please do you believe that a full grown adult can be taken away?like a man taking away another man"s wife.i personally don"t believe that a fully grown human being can be taken away because we have our own will-power and we must exercise it by saying yes or no and maintaining it.we choose our actions.i believe that it is only inanimate objects that can be taken away,but i am living and active with my own will and power of choice which i exercise daily. i need your sincere opinion..
2007-04-20 04:19:27 · 12 answers · asked by bestofyou 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do think you have to be willing to be taken, or seduced away as the case may be.
I do think that someone who knowingly enters into a relationship with someone who is committed to another has no morals and may go to extreme measures to seduce another. However, the person being"taken" would have to willingly allow them into their life.
2007-04-20 04:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by nailgal2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that the other person chooses to leave. They aren't really stolen, but it still feels that way, when they choose to leave and another person is involved. Sometimes when there are problems it is too tempting to take the easy way and walk away from the relationship instead of working on the problem(s), and it makes it an even easier decision when they have someone else waiting in the wings. So even though they were looking for a way out anyway, it appears they are leaving because of the other person.
2007-04-20 11:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by ╚╔╩╦ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't believe that a person can be "taken away." People leave because they are unhappy. Sometimes a person meets someone right when they are ready to leave (happened to me personally), but that is just timing. If someone is happy with someone, then no matter how much they were tempted, they wouldn't leave. It's easy to blame someone else by saying that they took away or stole someone from you. Then you don't have to admit any fault in the relationship. I have seen this many times.
2007-04-20 11:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The phrase "being taken away" is used very loosely. Yes, we all make our own decisions and God gave us the right to freewill, but if you allow your wife to seek other men, they are going to "take her away" from yuo.
By allow, I mena if you treat her like crap, disrespect her, neglect and/or ignore her, she will seek attention elsewhere.
I don't know of too many people who would stabnd by and allow their partner to treat them poorly. If she leaves it is because she made that decision, but if she leaves you for another man, chances are he is a better man to her than you were.
Sorry
2007-04-20 11:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by bux_martinfan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree 100%
2007-04-20 11:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will-power? You fat and on a diet or something? If you are interested in your mate, have high integrity, and you value your marriage or partnership, then it doesn't require will power.
You still have more to learn, Grasshopper.
2007-04-20 12:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they can be taken away, they really weren't there to begin with. A person who is really happy, wouldn't leave.
2007-04-20 11:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by hypnosisbyjill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't agree with you more. As adults, we should be mature enough to make our own decisions. No one makes anyone cheat if they really don't want to. No one puts a knife to our back to make us forget where our loyalties should lie.
2007-04-20 11:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by Raingirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only kidnapping would fit "taken away" against one's will.
2007-04-20 11:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything and anyONE can be taken. Brute force? no, by wooing an already unhappy person.
2007-04-20 11:23:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋