I have a fantasy of my wife making love with another guy. I am not very well endowed, so the thought of her being with a hot studly guy is a big turn on for me, should I tell her about it
2007-04-20 17:59:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can try talking to her about it, who knows she may be interested....
2007-04-20 18:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You can't help what you feel inside. Holding your feelings in can have some negative repercussions. If you don't say what you feel you may have outbursts of some kind or unconsciously you may have dreams or other Freudian activities. Any way the point is you could tell your wife she may be into it, and then you could finally fulfill your fantasy. I believe that it is up to your spouse to do everything they can to please you, and to fulfill your fantasies. The thing is what if she goes threw with it and then she decides that she likes big studly dude better than you? Then what? A divorce? Are you really ready for that, because you need to think about every possibility. Hope this helps.
2007-04-21 01:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not feel that you are very well endowed, put you may be just perfect in her opinion. Why not instead try to put some excitement in your sex life. Visit a dirty bookstore together and find some books, toys, or videos that interest you both. My guess is she probably wouldn't have married you if she wasn't satisfied in bed. Good luck.
2007-04-21 01:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by allykitty63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want to end your marriage. You have some self-esteem issues and should seek the help of a qualified therapist. If you're afraid your wife is unsatisfied in bed, then get creative. Use your imagination in more constructive ways to satisfy her. The secret is on the tip of your tongue.
2007-04-21 02:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't tell her because what if she agrees to do it, then she discovers she likes it better with him then with you. thats how affairs start. but its sweet that you think its to small for her and you want to make it better, but let me tell you its not the size that matters its how you use it. also they make pills now to make you bigger but if your not in to pills what about a penis pump go to www.adamandeve.com to look at some they are great and also you can get toys and sexy outfits there to spice up the bedroom. so heres what you do get a pump and a g string, then pump it up and put on the g string and call her in the room she will be so turned on. good luck and have a blast
2007-04-21 01:53:50 · answer #5 · answered by sexy mama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as it is just a fantasy and not something you actually expect her to do. There is nothing wrong with sharing and maybe even telling her in detail to spice up the bedroom.
2007-04-21 01:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't wrong to feel that way if you are having a hard time pleasing her. But you know her, you know if she is into that kind of thing, if not then I would keep it to myself and if she is then I would mention it to her.
2007-04-21 01:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by Mama Garrison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never wrong to feel something,,,that is how you feel, but I think your wife might be a little weirded out!
2007-04-21 01:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? that's weird. U would actually get turned on seeing ur girl with someone else. U have issues. Anywayz, tell ur wife if u want to about the dream, she might think it's funny. I would laugh especially if they told me it would b a turned on. I don't see nothing wrong with ur dream.
2007-04-21 01:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by grissy 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I don't think its wrong, and if you feel comfortable with it i'd mention it...couldn't tell you what i'd do though, as i've never been married
2007-04-21 01:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋