Then I would say that the spanker isn't doing a good job of making you feel it mentally, even if he's making you feel it physically well enough. For a spanking, or any punishment, to really improve your behavior, it has to be more than simply a painful deterrent. There must be an emotional connection that makes the spanking unpleasant for you. You have to realize that it's happening out of disappointment on the spanker's part. Otherwise, there is no way for your mind to differentiate it from a spanking that you get for play.
I spank several young ladies for both pleasure and discipline. While the disciplinary spankings are a bit harder, it's the scolding and lecturing that really makes them effective. If I simply spanked them, without that emotional connection, then the lessons wouldn't be learned.
2007-04-20 12:43:28
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answered by baka_otaku30 5
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It sounds like You need more than a spanking. You need to be taught to behave. Some cuffs would be a good start both on the bed and in a frame so You would be standing up. Bondage is always an excellent means to get your attention.
Since a hand spanking is not working, then a cat o' nine tails would help. And of course, a narrow leather belt, to reach those certain places. The area to be spanked has to change from the cheeks to other, more sensitive parts of Your body. Putting You spread-eagle, arms and legs, will allow access to those areas.
There's more ways, including clamps, hot wax, and other toys that can have wonderful results.
Have fun experimenting! ;-)
2007-04-20 13:23:50
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answered by utob 2
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Neither a "good" spanking nor a "bad" spanking will MAKE a person behave. They can motivate a person to behave.
What you need is a good life-changing "religious" experience of the best sort.
2007-04-20 23:40:50
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answered by Jim 6
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Since you love being spanked, kinky girl that you are, maybe the best way to make you behave might be to threaten you with no spankings for a month.
But then this way is much more fun all round, isn't it?
2007-04-20 18:15:19
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answered by Anonymous
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It sounds like really good spankings are the reason you don't behave.
2007-04-20 12:04:22
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answered by lunatic 7
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Oh Lily, you're such a naughty girl! But I've got plenty of different toys and tricks in my bag! A good workout with my kangaroo-hide quirt will teach you!
2007-04-21 11:09:44
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answered by Anonymous
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Perhaps you're made of stronger stuff. How about a broken car antenna laid across the back of your bare legs? Think that might get you to see the light?
I'll bet it will.
2007-04-20 12:08:14
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answered by Quasimodo 7
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I enjoy a good spanking every now and then.
2007-04-20 12:02:54
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answered by Anonymous
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That is because you have yet to get a "good" spanking.
2007-04-20 12:02:45
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answered by Just a friend. 6
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40 lashes with a cat than
2007-04-20 21:19:46
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answered by tm41170 5
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