Isn't true love unconditional? doesn't that mean the other person should be able to cheat?

Question

Or, is it only unconditional love when you are still loving yourself at least as much as you love that person?

Answer 1

There is no such thing as unconditional love from a woman. It used to be that it was a coveted item to be secure that you provided for your wife and children and they love you for what you did and who you were. Then when women wanted equal rights they were misinterpreted and instead of 50%-50% which designates community property, became more like women wanted to make decisions but only be responsible for 50% in the case they were wrong. Well, that is what you got and more and you think that with equality and the rights that men lost due to the lies and deceit of women that sought dollars instead of security, power instead of love, should have any compacity for giving to women any type of unconditional love. Give me a break. Unconditional love is a thing of the past as men need to protect themselves as our courts have lost the ability to provide any type of protection from the feminine gender. The answer is no, you cannot have it. You got what you wanted and women need to live with it. The good things that went away should have been thought about before you had to have equality. Some of them are not available at a price and cannot be bought. No man can be made to provide unconditional love and that is just one of the good things women lost. No wonder some of the women that cringe when they hear women's rights know how many of the good things that money cannot buy went away because of femnists. Due to a few that got together and decided they wanted to be treated equally as men set a standard for women and men. Feel the fallout of what happened. It was not our fault and well, we will not be responsible for it just because you put it into a flowery pot and say how pretty it is. Crap is crap and smells the same. Rights of women became the taking of rights of men and that is wrong no matter how you slice it up and then you want us to continue to provide you with emotional things that would leave us open to the steel of the femnists, i think not.

Answer 2

Depends on your feelings about cheating. Some people have "open" relationships and are very happy that way.

I, myself, see unconditional love as loving the other person no matter what. (Helping them "bury the bodies" kind of love.) That doesn't mean I have to STAY with them. I can love someone that cheated on me. I would not stay with them, though, since their love for me wasn't enough to keep them from going elsewhere for sex. Unconditional, to me, is a two way street.

Personally, I don't think love SHOULD be given unconditionally. I think there should be rules and tolerances, mainly for safety and emotional issues.

For example, a single mom should not give unconditional love to a man that wants nothing to do with her children.

Answer 3

does this give the person the right to be able to cheat NO. When you are in a relationship there are certain things that should be respected. The unconditional love comes in when the person cheats and the relationship falls apart .... doesnt mean that the other person doesnt love the cheater anymore - but they now have to let them go.

Answer 4

unconditional love is something that a mother has for her child. the child could do anything wrong but the mother still loves her child no matter what. unconditional love comes from my puppy, she gets scolded everyday for something or other, but every day she greets me and loves me like i have been gone forever! there is no unconditional love with a man and a woman, either partner can easily hurt the other to a point that they end up divorced. so in answer to your question, no true love is not unconditional!

Answer 5

There is no such thing as unconditional love. Monogamy is a condition of love. Being trust worthy is a condition of love. Reciprocating love is a condition of love. The only people in the world who experience unconditional love are children. Some pets experience unconditional love. Do you understand? Good luck.

Answer 6

I like what tklover2002 said. I'm not sure what kind of answer that you are looking to hear. But unconditional love. It comes with much work, but so does any relationship. If you can give unconditional love, then you give much more than you think, & it's worth much more than diamonds or gold. It shows great characture, strength, courage to be able to love someone unconditionally. As well as a ton more adjectives!

Answer 7

yes it is true that true love is unconditional , but the olny one who loves like that is GOD , we as humans love unconditionally for short periods of time , the we go to conditional love , when somebody cheats , it always hurts the person who was loving them , just because somebody is loving and individual , doesn't give the other party the right to cheat either , and if 2 people are loving each other unconditionally , there will not be enough room 2 cheat.

Answer 8

Who ever said it has to be unconditional in order to be true love? Love doesn't mean being a doormat. God is the only one capable of unconditional love.. the rest of us are too human to pull that off.

Answer 9

Unconditional love means you love and accept the person for who they are (good and bad), as well as loving yourself also. Afterall, how can you even claim to love someone if you don't love yourself first. This doesn't mean that you should allow them to cheat on you or to even tolerate it if they did because that goes against loving yourself. In a marriage, your marriage vows says "to forsake all others". It doesn't say,
"forsake all others except the guy/gal on the internet, at work or the bar".

Answer 10

no such thing as unconditional. if its true love, then you wouldn't want to cheat. unconditional is seen in a parent's love for a child, but in a relationship there are conditions that must be met.