Ok, so... I am engaged to be married to the most wonderful girl in the world... The wedding is in October.
We were going to try and wait to have sex until the wedding. But, it get's harder and harder every time I see her. (She lives out of town right now, until the wedding.)
I want to be proud of us, but is it really that big of a deal? Should we have sex before our wedding? What kind of problems will arise if we DO have sex before the wedding?
Any person advice would be greatly appreciated!
I'm torn. I want to, but I don't at the same time. What do you all think?
2007-04-19 05:18:40 · 18 answers · asked by just nate 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I waited and it was wonderful I know it may be hard but I sure you can do Think of other things to do, go shopping talk about the wedding see friends I promise that it will be the best night of you life just hang on...lol
2007-04-19 05:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by julianneciechoski 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not the most important thing in the world. If you both decided to wait it's because your relationship is very important. This is your first obstacle on the road to marriage. If you give in this time how much easier will it be to give in the next time. You can try to move the wedding date sooner.
2007-04-19 12:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by freaky momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong if u DO, but since u both decided to wait then i think you should. its only a few months away. Maybe you can do "other" things instead and leave the full on sex for after ur married. i think you'll enjoy it alot more and be proud that you waited. you have the rest of ur LIVES to have sex. so be a lil patient.
2007-04-19 12:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by Chelley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me say...BRAVO to you. Not many couples decide to wait for marriage (I didn't and now regret it terribly). There is so much frustration and tension that you can hardly stand it and so many give in. Please wait. You will both think it is that much more special and that is something that no matter what cannot be taken away. Also, as an added bonus, you do not have to worry about pregnancy before marriage! YEA!!!
2007-04-19 12:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've made up your mind. Don't feel pressured to do something you may regret later. It seems as if the relationship has stood the test of time anyhow, so I would wait. Afterall, it will make it that much more interesting.
2007-04-19 12:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by msshaden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had sex before marriage with my husband in a way its good, Because You might not be satisfied without each other and that can lead to affairs, But its all on your religion? Does she want and how well she feel about that before the wedding? talk to her about it
2007-04-19 12:23:12 · answer #6 · answered by Nissa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think if you have waited this long, then you might as well wait until your married. If you are able to do this it will be something the two of you share and can never be taken away. Congratulations!
2007-04-19 12:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jewells 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe in sex before marriage. I believe that you need to find out if you are sexually compatible with a person before you make a life long commitment. Humans need just a couple things to survive, food, water, love, & sex. You should know what you are getting into before you buy the whole package.
Just do it!
2007-04-19 12:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by Cheri H 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Congratulations for your convictions!!!
You have waited this long, continue waiting, it will be worth the wait and you can always be proud of your morals!!
I wish I could have told my children that I waited until marriage!!
2007-04-19 12:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by hi_stk_n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the big deal? it is almost may, and october is just down the road! can't you control your raging hormones and testosterone a little longer? the wait just might be worth it!
2007-04-19 12:23:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋