I'm getting ready to leave my husband?

Question

I feel like getting in the car and driving away.

He hides the mail and check book from me. He drinks ever night(beer). And there are so many things I can not list.

I'll tell you what he did, he's behind on all the bills. Some I didn't know about. And when I found out I called an quit my job. I have put 7,000 dollars in this house in 6 wks. Money wasted I guess. I have 1700 dollars in my pocket. I offered to give it to him to pay bills this morning, he refused. So I give up.

Answer 1

give us a call when you get there...

Answer 2

Good luck to you if that's what you decide. Maybe it's best to talk it over with a friend or relative first. Or Your husband. I think we all feel like it would be great just to get up and start a new life somewhere else. But think about you situation and what is best for you and your family. That would be an easy way out, but not the best way.

Answer 3

Take your money and make a new life insteading getting mad and quitting your job. Self distructing won't help you live a new life and won't help the marriage.
Drive away,or make a plan. Look at a few apartments. Get yourself a new job, consult a lawyer, or find a paralegal and find out how much it costs to file divorce papers.

Answer 4

Yea I felt the same way many of times when I was married. One day when he went out of town for work, I packed all his sh**, called him and told him it was over, that I wanted a divorce. I stood my ground even when he came home and begged on his knees for me to stay with him. I gave him chance after chance and he would never change. If you feel the same way then leave him, you will be happier in the long run. Life is short so do what you have to do to be as happy as you can.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Dear Friend, I understand that there are days you cannot stand your hubsand. However when you said your vows, you made a promise to him that you will honor him in sickeness and health and good times in bad. You are going through some bad times. Go on a vaction, try marriage counseling. Do what it takes to stay together. If you go the divorce route..you may be sad later. If you have children, do it for the kids.

Answer 6

make sure you have a plan - just running will not solve the problem - know where you are going, where you can get assistance in getting a job and other support and what you need to do for your divorce and what type of divorce - so you do not end up being abused by the legal system - in his favor

Answer 7

first clam down in anger u can thing to no limit. if u & ur husband has been break u to that extend that no one & nothing in world can help then u can do it . but before think of the future of u & if children any. or even other things.then take a decision.
bye

Answer 8

I'm sure that you put a lot of thought into your original decision to marry, give this decision more thought, you owe it to yourself. Know that you aren't alone in having such thoughts for some they pass but not for others! Good luck!

Answer 9

Your lucky, if you have $1700 in your pocket and he is an ***, run for your life, sounds to me like he's going to break you.

Answer 10

u can't handle him can't u ??? u shouldn't get married if u thinking of divorce u chinken. U gotta face the problem and handle it yourself. There's always a way and divorcing is not an option.

Answer 11

what is the question?? i mean yah their could be alot of reason you should do that but you dont give alot of info?? well contackt me if you can tell me more other peoples opions can help some times but i dont know whats going on if he is cheeting on you or abusing u than yes go for it and dont ever look back