Out every night. I just came across the sites and I want to confront him but he might just laugh it off. What should be done?
2007-04-23 14:35:52 · 19 answers · asked by Shannon T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its too early to confront, cheating is a serious accusation and if you are not 100% sure confronting is probably not a good idea. They can always, and I mean always cover it up.
Dont confront with out enough proof, just knowing he is on dating site isn't enough. Gather some more evidence that he cant laugh or lie his way out.
you can get more evidence by things like
plant a small taperecorder in the car
us a GPS or follow him
tap into emails or messages or profile on these sites
no matter what - you need proof and you know your man better than anyone else. . . . go with your gut!
2007-04-23 14:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First,print out some of the damaging evidence. then, go on the computer and bring up legal info. for divorce.make it look real good and have it somewhere so when he goes on to the computer,he'll see it. When he asks you about it, just hand him your handy paperwork.See if he laughs that off.....If he sees your divorce site and doesn't say any thing, he may want a divorce,too.He just didn't want to be the one to get it. Either way, you'll find out what his motives are.
2007-04-23 23:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure you've got a valid reason for having been on the same sites he was. Otherwise, it just makes you both look like you're cheating (or trying to).
As for him being out every night, you might want to discuss that with him...it sounds fishy.
2007-04-23 21:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Create your own listing on the same site under a fake name then contact him through a messanger or something to that sort. Then if you really want to test him ask to meet him, this will truly test him wether its just a regular married guy who likes to look or if you need to be worried because he might actually go do something.
2007-04-23 21:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by pc_porter 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to Divorce.com...thats the best anti-dating site out there...okay I dont actually know what is on that site, but someone has to own it! He is clearly looking for a replacement or something on the side though...
2007-04-23 21:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by JP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cut out a picture and post it as a decoy.
Write letters to your husband in a fictitious name.
Arrange for a meeting at a certain place at a certain time.
Be there and surprise him.
If he shows up, leave him. He is cheater !
2007-04-23 22:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by kenneth h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you want...
Do you want to be with someone that will sneak around behind your back? Do you believe he is inclined to stop?
Do you want to 'change' him?
Do you want to stand up for yourself and take control of your life?
Do you simply want to punish him?
My strongest recommendation is ponder the options before you confront him.
He doesn't sound all too nice.
2007-04-23 21:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him! Or you can be sly and one night when he's out act like him online and just see what's going on! i'm sure you can figure out his password if you know how to bust into his email!
2007-04-23 21:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mellycat123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whos cares what he does? He is obviously a cheater. Either leave him or deal with it. There is no two ways about it. Choose one.
*pc_porter has a good idea.
2007-04-23 21:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by Millionaire in training 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i say you follow him and find out what he is doing? find out where he is goin, make a surprize date for lunch. show up at his job and take him out to lunch, meet him after work for a surprize dinner, start to talk to the girls around his job and find out whats goin on. follow him or have a girlfreind follow him. spy on him. hey he is your man you havw the right to do that. check phone records and make sure he isnt ruining your life by cheating.good luck.
2007-04-23 21:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋