Marriage & Divorce - 20 April 2007

I am in the process of splitting up with my husband, its not something I wanted to do, but felt I had no choice. When I told him I was walking away from our marraige, he huffed and puffed a little bit, but that was it, he accepted it.

Im Totally devestated. I really love him, and if only he would fight for our marraige we could get through it, but his lack of feelings is one of the resons I am leaving.

Is there anyone out there who can relate to what im going through? Does he really not care? In the early days he always said he would be devestated if we split up and there would never be anyone else for him, that he would fight to get me back. I just wanted him to show he cared

2007-04-20 02:47:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 25 years old and single, I get so lonely and need advice to help end my suffering.

2007-04-20 02:42:46 · 46 answers · asked by Dj 1

My husband and I need marriage counseling. I dont want my famiy to know we have to go to counseling, their negative people and I dont need anymore negativety I've got enough of that. We have 2 kids and counseling closing at 5 and my husband doesnt even get home til 6 or 7 and works one hour away from home. How can we seek counseling with no one to watch our children and his late hours? What can we expect out of marriage counseling? What are the sessions like/about? Any advice would be helpful. Thanks!

2007-04-20 02:20:23 · 4 answers · asked by who me 2

2007-04-20 02:02:27 · 9 answers · asked by ArcticArmadillo 2

2007-04-20 01:47:03 · 8 answers · asked by tad 2

i'm coming to the realization that i may in fact also be an abuser in my marriage. i always felt like i wasnt a violent individual unless seriously provoked..for example trying to avoid a horrible fight by leaving and having the door blocked or my keys taken away, i would push him out of the way. Last night i was in the car, keys in the ignition ready to just run from the horrible fight that was to come and he came flying into the car, ripped the keys out of the ignition and i lashed out trying to get the keys back, well without intention and this is the truth i accidentally hit him in the jaw. I never expected a full blown punch to the face. He said sorry & is now saying well you hit me first i was teaching you that you arent allowed to hit me and get away with it. I feel like im the crazy one and it is in fact my fault. I know deep down that this is a bad situation but he's been to Iraq twice and has had a hard time, i feel like i owe it to him to be there when he needs me.

2007-04-20 01:39:12 · 10 answers · asked by skyedink 1

is it possible that two people think they are divoced they filed the papers went throw all the bliss and to find a year or two later that it never went throw

2007-04-20 01:33:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in a spot where I want my son to go live with his dad. I am tired of the disrespect and not being responsible. He is going to be thirteen and acts like he is 2. I have been consistent with him taking things away throwing things away when he will not take care of them. He told me his dad is better and everything is always my fault. But his dad does not want him living with him. His dad also says everything is always my fault also. Any ideas would be helpful thanks

2007-04-20 01:27:32 · 28 answers · asked by Sandra C 4

2007-04-20 01:22:23 · 16 answers · asked by Pluto 1

A guy is harrasing / abusing my GF on phone by call / sms, v dnt knw him, he is sayng he loves her even he dont knw her !! Wt to do to stop / catch him ?

2007-04-20 01:10:50 · 17 answers · asked by smeet 1

2007-04-20 01:03:52 · 19 answers · asked by sukanta p 1

A man whom i had romantic past with keeps in touch thru mails consistently for more than 3 years now. He lives on the other side of the world.

Do you think he's got feeling for me, or just being friendly?

2007-04-20 00:41:57 · 13 answers · asked by pesticide 1

I thought I was in a happy marriage. I finally got out of my winter depression and now my husband is making me so miserable I'm considering all kinds of crazy things. The only thing keeping me going is my younger son. My older son screamed at me this morning after I have already been fighting with my husband for three days that maybe it's you (meaning me) and not us? I just want to be happy again. I've been working towards all these goals (my weight a new job) and finally almost able to obtain them and now I feel all hopeless. I hate going to a new job looking like I've been crying so I've plastered my face with makeup. My bags are packed for stay with my dad for the weekend. My husband didn't even say "don't go." I'm even getting my first paycheck today which is double what I was making and that isn't good enough. Why isn't anything I do ever good enough?

2007-04-20 00:38:25 · 19 answers · asked by SheRa 3

2007-04-20 00:34:35 · 13 answers · asked by copol 1

2007-04-20 00:24:42 · 17 answers · asked by skayboo 1

Seriously?Why do men cheat instead of just telling their wives they arent interested in them anymore? It makes life so much better, women get more upset if they catch their men cheating instead of having a talk.

2007-04-20 00:10:39 · 17 answers · asked by srf_grl102 2