XBOX problem - Am I right or wrong ?? If I'm wrong I'll go right now!!?

Question

My fiance wants the xbox360 for a VERY long time. But we were moving and we have a lot of wedding expenses so I kept putting it off.. Now he had a class that is really hard for him and so to motivate him to study I told him if he passed the test I would buy him the 360. Now before he got the results back - and even before he TOOK the test - he's been driving me crazy asking me about it and dropping me hints - at least 5 times a day. Saying things like x then b then o then x spread out in 3 different text messages as "subliminal messages", making a picture of xbox360 into my desktop background, coming home from work and saying "where is it?? wheres the 360?? i know you bought it!" and "tomorrow lets go to costco" (which is right next to bestbuy) and when I ask him if he really means bestbuy he just starts giggling like a little girl

NOW don't get me wrong - I REALLY REALLY want to buy this for him - but he TOTALLY ruins the surprise! I want to SURPRISE him with it but if he brings

but if he brings it up 10 times a day and giggles like a schoolgirl - how can I surprise him??

We TOTALLY can't afford it AND he failed the mid-term he had (but he still passing the class) so I was STILL planning on surprising him tomorrow when we are in the area of BestBuy for a vendor meeting. So right now when he called me from work and starting dropping hints again I asked him to stop it like 5 times but he wouldn't stop so finally I just got mad and blurted it out that I had been planning to take him tomorrow and that now I didn't think I would since now he ruined it.

Am I totally wrong here?? Now HE'S mad at ME but I just didn't like his attitude about it.. There was another time this happened with my little brother I had bought a surprise for him but he kept bugging me about it 24/7 where's my surprise when are you going to give it to me? that finally I just got so pissed off ..

Should I just buy it and get it over with?? I'm so mad that I can't ever surprise him with anything. I love buying people gifts and I love surprises but I get mad when he throws a temper tantrum over a toy like a baby!!!

What should I do? Whos right or wrong? Guys let me know please! If I'm wrong I'll go and buy it right now!

Answer 1

youre not wrong or right either.
give him the xbox. i myself is addicted to games so i know how he feels.
imagine how pissed off youd be if he asks for 360 from other women.
*_*

Answer 2

Oh dear, spoil brat (him not you) you poor thing. Right, here's a guys point of view who got a 360 for free. Long story but basically bought my son one and ended up getting a free one as well.

I love my 360 and xbox before it but no way would I carry on like this. Do you cnstantly have to give in to him in other ways. He knows if he just wears you down you will give in. Maybe you was wrong to say you would treat him if he passed the test. We are not here to be given treats like a good dog!! Nothing worse than someone dangling a carrot in front of you or even a 360.

Tell him to buy his own ****ING xbox

Answer 3

Gosh, honey, you are dealing with a child here. If the XBox is the only thing he can think about in regards to your marriage, where are you going from here? Could he be more ridiculous!! You have much more to decide on in your married life than him sitting in front of a computer playing games. I get the surprise thing you want to do but he doesn't get the grown up thing. What's next....a new skateboard?

Answer 4

Are you CRAZY?????? You are seriously planning to marry a guy so juvenile he acts like a little kid crying cuz Santa isn't here yet? And still wants his toy- even though he failed the test? Is this a marriage question, or is it a question meant for the spoiled kid section? I'm sorry if this offends you, but with all the issues every relationship has, what worries YOU is if you should get Timmy boy a shiny new toy? Please don't marry. Neither of you are nearly mature enough to play adult games like marriage