2007-04-19 04:14:44 · 14 answers · asked by for lyf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You might want to take note of the following:
Ask yourself why you don't like his family.
Was there something that happened that changed your view?
Is there something you can do to make things "easier" when you visit?
Rather than telling him, I would wait until something came up (the mom doing something you don't like, etc) and then talk about it with your husband,
Never tell him in an argument or when you are angry.
Short visits to the inlaw would keep everyone happy.
Try and work it out.
2007-04-19 04:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you don't like like your husband's family you have to have the specific reason for that , are they cruel to you? mean to you or is there something else that is serious. If this is not the case and they are good to u then why you don't like them. when you tell your husband that you don't like them it definitely gonna hurt him because they are his family. guess what if something like that your husband tells about your family then what happens to you. so, try to understand. if your husband's family are mean to u , don't like you you must tell your husband otherwise you should not tell anything . it can make the matter worse. think and decide. cheers
2007-04-19 04:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't! They are his family and just because they may not be people that you would become best friends with does not mean that you need to cause him pain by telling him something so devastating.
Perhaps they did not like you either.
No one is perfect and if you think you are then think again! They are just family and none of us gets to choose our family.
2007-04-19 04:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't tell him. Don't put him in a difficult situation. he doesnt even need to take sides. Eventually he will see your point. Respect is earned. If you show his family that you deserve it, then it will be accorded to you. Don't make petty problems go out of hand.
Blood is thicker than water. It might be too risky for you. Just be patient.
Best of luck to you.
2007-04-20 05:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew his family when you married him right! Sometimes things unsaid are better. If it will cause you problems with your husband then shhhhhhh. Grin and bear it as long as you can. They are your family now to make an effort to get along with them for him.
2007-04-19 04:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by alana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you tell him that?
There is not a nice way to say that "I do not like the most important people in your life".
Just try to be the best person that you can be and limit contact.
2007-04-19 04:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How does he feel about his family? Are they close?
What is it that they do that you don't like? Is it criminal? Do they have alcohol and/or drug addictions? What?
Without knowing more, I would just assume you are behaving childishly and want all of his attention and resent his family because he spends time with them.
2007-04-19 04:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family are very different from me and sometimes I find it difficult to get along with them but with your love and support I will try.
2007-04-19 04:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way to do that. it's his family. if you tell him you don't like them you're sure to hurt his feelings.you may just have to learn to live with it. we all have to do that to a point once we're married.
2007-04-19 04:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell him that and not hurt his feelings. Don't tell him. Just smile and be polite.
2007-04-19 04:22:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋