2007-04-23 22:25:11 · 5 answers · asked by havah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If the woman is in distress over her marital problems and the guy is happily married but loved this woman before his marriage.
2007-04-23 22:26:32 · update #1
Sorry for the 'an' in the question which i forgot to delete.
2007-04-23 22:34:01 · update #2
Dangerous situation headed for disaster perportions. There was a reason this relationship didnt work before both marriages so why would it now. Anything can be potrayed in words on the computer because it lacks the personal touch so becareful. You may be attracted to the idea of being in love itself rather than attracted truly to this person. Think about it before destroying two families
2007-04-23 22:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Societal "rules" will say 2-3 years before getting married and to an extent, I'd agree especially if both are under 25-27 years of age. I married my husband after only 6 months (knew each other for almost a year) and we have been happily married for a year now. Would I recommend it? Even though my situation turned out well, I'd still say no. You have to be 100% damn sure and we were but it's not for everyone. At 31 and 44 respectively we had been through all the bullshit and knew exactly what we wanted for life and marriage so we knew without a doubt we were right for one another. As a friend of mine pointed out yesterday there are many women who are so desperate to marry by a certain age (usually 30) they'll marry any guy who offers even if he's all wrong for her. In my case, I had no interest in marriage but it all came together well and is still going well. Long story short, I do believe it's up to the couple whether it's 1 year or 4 years. No one can tell a couple what is right or wrong for their relationship. For some, the right time without a doubt is 1 year. For others, it's 3 or 4 years. Despite society's "rules" I just don't believe there is one right answer.
2016-05-17 09:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can start straight away, If your married, you already know the warning sings of going into the chat rooms on the net. Things happen so fast and we get lost in cyber space, The real world is a much nice place to be.
2007-04-23 22:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by happy go lucky me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Less than a week if both parties are desperate for attention, but that does not quantify what either party thinks is real is real.
You really cannot get to know another party until you meet them in person; otherwise it is just an emotional fantasy.
2007-04-23 22:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be very quick, I think.
2007-04-23 22:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by PJA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋