Marriage & Divorce - 23 April 2007

my wife and mother in law discuss everything about our marriage. last big fight we had, my mother in law knew everything. of course my wife's side. then on easter her parents came down and her mother totally disrespected me and gave me the silent treatment. i was livid. it's like my wife can't let go of her parents and her mother was the protector. hello we're in our thirties....leave us alone. my wife just said oh that's the way she is. now she wants to go on vacation this summer in a two bedroom condo with her parents and said she talked to her mom but her mom won't change. i'm thinking of saying no way i'm not going around your parents again. she has to choose and it's like she hasn't made the choice to grow up. I'm going to tell her i'm not going to the beach unless i hear her say in front of her mother "do not disrespect my husband like that again". is that to harsh?

2007-04-23 16:25:00 · 22 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1

2007-04-23 16:22:13 · 25 answers · asked by tchwety40 2

i have a narcissistic wife. i'm no professional but i've read up on everything and she fits borderline personality disorder with narcissistic tendencies. she's been through guys like water and i'm the only one she married. she came on strong....sex every day. now it's like give me this and this or i'll leave. it's like i got trapped and she says the meanest things and i'm a pretty tough skinned guy. I can't take the words from the woman i thought loved me. her mother is the same way. they think it's normal to say what you want and forget about it. not only that, they lie and say they didn't say it. one time i taped her saying crap and she said how could i do it. i didn't have any way to convince her and she still denied it. how do you treat these people? i tried the hard approach and the easy approach and nothing works. any psychologists out there want to help me out?

2007-04-23 16:19:20 · 9 answers · asked by survivor 1

cheating *** wife?

So here is the situation. My so called wife cheated on me after about a year and half of marriage. I guess she stayed with me cuz i was sponsoring her and her mother.I was very trusting as I was always at work and trying to build for our future. I dont think she received her green card yet so. What can i do to relieve myself of this problem.

2007-04-23 16:13:29 · 12 answers · asked by TDUNCAN2121 2

My ex boyfriend whom i dated for 3 years, and I broke up around 1 year ago, one monthafter we broke up we were on the verge of getting back together, until one day when i was very depressed about the situation my best friend offered to talk to him for me. Then it was nothing getting back together was not an option for him. It seem as if he knows things about me now, and when ever I call him just to say hi, she calls me very soon after!! Tell me am i being paranoid or am i on to something. Oh yeah I asked him, and he laughed and asked me if i was joking. Please tell me how I can tell and how I can catch them!! It is trully bothering me because she has been my frind for 20 years and she also knows how much I still love this man.

2007-04-23 16:01:07 · 30 answers · asked by Cheryl H 2

I was 23 yrs old and married 3 yrs and believed our marriage was on solid ground until my husband started staying out later and later every evening after work. He told me he was cleaning the office to make more money. I had a 10 month old baby and a 3 yr old.
Next thing I knew was he was cheating and I filed for a divorce. He was so slick about it too. I couldnt believe it.
How do you gain your trust in men back again?
My son and daughter were raised by me alone. I have never been in a relationship since my divorce where I trusted the man. I am always suspicious.
I see young women with new babies and think they are fools for trusing there husbands. They seem so snug and naive.
Am I just a fruit cake? Do most men cheat and how do you get over something like that?

2007-04-23 15:46:52 · 13 answers · asked by happydawg 6

I left my ex boyfriend about 2 months ago because he stopped showing me that he cared (he hardly ever calls and never comes to see me, I would always have to take the train to see him and he has a car), and he never called me, I recently found out that he is talking to somone else, and its really hurting me because I still love him. I just don't understand why he can't just call me? I mean we were together for 2 years. What should I do?

2007-04-23 15:19:11 · 20 answers · asked by KerryAnn 4

2007-04-23 15:15:43 · 15 answers · asked by Tina D 1

In our society how come there is so many broken relationships and divorce and messed up familys ?

2007-04-23 14:37:38 · 20 answers · asked by deltadom33 2

My husband has made plans to take me out for dinner on my birthday, even though 15 years of marriage should tell him that I hate restaurants. He insists on using a brand of laundry detergent that I hate because it smells bad and makes me itch. My kids are being the same way. They argue with everything I say, and it really feels like my opinions don't matter to my family at all. How can I get them to let me have a few things my way?

2007-04-23 14:36:35 · 5 answers · asked by Lesley M 5

Out every night. I just came across the sites and I want to confront him but he might just laugh it off. What should be done?

2007-04-23 14:35:52 · 19 answers · asked by Shannon T 3

I feel sad at work when others talk about their families especially their children.

My daughter lives with her Dad in another state. We talk but not that often. She is upset with me for various reasons.

I feel ashamed of myself for being divorced and not having much of a family life to talk about. People talk about attending their children's games, etc.

I usually spend the weekends by myself running errands and sometimes get together with friends.

I wish that I had a different life, but right now I do not. I can not get back together with my ex-husband because but I can not. I know that he and his mother wanted that and felt that my "future' was with him.

How do I handle this feeling of not belonging because I can not talk about my family at work? I feel ashamed because my child is not doing well and is not with me. I gave him custody during the divorce.

2007-04-23 14:22:47 · 6 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

I got divorced almost a year ago and my ex has not come and picked up the stuff he asked for in the divorce, is there a time limit when I no longer have to give it to him? I live in the state of Nebraska if that helps!!! Thanks

2007-04-23 14:06:49 · 17 answers · asked by foxyhdgrl 4

he got marry after i found out about the baby. he threaten me to get rid of the child and sent girls out after me so i could loose the baby, if he pays child support, can i put an order saying he cant see the baby since he was a harm to me and the fetus?


im from california

2007-04-23 13:59:45 · 19 answers · asked by precious 1

i was just curious, because hes trying to get me for hcild support because my son is with him more than he is me, but were not legally seperated.

but i was told that I have full custody since i had our son BEFORE we got married, i am in ohio. that is correct isnt it?
i just wanna be prepared for tomorrow.
thanks

2007-04-23 13:56:45 · 12 answers · asked by mariaprichard 1

I did not find out until many years later that he is her ex-husbands child. (ex-husband is now deceased) I brought the issue up during the divorce proceedings, but the court said I had to pay because they did not want to affect the child physcologically. He is now 14 and knows I am not his father. Should I do anything?

2007-04-23 13:28:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex hasn't paid child support in months and he finally sent in the papers to have it taken out of his checks. My question is what about all the back child support he owes. Will they take an additional percentage to make up for it? (He owes like at least $1,500 right now.) Let's say he owes $300 a month in child support and only made $300. Would he get a check at all?

2007-04-23 13:24:41 · 5 answers · asked by Jenae, TV (tempter of the vile) 5

the minute i got home. she claims they are just friends but i think it is very disrespectful to talk to another man at 2 o'clock in the morning. i am wrong, she thinks its fine. please help, i dont think i am crazy for being upset

2007-04-23 13:10:05 · 33 answers · asked by destick816 2

Why do you think some married men and women lose interest in making love.

2007-04-23 12:55:51 · 14 answers · asked by John M 2

Bieng alone and unmarried but desire for sex. How should I avoid this.

2007-04-23 12:53:03 · 12 answers · asked by banyamin12 1

I know i can do dessertion after 5 years but i don't really want to wait that long.

2007-04-23 12:41:50 · 9 answers · asked by Cadet_kate 1

I am divorced and living aboard. In an agreement we will sell the house and share the money equally. The house is on sell now, but my ex-wife and her new boy friend has been living in the house since divorce. What can I do?

2007-04-23 12:10:40 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you are aquantances and dont know eachother that well...

2007-04-23 12:06:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-23 12:03:07 · 8 answers · asked by pluto 1

2007-04-23 11:53:46 · 4 answers · asked by Suzanne O 1

I have been divorce for two years. He has now decided that he did not get it right and is coming back for my pension.

2007-04-23 11:49:05 · 11 answers · asked by Suzanne O 1

Or, is it only unconditional love when you are still loving yourself at least as much as you love that person?

2007-04-23 11:43:52 · 33 answers · asked by mis_anona 2

For you married people, do you sometimes look at your mate and fill so much love for them you cry a little because of the joy in your heart

2007-04-23 11:38:10 · 7 answers · asked by ZO 2

2007-04-23 11:36:03 · 11 answers · asked by mark g 1

u have to

2007-04-23 11:29:55 · 6 answers · asked by mark g 1