ok well me and this guy were together for almost two years and now its over its been about two months..well everyone knows that summer is right around the corner, and i kno that he is going to be out in the summer messing with other girls and like i am hella obsessing over it like im skared to see him with another gurl because it will just break my heart and i dont kno what to do and like people keep telling me " just find sumone else it will help" but its like i dont want anyone else for me and i dont want anyone else for him either *scratches head* please help what should i do to get over this jealousy hes not mine!!! my brain understands but my heart doesnt
2007-04-23 19:14:24 · 10 answers · asked by amanda b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
find someone else.
you'll forget all about him.
2007-04-23 19:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by control 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found that the only thing that can heal a wound like that is time which sucks, I know! So distract yourself. Do something you love to do. That works for me. I watch the same sappy movie everytime I break up with a guy or he breaks up with me. AND if you see him kissing some chick just grab the nearest available guy and kiss him and then the dude will try to come back, but dont let him. It is so much more fun just to drive him nuts... I am just kidding around, but I hope it made you feel better. I know you have your blinders on right now, like he is the ONLY guy in the whole world for you, but there is actually a whole world full of guys out there for you if you just get those tears out of your eyes and look.
2007-04-24 02:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been said that the best way to get over an old romance is to indulge yourself in as many quick romances as you can in as short a time as you can. New guy every night for a week might do it. So they say. Otherwise, look deep inside yourself, see who is really there and what is really important. If you can feel comfortable with yourself, then you can accept what life presents to you...without judgment. He has just dropped the greatest girl in the universe. You know it. He will find out when he tries to date other women. So he is the loser. You are the winner. You are through with a guy that didn't appreciate you. Go on with your life and enjoy the opportunities that are presented to you. Live life and enjoy.
2007-04-24 02:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a few one night stands, go out and party with the girls. Advice from experts say you have to get out as much as possible, whether you're doing your job, out at a club or you can even do volunteer service at an orphanage or something, it'll distract you from your troubles and make you feel good about yourself because you're helping others. Also take up any hobbies you enjoy like painting/writing/playing an instrument, or you could take some kind of workout class like dancing/fencing/yoga, whatever you want. Remember, this is your life, enjoy while you're still here and when you least expect it, another charming guy might come into your life! Have fun w/ or w/out your pals and distract yourself!
2007-04-24 02:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by Treser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And your heart probably won't. But you are suffering not of love-lost but of ego-hurt. It is your ego that's interfering. Just realize that even if you do not want him you do not want anyone else to have him. Which paradoxically makes you want him so that he will not be with anyone else.
Well, get over it. He will be and so will you eventually and you will be better off and so will he. In the meantime you will suffer because of your ego NOT your heart.
2007-04-24 02:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by emiliosailez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adopt a child if you can, and begin a new life, concentrate on your career, or on further studies.
If possible change the city, station, or country if you can and begin a successful life.
Meditation will help in the long run.
Good Luck.
2007-04-24 02:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by sarvedha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yous passion and take his love. A man wants her women to be sexy and every ready and responsive. you should be strong enough then he will not leave you and search for other girls. when he gets what he wants no body will like his girl. this my experience. good luck
2007-04-24 02:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by google_700 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's over, then it's over. You can't stop him from finding someone else, just as he can't stop you. You just have to accept the fact that it didn't work out and move on.
2007-04-24 02:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by traceylenore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy . He doesnt deserve to be with you . you can be with another one that understand you and love you.
2007-04-24 02:35:56 · answer #9 · answered by destination 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your question have anything to do with marriage or divorce ?
2007-04-27 20:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋