers · asked by Doomsday69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You cant stop you life when a tragedy like this happens...you can feel sympathy, pray for those who were involved or what not, but you cant change anything so why linger on it...yes it was sad, and yes it should have never happened, but you cant stop living your life...its okay to move on...
2007-04-19 05:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they need to wait, Since when is having sex in any way shape or form related to the victims of Virginia Tech?
Different people show their respects different ways. Some don't show any at all. But it's all an INDIVIDUAL choice.
2007-04-19 05:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by That Girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are not you, they have their own ways to deal with it all...If it is sex then so be it..
Why would it be disrespectful to have sex three days after this tragedy??It's got nothing to do with respect nor sex....
As i see it.... the 33 victims are all in a better place...You want to show them respect? Pray for them and pray for everyone else as well..
2007-04-19 06:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by Kasja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life must go on and unless you are at VT and your neighbors were directly effected by this terrible tragedy, then why shouldnt they. There are hundreds of poeple being killed in Iraq every day, does this mean none of us should have sex or fun untill all the killing there stops? Dont get me wrong, I deeply feel for the people involved in the VT events, but you cant let it effect your daily life.
2007-04-19 05:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately for the friends and families of the victims, life goes on. Having sex isn't disrespectful to the victims....maybe your neighbors are realizing how precious life is and it has brought them closer.
2007-04-19 05:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by Tangled Web 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
grief is a funny thing and people deal with it in different ways. Sex is also the perfect way for a couple to feel secure, safe and loved. maybe there both feeling a little insecure and scared and have found that by being close makes them feel safe and secure again
2007-04-19 05:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Love in any way is a way to show that you are still here and you are still okay. Especially when death is involved, through sex new life is born, it is nature's way of proving the circle of life. Don't judge them, everyone handles grief and stress in different ways.
2007-04-19 06:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by Lulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. When something like that happens we realize that a tragic event can happen to any one of us at any time. this allows for most people to appreciate what and who they have around them. When i heard of the tragedy that occurred it allowed for me to reflect on what was really important to me. hope this helps.
2007-04-19 05:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Each person deals with tragedy in different ways. Don't condemn them. It's really their business.
2007-04-19 06:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sex is very useful in getting your mind off of things like that. There is no period of waiting after something like that.
2007-04-19 05:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by voidtillnow 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋