Marriage & Divorce - 20 April 2007

I just don't find sex very emotional. It's a physically pleasing bonding activity, but some magical emotional moment worthy of a term like 'love making'? Oh please.

He seems upset when I say this.

2007-04-20 05:39:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my boyfriend for six months. Everything is picture perfect. I am great with his daughters and he is great with my son. We just moved in together maybe three weeks ago. He is currently unemployed due to lack of work and I am helping him while he is in between jobs. However I am a nanny making 250 an week currently and I get no child support from my childs father. I accepted a job that will start in about two weeks. I will be gone for two weeks at a time in a neighboring city. Every third week I will be off for that week and recieve half the pay I would normally. This job is still as a nanny the parents are truck drivers and the pay will be great!!! But will we grow apart? He thinks we will. I think you have to work on maintaining relationship even in a more ideal situation

2007-04-20 05:36:26 · 16 answers · asked by chicequa j 1

let that special one go due to a physical flaw that you couldnt look past? what was the flaw?

2007-04-20 05:32:08 · 11 answers · asked by wolvie 6

Ok. my avator show a guy but i'm a girl. I'm a married women and is wondering why do married men look at naked girls online? what is the purpose and reason? do you think its a normal thing for guys? Can they live without looking at playboy? I just don't get and i feel disgusted. Well my husband does not browse through it everyday but once in a while.. . I feel that sometimes when he sleep with me, that is when he gets horny by looking at other girls online.. if you were me, what will you do? Does your husband/ or you (married man) look at it too? why... I t makes me feel like Im not what he wants and not good enough for him.. Well im not that fat. kinda petite, weigh 125. Please respond..

2007-04-20 05:14:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do women in today's society not have the ability to stand up for what they believe is right? I mean, here we are in 2007, and all I see here are questions about "What should I do?" I'm not saying this to be mean, as I love women, but sometimes gals you have to use your head a little and trust your gut a little and when the two come together, make a decision and stand by it!!

I cannot stand to hear of a woman who is in an abusive relationship and does nothing about it. I cannot stand to hear women complain about cheating b/f's or husbands and then take the a%%holes back.

Ladies, you earned the right to be equals. Start acting like, it, please!! Be tough, be fair, be firm. Follow your instincts, follow your heart, whatever, but stand up for yourselves!!

2007-04-20 05:12:48 · 23 answers · asked by bux_martinfan 3

My boyfriend has postponed our wedding for the second time. The first time we already had a license to get married and our rings had been engraved. This time he appears to have another reason which sounds legitimate, but instinct tells me I should cut my losses now and leave him. I'm so confused. Please help.

2007-04-20 05:09:12 · 16 answers · asked by holdover2002 2

My wife had vaginosis before leaving for vacation. She took the medicine recommended by the OBGYN and I thought it cleared up. Low and behold after being back home for a week she has it again.

2007-04-20 05:08:47 · 28 answers · asked by longdong6920007 1

We had a really great relationship...then he found out his ex-wife was getting remarried to the guy she had an affair with. Strangely (not really) our romantic connection seemed to be almost instantly severed. He broke it off a short while later, and admitted that he wasn't ready to date so soon after his divorce.

We have been trying the friends thing, but it is really tough. As far as he knew, it was working fine but then I drunk-dialed, and confessed that he broke my heart. He was supposed to accompany me to a friend's wedding in 2 wks. but backed out a week after the phone call saying he didn't think it would be a good idea. I was really mad (and hurt) and other than a few (necessary) emails exchanged, we haven't talked. (We are both involved with music at church that needed some discussion.)

Oops, I'm outta room. Please see add'l details section!

2007-04-20 05:06:28 · 16 answers · asked by loves2sing 2

My husband is so sweet to me. Yesterday he wrote me a letter telling me how much he appreciates me carrying our baby, and going through all these struggles. He told me how turned on he is by me and how much he loves me. I havn't been able to have sex (or anything sexual) with him because I am extremely tired and not in the mood lately. I feel terrible because I want to give him anything I can, and he also told me that he can wait as long as it takes to be intimate, that isnt the problem. Any ideas what I can do? How do I get the energy and want to do things? Any tips ( also i am 32 weeks pregnant! and work full time (i want to) and in the evenings I am dead tired!) Thanks for your help!

2007-04-20 05:03:36 · 11 answers · asked by wondering 2

2007-04-20 05:00:14 · 17 answers · asked by Lily P 3

Hi everyone.I really need your help. This morning i wokr up and noticed a miss call on my husband's phone. I checked it and it was one of his lady friends trying to call him at 3:39am this morning. She called him last night after 11 and they talked briefly. After the missed call I got upset and i began searching his phone to see if she may have sent him messages or so. I discovered that he has been texting her quite often and telling her things like "where is she?" and she would ask him to pick her up and so on. He would usually tell me of her. She was just released from jail for murder and he said she is just a little girl that he is befrending. I dont like there friendship. I began argueing with him about this this morning .........first he was calm and he said that i dont have anything to worry about since I should how he would never disrespect me like that. I continues to argue and he said that he is tiard of me and my insecurity and that our marriage is over.What do u think?

2007-04-20 04:58:05 · 32 answers · asked by viddy 2

Every morning my husband drinks his coffee and watches sports center while I get both my kids ready and myself for daycare and work. I drop them off and I pick them up to come home do all the cooking, wash laundry, give kids bath and put them to bed. I have left him notes (cause he gets home before me) to help with some chores. He refuses to clean bathrooms, cook or wash dishes. How can I make him understand that I need some help. If I say anything to him I have to scream and start a fight for him to do anything and then it only lasts about a week. We both work full time jobs through the week, but he doesn't even put in part-time on the household chores or with the kids. He says he just doesn't think about doing housework. What can I do.......?

2007-04-20 04:56:41 · 17 answers · asked by MommyofTwo 3

What is the greatest thing your man has done for you? Such as gifts, sexual positions etc...?

What is the most unforgivable thing a man can do?

2007-04-20 04:55:38 · 11 answers · asked by Custodian 2

We've been married for 4 years now and he doesn't give me any reason not to trust him. But I find myself scared that he still has the player in him; and that he's could be sneaky and I just don't know. How do I deal with these feelings of doubt? Especially when there are attractive younger women in is office?

2007-04-20 04:52:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

also please advise me on how to handle the situation, what to do,how to answer him.we have been married for 13 years and over the last few years he has put me down, by saying that i am stupid, good for nothing.i dont work its by mutual choice, we have 2 kids.i have put on a bit of weight over the years, i am not a little over weight, and he calls me beached whale.(i am far from being that) he often shouts at me and orders me around, tells me what to do, by helping him , he gives me small asignments to do.which i do.and if i dont do them to his satisfaction, he tells me i am lazy.
anyway i just wanted peoples output
thanks in advance

2007-04-20 04:50:24 · 27 answers · asked by the s 2

2007-04-20 04:35:47 · 10 answers · asked by TANYA C 1

During a recent conversation my husban informed me that i was a witch (only the word he used began with b). he also said that many of the people at work share this opinion, which is why he doesn't like asking to lunch when several people go together. (it is important to mention here that my husband & i work for the same company.) I moped a few days. then told him he really hurt my feelings. he didn't say sorry or anything just "well, you are a b****. you always sound like one when you talk to me." i really do try to be nice. I just need some advice.

2007-04-20 04:29:53 · 66 answers · asked by sparkly fire 2

ok hear the trouble i try to keep the tolet seat up i keep telling my wife when she done lift the seat so i don't have to but no she leave it down every time and then she yell at me becuse it up so what must i do to train her help

2007-04-20 04:26:35 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

Someone drew a smiley face onto my husbands rear car window. A big one. Who would do this? Why? Is it a girlfriend?
Seriously this is odd. ideas please.

2007-04-20 04:26:25 · 13 answers · asked by undone 4

I busted my live in bf of 5 yrs cheating. We decided to work things out. I still go thru his phone for my own satisfaction. He knows this and doesnt like it. This morning I went thru his phone and it was locked. What are you thoughts?

2007-04-20 04:23:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

please do you believe that a full grown adult can be taken away?like a man taking away another man"s wife.i personally don"t believe that a fully grown human being can be taken away because we have our own will-power and we must exercise it by saying yes or no and maintaining it.we choose our actions.i believe that it is only inanimate objects that can be taken away,but i am living and active with my own will and power of choice which i exercise daily. i need your sincere opinion..

2007-04-20 04:19:27 · 12 answers · asked by bestofyou 3

attended a social event last evening, once again my "friends" attempted to set me up with another woman. Its been going on for about 2 yrs now, when will they understand that I'm not looking at this time and just let me enjoy their company. And yes, I am NOT gay..lol.

2007-04-20 04:19:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-20 04:10:42 · 19 answers · asked by kayla o 1

My Ex girlfriend broke up with me a month. At the time, I was very unhappy with myself and my stressful life. Instead of making the proper changes, I started arguments with her over small things and held on to her dearly: Big mistake

background: we have been lovers for over 2 years and never been friends until now. I love her so much words cannot describe and in some ways, I believe she feels the same
I say this because we still talk twice a week and she's showed me she still care a lot about me; helping me with my finances and asking me if i feel better since i struggle with the separation for the first 2 weeks.

After break up, she wants to be my friend. Shes said "she want us to grow as friends first. If we can get along as friends; then, maybe, we can be together again one day."
Yesterday, we spoke to one another and she was surprised with changes in my life; I am doing things that are making me happy. Do I have a chance? if i do, any advice to improve relations?

2007-04-20 04:09:45 · 15 answers · asked by Jay 1

I am in the process of divorcing my husband...he's abusive and I left him 9 months ago. But I think the address he gave me was fake, the place he told me he was going to school is made-up, and now his cellphone has been shut off and he won't return any of my emails. His MySpace account says he lives three hours from the city he told me he actually lived in. The divorce papers are in the hands of a process server, but he is not communicating with my lawyer, and my lawyer is not doing a great job of communicating with me, either. I'm afraid they are never going to be able to find him, which is going to make the divorce very difficult (there are two children involved). Is there anything I can do to help look for him so the lawyer won't charge me more and more money? What would you do? Any ideas? HELP!

2007-04-20 04:05:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-20 04:05:14 · 4 answers · asked by gammeb 1

I'm thinking about telling my husband that he has two choices.
Me and our unborn baby, or never see either of us again.
I sick of waiting around for him to choose what he is going to do and I need to move on or work on our marriage. We are seperated right now, but it seems he still wants to act like a child. I dont want my child to have a father this month and then next month he doesn't want anything to do with it.

What do you think he will choose?
Me and the baby or to be alone, without his family?

2007-04-20 03:59:47 · 28 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5

I hear alot of married women saying their husbands are not there for them enough emotionally or they don't remember anniverseries or they don't compliment them enough. Well, I'm here to tell you I do the opposite and what is my reward? Being taken advantage of. You see, I do the breakfast in bed, the love notes, help around the house. Not everyday mind you, but, on the days they should count I do. My wife gives none of it back. Does she work hard for the family? yes. Does she appreciate the extra lengths I go to, to make her happy? NO. Oh, she says thank you, or oh how sweet, but, never returns the favors. I don't care what you say, a little recognition by her thoughtful behavior would be nice. It was not always so one sided but for the past few years it has. Well, I'm fed up. I'm young, intelligent and attractive. You women talk about what you want from a guy and when he gives it to you regularly. example: birthadays, anniverseries etc or just a foot massage after a long

2007-04-20 03:55:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-20 03:32:48 · 30 answers · asked by luvy0710 1

in every respect i need to know how would u like ur wife to be.or how a good wife must behave.i seriously need guidence.he is so loving and understanding that he never made me realise it that im not up to the mark.but i know he needs more out of me and i wish i knew what all i can do 4 him

2007-04-20 03:05:39 · 19 answers · asked by amatul 1