2007-04-19 14:33:45 · 27 answers · asked by yari 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What do u really feel? Do you have a lil love left for him? If so, it's worth to give him another chance, esp. if u have kid(s) w/ him.
If u think and feel that ur just gonna feel awkward and there's no love for him anymore, then don't take him back. You r the one who is going to suffer. You have got to say goodbye to him and move on.
It all really depends on how you feel. Good luck to u and ur love life.
2007-04-22 18:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Goody M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, dont go back to someone that you dont love. You would never be happy or satisfied with your life, you would be miserable. It will never work out if you go back when you dont love him anymore, be honest and simply tell him (no matter how hard it may be) that you dont love him anymore, because when a person says that, the other person realizes that it's truly the end, and he can deal with it sooner rather than later after you've wasted his and your time by being with him, without wanting to be.
2007-04-19 20:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, if you don't love him then tell him no and file for divorce. I usually suggest trying to work out your marriage, but cheating is unacceptable. If you feel that it is over, then it is over. Good Luck. P.S. I know some people are telling you should if there are children involved, but you never stay in a relationship for the children. They only learn how to have loveless relationships. And as far as marriage being an obligation and you owe it to him to work it out, horse pucky. Even God viewed cheating as the only grounds for divorce. He messed up, you didn't. You OWE him NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-19 14:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by lily_florance 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is supposed to be a loving bind between two people. Wasnt this why you got married in the first place?
I suggest getting marriage counseling together plus seperate counseling from a different counselor for yourself to seek out your personal needs in life.
Taking him back without loving him isnt going to work in the long run. I tried it. If you can seriously attend counseling where both parties WANT to truly get help, I do believe you could fall in love again and get past the past.
Good Luck!!
2007-04-19 14:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by ca_redneckgirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i understand exactly the way you feel , my x husband did the same thing to me , when they do things like that , they dont think of the consequences , do you not love him because of his cheating ? or do you just not love him anymore ? i would try it one more time and let him prove to you that he wants you back , because hes the one who made the mistake , so see where it takes you . good luck
2007-04-20 02:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by dawn p 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why take him back if u don't love him and he cheated on you?? How could u even trust him if u did get back together? If u still loved him that would be different.
2007-04-19 14:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by Strawberry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No if you don't love him what would be the point? What your soon to be ex husband will hopefully learn is there is a consequence for your actions. Do what is right for you not him he wasn't think about you when he cheated.......
2007-04-19 14:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont love your husband any more dont take him back! You will not be happy,and you may mess up your friendship. You could also miss out on a good relationship.
2007-04-19 14:41:59 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany P 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut feeling.. Do you have children? It might be difficult in the beginning,but if you don't love him there is no reason to stay with him. Many woman who divorce often do not remarry. Men do so more than women. Good luck!
2007-04-19 14:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you married him, so you have the responsibility of working things out. It isn't always fun and games. Sometimes we have to stick it out, even if we are miserable. Talk this over with him, and find out WHY he cheated. That may help.
2007-04-19 14:40:46 · answer #10 · answered by tankgirl190 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋