Marriage & Divorce - 19 April 2007

My ex and I had a huge falling out when our relationship ended. Much was said and done and we both acted out in anger. When I tried to talk to him and confront him, he deleted my emails and didn't want to talk to me anymore. I let it go and time has passed...it always bothered me and I called him and apologized but I got really emotional and told him I would email him and to please not delete it. Well...he has been online, yet the email says "unread". Does this mean he is considering it?
I want things to be ok between us, without any anomosity. We went thu alot and I helped him thru so much. Has time made him think? Or does he not care. He knows we cannot go back to the way things were...but I wanted to see if we can get past this and remain friends, he also is aware of this. Please just tell me if you were him how would you feel. I mean he could have deleted it like the rest. I sent it on Monday, its almost Friday:(

2007-04-19 16:15:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-19 15:54:28 · 9 answers · asked by Lolu I 1

2007-04-19 15:39:58 · 19 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7

his birth certificate says female but he has a male social security card...and then if it is commen law , does the same rules apply ?

2007-04-19 15:34:34 · 18 answers · asked by carmella 2

We are entering the "empty nest" stage and I've been nervous about asking my wife if she would consider a trial period of what is talked about at this site:

http://www.aroundherfinger.com/

I am a bit upset that I don't feel comfortable talking to her about it, but I really am afraid that she will think I am "different". I bought the book and would like to ask her to read it.

I could use your input and opinions 1) Has anyone tried this (I was thinking of suggesting a 6 month 'trial period') ?

and 2) do the ladies here think you might freak out if if your long term partner approached you with this type of idea?

Thanks for your help with this as I been troubled with it for quite some time

2007-04-19 15:25:18 · 25 answers · asked by Tim 3

Ladies, would you wear something, even if you personally don't like it, just because it pleases your husband? Just curious.

2007-04-19 15:10:16 · 28 answers · asked by tranquility_base3@yahoo.com 5

I was engaged to someone who I ended up buying a house with. Shortly after we moved into the house he started to find faults with me left, right and centre and told me (and my teenaged son) to move out. We have since moved out into our own apartment and are quite happy, however my ex-fiance wants to get back together again and wants me to eventually move back into the house (which he owns most of). Before we were forced to move out I really loved him but now I find it hard to have any real loving feelings like I had before for him. He doesnt seem to understand this (?) I don't feel like I could trust him again. I feel like I don't even know him any more. I told him "separating" was not a positive move, however he didn't agree and now apart from the fact we only see each other twice a week at the most, the relationship is dwindling and yet he appears oblivious. Should I just remain friends or just walk away completely?

2007-04-19 15:10:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-19 14:59:19 · 26 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7

2007-04-19 14:56:37 · 15 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7

My fiance wants the xbox360 for a VERY long time. But we were moving and we have a lot of wedding expenses so I kept putting it off.. Now he had a class that is really hard for him and so to motivate him to study I told him if he passed the test I would buy him the 360. Now before he got the results back - and even before he TOOK the test - he's been driving me crazy asking me about it and dropping me hints - at least 5 times a day. Saying things like x then b then o then x spread out in 3 different text messages as "subliminal messages", making a picture of xbox360 into my desktop background, coming home from work and saying "where is it?? wheres the 360?? i know you bought it!" and "tomorrow lets go to costco" (which is right next to bestbuy) and when I ask him if he really means bestbuy he just starts giggling like a little girl

NOW don't get me wrong - I REALLY REALLY want to buy this for him - but he TOTALLY ruins the surprise! I want to SURPRISE him with it but if he brings

2007-04-19 14:52:26 · 4 answers · asked by monsey_89 1

Just recently found a myspace account in my husbands name. Provocative picture as the ID, not of him though, and it's a private page. I asked if I could see it, and he said no. Is that right?

2007-04-19 14:50:06 · 14 answers · asked by andro 2

When things get tough or to serious guys leave or filp out everyone goes though the same thing even females.

2007-04-19 14:36:41 · 10 answers · asked by Tiffany P 1

2007-04-19 14:33:45 · 27 answers · asked by yari 1

I'm married, but my marriage isn't so hot and hasn't been for a while. I met this guy at work (we work at different branches at a bank)and I can't get my mind off of him. He doesn't know I'm married and I haven't made an extra effort to let him know that I am. We flirt when he comes down and have even ate lunch together. I know I need to let him know that I am married, but I really don't want to. How far should I let this go?

2007-04-19 14:30:39 · 15 answers · asked by Tilly 1

If a parent recieves a large monetary settlement from their job do they have topay a portion as child support?

2007-04-19 14:28:49 · 7 answers · asked by Rhiannon 3

Okay i am 35 yrs old happily married 12 yrs and have 3 great kids.I take a lot of pride in taking care of myself making sure i am always well made up.I also exercise running 5 days a week and doing weights ect. to make sure my body is in top shape.Why do other women feel the need remark nastly about what i wear?I am a wedding planner with my own small buisniess and very friendly to everyone around town also participate in events.I have always gotten along with men rather than women.So i see nothing wrong with my hubby having friends over for a poker/card night or a big game night i will even hang around(i like sports).I have even allowed hubbys friends to crash at my house if they have been kicked out of their own homes.But for some reason no matter what i do most of the other wives speak badly of me?

2007-04-19 14:28:28 · 44 answers · asked by Kelly V 1

Is there a time limit as to how much and how many times an ex can ask for an increase? What defense can you use against an increase? If you were on disability for 10 months and continued to pay support can the help as a defense?

2007-04-19 14:21:54 · 16 answers · asked by loverjoe59 1

i asked this question but would like to add more: I will be married to a man who is divorced and pays his ex wife support. He is a doctor and she lays around doing NOTHING, i think men sometimes get screwed. He works his butt off and she gets a check...he's been divorced for 4 years and has been married to her for 10yrs total....shes a gold digger and i wonder when this maddness will ever end?? why should she be entilted to money she doesnt work for and she's the one who wanted to divorce because she would rather just have money?! any comments???

2007-04-19 14:12:46 · 6 answers · asked by kathy 1

2007-04-19 14:04:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had it with his slovenly ways, I simply cannot bare them any more. That combined with his deceitfull nature and lack of interest in ANY thing besides television. I am alone in the house for 12 hours every day, 5 days a week and dread week ends .
I only had a bad back when I made this move to this situation but now my heatlh suffers severly. I feel this situation is taking me down physically, moraly and mentally. If I dont get out I fear I will end up a lunatic. I have knowledge of my rights to force sale of property and take my half and go my way (half or more) but im so run down mentally I dont think I can do it. I am in some serious need of some help. And no, I dont have any one who can help me as far as family or friends. The either dont want anything to do with it or just cant due to other reasons. I dont want to continue with this, its killing me... What shalll I do?

2007-04-19 13:17:20 · 4 answers · asked by lindalainey 2

2007-04-19 13:15:34 · 39 answers · asked by bob z 1

2007-04-19 13:14:34 · 11 answers · asked by masonv80 3

My bf is on disability. I supported him for a year so that he could get it. He can work PT, and make a little. He is extremely inconsistent in ability. He asked me if he got a house carers position and I accepted salary for paper work (and job title) then we could do this (with him doing the physical work--his disability is not physical). I said No. I thought it was unethical. I felt like he was trying to get me to do a job "for" him, rather than with him. I don't know if this makes sense. It felt wrong to me. It is not a job in my field, and I don't take it lightly that it would be "in my name",. He got REALLY mad and froze me out for awhile and I had a migraine, couldn't sleep. Am I being unreasonable? I have no idea whether I am being totally weird. Would any of you feel uncomfortable with this? He said the salary could help me and I could still do what I want. It isn't something I want to do.

2007-04-19 12:55:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met my husband at age 15. moved in together 17. have 2 children 14 & 8. own business together. this last year we have had a very rough go at things. it seams we dont have much in common anymore. sort of like saying we pass in the halls, eat, have sex and that is it. we have a vacant rental home couple blocks apart and were thinking if trying it apart for few months would bring love back into relationship. yes we work together everyday, but i was thinking maybe somewhat of dating would bring good times back and we would grow closer to each other. we have full basement that could be used also, but i wondered if that was not a big enough distance to make a change this time. working on it in same house hasnt seemed to work this past year. changes start but dont follow thru.

2007-04-19 12:47:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I have been very happily married for almost seven years. My husband just left me 11 days ago. He says in the last month or two he hasnt been happy. I do not understand this, because he has seemed just fine. He refuses to see a counsellor and I know this is not another woman. Can anyone offer advice?

2007-04-19 12:36:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband does not talk to me about anything going on. It makes me feel almost like a bad person. When we have problems he runs to his moms house or calls her in the phone, he never talks to me how do i change this.it makes me almost hate his mom because she tells him just ignore the problem it will go away. Is she not supposed to be the person that tells him go home and work it out if you want it to work?

2007-04-19 12:23:22 · 14 answers · asked by Jessica U 1

2007-04-19 12:14:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and half. Decebmer he took me to CA to meet his family and childhood friends. We live together. He says I'm his best friend and he talks about us growing old together. Howerver, he says he doesn't wanto get married for a long long time? after Med school. Thats like ten years from now. Do you think he really wants to marry me or he's just saying that?

2007-04-19 12:00:14 · 19 answers · asked by iman_tx22 1

my husband is uncompromising and domeneering.we have 3 kids and he named them all without discussing it with me.he told me to do the tubal ligation which i did.things arent getting better though.he wont even discuss our family finances with me.should i have tied my tubes in these circumstances?why doesnt he care for me or my opinion?is he having an affair?are there any happy endings for women in my situation?

2007-04-19 11:51:54 · 9 answers · asked by ceomum5 2

2007-04-19 11:47:59 · 22 answers · asked by shellnaye 1